Chastity bra

HHelen

saras I am in my bra now but only wear it on and off (not up to me of course)

What are the rules? Do you only wear it at home or also outside?

saras he would only let me move back in if i obeyed the rules

I think he was right. His home his rules. You always had a choice to not move back.

saras

HHelen What are the rules? Do you only wear it at home or also outside?

outside as well. essentially he lets me out only if he if there and hes in a good mood. Never can I be alone without it

HHelen

saras he lets me out only if he if there and hes in a good mood

Why does it depend on his mood rather than your behavior?

saras

I asked my dad about air holes and he said he will not drill into it. I looked online and did find bras which are not solid but have slits in side (similar to fancy steel) but im concerned that if i ask he will
a) see it as an investment to lock me for longer
b) decide i need new stuff and buy thigh bands
so i do not know what to do

Laura

saras a) see it as an investment to lock me for longer

He will definitely want you to wear it even if you decide to move out shortly.
Otherwise no reason to spend more money

saras b) decide i need new stuff and buy thigh bands

He could do it from the beginning, but but whatever reason he didn't do it

saras so i do not know what to do

Move out now

Angelina

Vanessa I would have thought so,too.And I hadn't a training before my first wearing of it(but unlike you,it is not permanent wearing,it may impact how we feel about a training for it).

yes, i think in your case it is acceptable that there was no training because you don't wear it permanently (even though it would be better of course).

Vanessa As @saras have known both situations,it seems it is the case;It seems it is harder for her now.

right, i think that clears up a big discussion here on the forum 😉

saras so i do not know what to do

first of all, ask him why he doesn't want to drill air holes? otherwise, if you are handy, you can do it yourself.

Vanessa

saras yes

Sorry for you...

saras some yes. hopefully i will soon

Good luck!

saras It was always going to be a situation where i had sex often. It was more a prolonged foreplay

Very different than now,so.

saras was that why you were put in it?

At first,it was a punishment for masturbating/having sex;now,it is permanently,to prevent me to do it.

saras he said he will not drill into it

Why?

saras bras which are not solid but have slits in side

Would he accept these ones?

saras see it as an investment to lock me for longer

Anyway,it seems it would be the case until you move out,so not much changes...

saras decide i need new stuff and buy thigh bands

It is a risk,yes,even if not very related.

Have you the D-rings on your belt?

Laura Move out now

She may not afford it.

Angelina yes, i think in your case it is acceptable that there was no training because you don't wear it permanently (even though it would be better of course).

I agree.

Angelina right, i think that clears up a big discussion here on the forum 😉

Yes!

saras at first I thought it was a joke but i soon realised he wanted to relock me and if i wanted to move in i had no choice, If not for Covid I would have moved out a long time ago so it wouldnt hae been a big deal

Understandable;if only for a while,it seemed bearable(even if unpleasant and uncommon),but lasted longer than expected.

saras

Except if you need his financial support,or if he tells you it would break the relationship with your family,for example.

Renita

saras some yes. hopefully i will soon

Then don't worry about air holes or a new bra.

Christine

saras he has always been against masturbation and sex before marriage

However he let you move out without marriage and the belt.

saras it sucks to be back locked now.

What was your first reaction? "Daddy, do you remember how old I am?"

Angelina There seem to be a lot of them

No, her situation seems more extreme even than mine.

saras hopefully i will soon

I doubt.

Angelina

Christine No, her situation seems more extreme even than mine.

a bit yes, she is older and wears more devices

saras

Christine

Christine However he let you move out without marriage and the belt.

he cant stop me moving out but while im there hes in charge

Christine What was your first reaction? "Daddy, do you remember how old I am?"

at first I thought it was a joke but i soon realised he wanted to relock me and if i wanted to move in i had no choice, If not for Covid I would have moved out a long time ago so it wouldnt hae been a big deal

Christine

saras he cant stop me moving out

He could not let you back if you moved out without his approval.

Angelina she is older and wears more devices

And also it seems she doesn't mind.

Laura

saras he cant stop me moving

But he could ask you to keep wearing it

Angelina

saras he cant stop me moving out but while im there hes in charge

Understandable, since you get a certain financial compensation.

Renita

saras at first I thought it was a joke but i soon realised he wanted to relock me and if i wanted to move in i had no choice

What is his actual goal? To kick you out or to keep your chaste as a parent of an unwed daughter?

saras sure but he cant make me

He can do it financially.

saras

Laura sure but he cant make me

Laura

saras sure but he cant make me

If he offered to "save more money" would you accept it?

saras

Renita What is his actual goal? To kick you out or to keep your chaste as a parent of an unwed daughter?

not really a goal but just his rule

Vanessa Why?

hes concerned it will affect the integrity i think

Vanessa Would he accept these ones?

I dont really want to ask to go device shopping LOL

Vanessa Have you the D-rings on your belt?

Yes

Laura If he offered to "save more money" would you accept it?

I do not understand the question sorry. If I move out it is ecause I can afford to.

HHelen Why does it depend on his mood rather than your behavior?

Poor choice of words, should be good mood with me

Angelina

Vanessa Would he accept these ones?

we have discussed this before and frankly said that even i would not accept this kind of bra. 😂

Joh

saras at first I thought it was a joke but i soon realised he wanted to relock me and if i wanted to move in i had no choice, If not for Covid I would have moved out a long time ago so it wouldnt hae been a big deal

Don't you have friends you could stay with temporarily?

Vanessa

Angelina

I doubt these are very effective.

It would be better for us,if I'm right about it!😉

saras not really a goal but just his rule

But this rule have probably a purpose.

saras hes concerned it will affect the integrity i think

Understandable,but not the case at all,based on @Angelina's posts about it.

saras I dont really want to ask to go device shopping LOL

Understandable,it could give him bad ideas(like buying thigh bands,as you fear).

saras Yes

Not good for you...

Joh

Secure and solidity,I think.

saras

It would not be too bad.

Renita Basically you want the secondary shield off.

Or the belt off.More comfortable,I think.

Renita If I need the belt off, I go to the mom's place and she unlocks it.

Never used it to "cheat" a bit on your belt?

Angelina i don't think so, she doesn't seem to wear it voluntarily, rather accepting

I think so,too.

Laura

saras I do not understand the question sorry.

@Saintprudence has formulated the question better

saras If I move out it is ecause I can afford to.

If he offers some money if you agree to keep wearing your devices

Joh

saras hes concerned it will affect the integrity i think

Sorry, I don't get it.
What do you mean with integrity?

Renita

saras not really a goal but just his rule

Did you ask him?

saras 1) Masturbation breaks

Basically you want the secondary shield off.

saras 3) I can freely do stuff that would require unbelting (even if it meant go to his on way there and back)

It works for me this way. If I need the belt off, I go to the mom's place and she unlocks it.

Angelina

saras I dont really want to ask to go device shopping LOL

it's about your opinion, you don't have to put it into practice 😉

saras Yes

not good 🙁

Christine And also it seems she doesn't mind.

i don't think so, she doesn't seem to wear it voluntarily, rather accepting. so it's more resignation

saras

Laura I've never really considered it in truth. I guess I would but with a few changes
1) Masturbation breaks
2) It comes off if I get in committed relationship
3) I can freely do stuff that would require unbelting (even if it meant go to his on way there and back)
Also, it would all depend on the money I guess.

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