Training, masturbation and concerns

Vanessa

It seems you're willing to wear your chastity belt,right?

60mn per day can be manageable,but you should try it a bit before,to decide your own pace.

About sleeping in the chastity belt,it may be hard at first,partly because it is unusual to wear such device when trying to sleep,you may need some time to find a good position,and partly as your urges can disturb you.

As you may have guessed due to my precedent sentence,when it is locked,you won't be able to "play with yourself" anymore;My-Steel is a good brand,and very secure.

Good if you're proud of it;not my case,but I'm wearing it reluctantly(parents' decision),so I don't feel the same than you.

aslan_asena My mum wants me to stay focused on school and on my household tasks. I must confess that I can be very lazy sometimes. She says that my attitude will improve, when she holds my keys.

Not sure.It depends a lot on each person;genarally,wearers tend to think more about sex while wearing it,but,for some,they tend to focus more on other things,to not be too much aroused,as it can't be relieved,and can be very frustrating.

Amira I recognise that I don't think about it all the time anymore since a couple of days.

You should not tell it to your parents,or you're going to have to wear it permanently,with no breaks anymore...

aslan_asena I'm in my belt now and it feels great. It's not cold or sharp.

Good you like the feelings and it fits you well!🙂

aslan_asena I will ask her what we could do about releases for enjoying myself.

I don't want to scare you,but I doubt she allows it.However,even if there is a few wearers here who have breaks,most of us don't,and several of us haven't experienced an orgasm since several years...

aslan_asena Peeing was quite strange to me. It felt like wetting my underwear.

Spray bottle or similar can help!😉

aslan_asena I will, of course, strictly hide my belt.

Wise decision,but you would have to adapt your clothes to it.Better no one notice it.

Angelina

Right!😉

Angelina

aslan_asena Schön. I like Köln. 😃

I'm a ruhrpott girl but i like köln too 😃

Vanessa Not sure.It depends a lot on each person;genarally,wearers tend to think more about sex while wearing it,but,for some,they tend to focus more on other things,to not be too much aroused,as it can't be relieved,and can be very frustrating.

i would say in the beginning we focus more on sex because in the beginning we are also aroused by the belt. with time it becomes less because we try to avoid frustration

Amira So I think it could be benficial for some 🙂

it depends on what we want. we can also spend a nice evening with belt. but not much more

aslan_asena

Vanessa It seems you're willing to wear your chastity belt,right?

Thank you for sharing your experiences. :-)

Yes, I am indeed proud of my belt. I feel stronger and more beautiful when wearing it. But, of course, there are also worries concerning 24/7. I enjoy my strokings at night and my clit is also too sensitive to be ignored. So, I may experience some demanding times in future?!

Today, I had to finish my wearing after 190 min. due to some minor skin irritations under the belt. Fortunately, they became better after using lotion.

I also tried different dresses. Skirts, t-shirts and blouses work and leggings can be worn under long dresses. So, I will surely have no troubles with my clothes.

I also gathered all my courage and asked mum about masturbation breaks after 24/7 starts. She just smiled, rolled up my t-shirt and fixed her sight on my waist band ... After my heart started beating like a drum machine, she finally said, that there will be a system of rewards and punishments and that she will share the details with me after the beginning of 24/7.

I don't know if this are good or bad news?!

At least, there should be occasional relief periods, shouldn't they?

Selin_Weiss

Amira and if we have here 10 percent then maybe the chance for a Muslim girl to get a belt is double compared to a not Muslim girl 🙂

Do you think it would be beneficial if female chastity belts were more known and common in the Muslim community in Germany?

Maybe some girls from conservative families could have more freedom with it (e. g. going out with friends or on parties, travelling etc.)?

Amira

Selin_Weiss
I think it is better to wear a chastity belt than to wear a hijab. The problem with this is that the Quran doesn't know about chastity belts. Well, Hijab isn't mentioned directly either, so that shouldn't be a problem. Same about going out alone without a male relative.
So I think it could be benficial for some 🙂

Amira

Angelina
Yes, I agree, but if the other option is to stay at home or with a male relative all the time the answer becomes more easy.

Vanessa

Angelina i would say in the beginning we focus more on sex because in the beginning we are also aroused by the belt.

Maybe.Maybe too because we tend to often want things that are out of reach,which is exactly the case about orgasms while wearing a chastity belt.

It would be interesting to know how women wearing an abstinence belt feel.

Angelina we try to avoid frustration

Not always successful,however....🙁

Angelina we can also spend a nice evening with belt. but not much more

Which could cause more frustration than usual,however.

aslan_asena

If you enjoy it,it would be easier for you to wear it,at least!🙂

About self pleasuring,it can be very hard to be prevented to do it,but not uncommon.It seems it won't be the case for you(which is good),but I'm not sure the rewards and punishments system is good too...

Good you can still wear most of your clothes,while hiding your chastity belt.

Do you know if your parents think about using thigh bands and/or chastity bra?It restricts more the possible clothes to wear....

I think it is better to have relief periods,but many parents think differently.There is only a few of us which have some.

Angelina try to concentrate on other things in the beginning, even if it is hard. but otherwise it is almost unbearable

Not always possible...Even more at the start.

aslan_asena Don't think that this will be easy.

It don't want to scare you,but it won't.🙁

aslan_asena I'am happy about this. But also don't know why mum will tell the details only after 24/7 begins. I still have some doubts ...

Maybe she prefers you to concentrate on wearing the belt,not the time without it.Or the rewards would be hard to obtain;and she fears it will make you hesitate about wearing the belt.

aslan_asena Well, at least the arousal issue might be solved.

It is manageable,at least.

aslan_asena Mother nature seems to have blessed me with a super-sensitive clit ...

Which can be pleasant sometimes,when not wearing a chastity belt!😉

Angelina

Amira

that's right, we take what we can get 😉

Amira

Angelina
it's the fate of so many girls with conservative parents so I am pretty happy actually 🙂

Angelina

Amira it's the fate of so many girls with conservative parents so I am pretty happy actually 🙂

it does not necessarily have to be conservative, even revolutionary could think like that 🙂

Renita

Amira I dont think that chastity belts are really common in german muslim communities.

Not sure about Germany, but heard about U.A.E.

Amira

Renita
as far as I know the society there seems to be pretty closely knit together

Angelina

aslan_asena Today, I had to finish my wearing after 190 min. due to some minor skin irritations under the belt. Fortunately, they became better after using lotion.

the skin takes time to get used to, but it gets better 😉

aslan_asena I enjoy my strokings at night and my clit is also too sensitive to be ignored. So, I may experience some demanding times in future?!

try to concentrate on other things in the beginning, even if it is hard. but otherwise it is almost unbearable

aslan_asena she finally said, that there will be a system of rewards and punishments and that she will share the details with me after the beginning of 24/7.

it sounds to me like you will get breaks if you behave well and do your tasks well 🙂

but you also have to consider that your mother can control you completely, which would scare me 🙁

BikelockFugitive

aslan_asena Never agree to a contract you haven't read.
That's the first step of getting screwed over.

(Also never agree to contracts with people who were a black poodle shortly before, didn't work out well for the last guy who tried it)

aslan_asena

Thank you for your answer.

Angelina try to concentrate on other things in the beginning, even if it is hard. but otherwise it is almost unbearable

Don't think that this will be easy. To make things worse, the push of the front shield sometimes has a stimulating effect on my private area ...

Angelina it sounds to me like you will get breaks if you behave well and do your tasks well

I'am happy about this. But also don't know why mum will tell the details only after 24/7 begins. I still have some doubts ...

Angelina but you also have to consider that your mother can control you completely, which would scare me

Isn't this also the case with you? Don't your parents control your belt?

Angelina

aslan_asena Don't think that this will be easy. To make things worse, the push of the front shield sometimes has a stimulating effect on my private area ...

I know it's not easy, I've been through it myself. You get used to the pressure after a while and then it's no longer stimulating.

aslan_asena I'am happy about this. But also don't know why mum will tell the details only after 24/7 begins. I still have some doubts ...

she probably wants to make sure you really go through with it

aslan_asena Isn't this also the case with you? Don't your parents control your belt?

i rather meant that your mother can blackmail you. for example: you do now ... for that you get an hour off

aslan_asena

Angelina You get used to the pressure after a while

Hopefully, this will happen soon. 😀

Angelina

aslan_asena Hopefully, this will happen soon. 😀

by this I only mean that it no longer stimulates you. the pressure as such is always there 🙁

aslan_asena

Angelina by this I only mean that it no longer stimulates you. the pressure as such is always there

Well, at least the arousal issue might be solved. Mother nature seems to have blessed me with a super-sensitive clit ...

Angelina

aslan_asena Mother nature seems to have blessed me with a super-sensitive clit ...

generally an advantage, but a disadvantage if you wear a chastity belt 🙁

Vanessa It would be interesting to know how women wearing an abstinence belt feel.

so I would like a more detailed report on the daughter of @HHelen 😉

Vanessa Which could cause more frustration than usual,however.

try not to sound so negative, try to look at it positively 🙂

Tobbe

aslan_asena Mother nature seems to have blessed me with a super-sensitive clit ...

Long time in chastity belt can make the clit less sensitive.
Even if clit rubs against the belt, after a while it will become "tired" and endure that touch.

aslan_asena

Vanessa Thank you for your detailed answer and your empathy.

Fortunately, mum doesn't want to use chastity bras and leg bands. She says that this would be too much and that my belt has a sufficient quality level. 😃

And yes, a sensitive clit can be amazing, getting aroused by the front shield's push is also nice, but what about future times with 24/7? :-(

HHelen

Angelina so I would like a more detailed report on the daughter of @HHelen

I can't tell too much until she starts going outside alone.

Vanessa

Angelina generally an advantage, but a disadvantage if you wear a chastity belt 🙁

Right.

Angelina so I would like a more detailed report on the daughter of @HHelen 😉

It would probably be interesting,yes.

Angelina try not to sound so negative, try to look at it positively 🙂

Not always easy...

aslan_asena Thank you for your detailed answer and your empathy.

You're welcome!🙂

aslan_asena Fortunately, mum doesn't want to use chastity bras and leg bands. She says that this would be too much and that my belt has a sufficient quality level. 😃

Good,it's not pleasant at all.

aslan_asena And yes, a sensitive clit can be amazing, getting aroused by the front shield's push is also nice, but what about future times with 24/7? :-(

It is going to be hard at first,but you would manage it.

aslan_asena But there was a little embarrassment, when mum inspected my belt and skin. Since I still have this arousal issue with the front shield, there was quite a large amount of vaginal fluid on and around the shield's peeing holes. I felt really uncomfortable when mum noticed it. In the beginning, she seemed to ignore it, but then, she smiled and said: "Hopefully, my darling will not ask for a front dildo ...". I got read like a tomatoe, while mum had fun and laughed about her little joke. :-(

I agree it was embarrassing,but I think your mother reaction,joking about it,was the right one,she probably wanted to help you feel better(even if it seems it hasn't worked much,unhappily).

aslan_asena She said that saying yes to it may positively affect the frequency of my releases for enjoying myself.

The first reward?

HHelen

When is it planned?

Angelina maybe your daughter can write here herself ?

It would be interesting too.

aslan_asena Yes, it was awkward ...

Try to joke with her about it,next time,if you're not too embarrassed,it can help,I think.

aslan_asena Mum cares much about my health.

Good,it is very important.

aslan_asena oday we talked about the issue with the shorter period. And I also bought groceries while wearing my belt for the first time. It was very electrifying to be in a crowd of people with a hidden secret ... 😁 (Oh folks, if you only knew ...). Since I wore a long dress, I absolutely didn't have to worry if anyone could notice anything.

A big step!

aslan_asena I agreed to training program # 2 and mum assured, that this will surely result in benefits concerning relief & releases. In case of feeling uncomfortable, I may switch back to program # 1. But this decision would then be irreversible and I would loose all benefits.

Good decision.Try your best to not return to program #1,it would be bad to lose the rewards...

aslan_asena "Belted Netflix"

It can help to not think too much about it!😉

Tobbe

I agree.

Amira I think so, yes.

🙁

aslan_asena I watched Westworld, season III.

I'm jealous,Westworld isn't available on Netflix in France(probably exclusive to OCS)!

aslan_asena

As I said on the other thread:congratulations;it's another big step.

aslan_asena I don't know if staying away from masturbation without being belted is even harder than remaining a "good girl" while being behind lock and key.

I think it is harder to resist the urges to relieve yourself than if the chastity belt made it impossible,at least.But the chastity belt will make these feelings very frustrating,especially if fighting or trying to cheat on it without any success...

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