Fooling around with boys

HHelen

Vanessa Maybe she has changed because she got older,not because she wanted sex...

No, she started fooling around with boys.

Angelina

HHelen No, she started fooling around with boys.

that's normal at 18, normaly a few years earlier.

Vanessa

Angelina you are the living proof 🙂

😉

And I don't regret it! 😛

HHelen No, she started fooling around with boys.

Many of them?Or only her boyfriend?

In the first case,I can understand you(even if I agree with @Angelina,it is common and pretty normal),but in the second case,it it is totally logical,and,in my opinion,should be ok(especially if they're in love).

Angelina

Vanessa And I don't regret it! 😛

🤣

Vanessa In the first case,I can understand you(even if I agree with @Angelina,it is common and pretty normal),but in the second case,it it is totally logical,and,in my opinion,should be ok(especially if they're in love).

that's right, there should be a clear distinction if she has hung out with several boys or just met with her boyfriend

HHelen

Vanessa Many of them?Or only her boyfriend?

Many. I didn't know about this boyfriend until recently.

Vanessa In the first case,I can understand you(even if I agree with @Angelina,it is common and pretty normal),but in the second case,it it is totally logical,and,in my opinion,should be ok(especially if they're in love).

A chastity belt is needed in both cases.

Angelina

HHelen A chastity belt is needed in both cases.

maybe (from your point of view), but character-wise it makes a big difference if she meets a lot of men or with her boyfriend 😉

Vanessa

HHelen Many. I didn't know about this boyfriend until recently.

Would have you reacted differently if she only did it with a boyfriend?

Have you noticed some changes about it since she wears her chastity belt?

HHelen A chastity belt is needed in both cases.

I think it is totally normal to have intimacy with her boyfriend;flirting with several men,I can understand some people won't like this behavior(even if she's only flirting,and not goes more far,it is not a big problem,but can impact badly her reputation).

Angelina

Vanessa I think it is totally normal to have intimacy with her boyfriend;flirting with several men,I can understand some people won't like this behavior(even if she's only flirting,and not goes more far,it is not a big problem,but can impact badly her reputation).

that's right, many parents should finally learn that there is a difference between just sexual lust and sexual lust for love 😉

HHelen

Vanessa Would have you reacted differently if she only did it with a boyfriend?

One boyfriend means a higher risk of sex.

Vanessa I think it is totally normal to have intimacy with her boyfriend;flirting with several men,I can understand some people won't like this behavior

I never said it's not normal. So, let her do it with the belt on.

Vanessa

Angelina

I agree.It is very different.

HHelen One boyfriend means a higher risk of sex.

Logical,but not bad,if they took care to protect themselves.

HHelen I never said it's not normal. So, let her do it with the belt on.

With a chastity belt,they can't have the same intimacy than without it,however...

Angelina but is it rather your concern that your daughter has fun with her boyfriend or that she falls for the wrong men?

As she didn't know her daughter had a boyfriend(or who it is)when she decided to use a chastity belt,it is probably not related to who her boyfriend is.

Angelina

HHelen One boyfriend means a higher risk of sex.

but only the risk for sex with one man, but a lower risk for sex with many men 🙂

HHelen I never said it's not normal. So, let her do it with the belt on.

but is it rather your concern that your daughter has fun with her boyfriend or that she falls for the wrong men?

Angelina

Vanessa As she didn't know her daughter had a boyfriend(or who it is)when she decided to use a chastity belt,it is probably not related to who her boyfriend is.

but she still holds on to the chastity belt even though she now knows that her daughter is in a relationship, so at least now it is also a reason

HHelen

Vanessa Logical,but not bad,if they took care to protect themselves.

I disagree.

Vanessa With a chastity belt,they can't have the same intimacy than without it,however...

That's the purpose.

Vanessa

Angelina

It added a reason,I think.

HHelen I disagree.

I'm not very surprised!😉

HHelen That's the purpose.

🙁

Angelina but it could damage her relationship 🙁

It's a risk,yes.But it would depends;if they're truly in love,they may manage it(even more if they haven't had sex before,they would miss it less).Let's hope it would be the case!

Angelina

HHelen That's the purpose.

but it could damage her relationship 🙁

HHelen

Angelina but it could damage her relationship

Then it was a weak relationship if it could be damaged this way.

Angelina

Vanessa Let's hope it would be the case!

of course that's why I write could 😉

Vanessa

Angelina

Right! 😉

HHelen

I've to admit you may be right....However,it is understandable he could be shocked,and react badly(like breaking-up with her),it is pretty uncommon to wear a chastity belt.Let's hope it wouldn't be the case.

Angelina

Even if the relationship has started soon,I doubt it would change @HHelen's decision...

Angelina

HHelen

that may be true, but you really need to talk to your daughter and know how long the relationship has been going on, this is very important