Age to begin

Sin

I'm not great a tying, I wouldn't dare suspend anyone. It's quicker and easier using carabiners for the fun stuff! I have a harness, armbinder, thighband set that I got in Japan and I've been a willing participant in a couple of Shibari set-ups but it's not something I'm confident to do alone. Nothing crazy anyway!

Avery

Sin Yummy stuff. I have some wrist and ankle cuffs. Only thing I ever did alone was some hogtieing. A turn-on wondering what would happen if you can't get out.

Jen

Sin Nothing crazy anyway!

Lol - that's relative

dvoraks

Avery thanks , we and she think +- the same

carg

Avery Please be very careful with self-bondage. This page about bondage safety has a lot of useful tips.
With me the video won't start, but these links do: safety 101 and safety 102. I've worked with the model, and she is very knowledgeable (and fun).

Avery

carg I appreciate that. There is definitely some danger. I was always more worried about be found tied up naked by one of my brothers or worse yet my Dad.

carg

Avery I was always more worried about be found tied up naked by one of my brothers or worse yet my Dad.

Then tie yourself up wearing clothes :-P
Yes, of course that is a worry as well, but at least I assume not life-threatening. (could be life-changing) But that will be a worry of the past, now that you don't live at home anymore, unless there is e.g. a roommate or someone who has a spare key in case you manage to lock yourself out.

Avery

carg Then tie yourself up wearing clothes :-P

Well the idea is once hogtied to frottage yourself against the bed 'til you cum so being naked helps.

carg unless there is e.g. a roommate or someone who has a spare key in case you manage to lock yourself out.

We have a suite arrangement so you have your own room which you can lock. Of course the school has keys to all the doors in the dorms so one could be interrupted by the maintenance staff.

Joh

Avery Well the idea is once hogtied to frottage yourself against the bed 'til you cum so being naked helps.

You can find reports of self bondage that tell of the experiences of what can go wrong. Some times they have only just escaped death.
It already starts with the fact that the key falls unhappily and is no longer accessible. Or very popular the key in a block of ice that slowlymelts. Stupid if one has mixed up the key.

Joh

Avery I want on my own to keep myself clean so when I meet a guy I really want I can give him something that's worth giving away.

How does it fit with your other posting?

Avery Well the idea is once hogtied to frottage yourself against the bed 'til you cum so being naked helps.

This sounds like you had relevant experience.

Angelina

dvoraks she says she likes it, she feels it's right, she doesn't distract herself and she can focus on the essentials, it prevents her from doing bad things, she feels safe. she thinks it's right.

sounds good and if she still thinks so in a few months we can discuss about her own belt, just not yet 😉

Sin But hey, I guess you're just a little bit limited. No probs. I didn't realise there was such a thing as softcore parental bondage.

without having anything against you in general, but I would like to file a complaint against this sentence. @Laura is there a way? I find this insulting, it is no longer a factual discussion.

And again in general, we can discuss anything here and I am a very open person, but the accusation that my father and I would do anything perverted is unacceptable, but I think I will stop at that point to continue this discussion.

Laura

Angelina @Laura is there a way?

I was about to clean this topic anyway

Joh

Angelina but the accusation that my father and I would do anything perverted is unacceptable

@Sin I understand you point of view and I agree with you. But this direct head-on confrontation will get us nowhere.

@Angelina We had this discussion already done. Following the German law what your father did is child abuse and could also seen as perverted. I leave it to the judiciary to ultimately judge on this.
We know you don't accept this law and you insist that what happens in the family is none of the state's business. We cam to the agreement we do not agree.
Under these conditions @Sin name it as it is. But it does not need further discussion. Everything has been said.

Angelina

Laura I was about to clean this topic anyway

thank you 🙂

Joh Under these conditions @Sin name it as it is.

of course, but i expect at least a little respect. we can discuss the matter but not against individual persons

Avery

Joh You can find reports of self bondage that tell of the experiences of what can go wrong. Some times they have only just escaped death.
It already starts with the fact that the key falls unhappily and is no longer accessible. Or very popular the key in a block of ice that slowlymelts. Stupid if one has mixed up the key.

All true. Then there are the people that asphyxiate themselves. Fortunately I'm not doing any of the above.

Joh

Avery Best is you have a trustworthy partner.

Avery

Joh Best is you have a trustworthy partner.

My sisters, no one else I'd be willing to be tied up naked with.

Joh

Avery My sisters,

Oh, your sister shares your kink. Nice and you are lucky.

Vanessa

Avery . I also gave up masturbation

Why?

Do you manage it easily?

Avery

Congratulations!

Avery my thong bikini bottom

Forbidden to wear it?

Sin

Seems lot of fun!🙂

Avery

You would not be embarrassed if they see you naked and tied?

Avery

Joh Oh, your sister shares your kink. Nice and you are lucky.

Well you get to get off and you can't get pregnant doing it.

Joh

Avery Well you get to get off and you can't get pregnant doing it.

Yes, of coarse another benefit. As I wrote you are very luck.

Avery

Vanessa Why?

Do you manage it easily?

To make a sacrifice. Since I have no boyfriend there was no possibility of sex that way so I was not giving up anything by not getting laid. To give up something I also had to give up masturbating. It was not that hard really because we were starting school again and there was studying and running to keep me busy.

Vanessa Forbidden to wear it?

Yes, have to have most of my ass covered.

Vanessa You would not be embarrassed if they see you naked and tied?

Yes, but if I can't get untied myself I need them to get me out.

Vanessa

Avery To give up something I also had to give up masturbating.

But why you wanted to give up something?

Avery Yes, have to have most of my ass covered.

Good you manage to hide it,so!😉

Avery Yes, but if I can't get untied myself I need them to get me out.

Yes,a not too bad solution,so.

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