Chastity bra

carg

Angelina but i have my doubts whether it will stay that way

I'd say with Jen this old saying is quite appropriate: 'the only thing constant is change' 😉

Vanessa no reason to think her parents have planned to order other chastity devices

Well, they did order D-rings on the sides of her belt... It is really hard to judge, and it seems like her parents are currently working with her, but they probably have a goal beyond what Jen would be comfortable with, and we can only guess what esp. her mother would envision as ideal for keeping her daughter pure.

Joh

carg Well, they did order D-rings on the sides of her belt...

@Jen can handle it any way she wants. I don't see a big risk that she will be ripped off.

Jen

carg Well, they did order D-rings on the sides of her belt...

Yeah wtf were they thinking lol anyway I've stopped noticing the rings it doesn't matter.

Joh @Jen can handle it any way she wants. I don't see a big risk that she will be ripped off.

It's so good I was so against it at the start it's like the one time anxiety has been a good thing. But I feel - safe yeah- like about the belt and them now. They're not gonna come at me with more stuff

Angelina

Vanessa And no reason to think her parents have planned to order other chastity devices,anyway.

yes, but the belt was bought even though she did not accept it in the beginning, the same can be applied to the bra and thighbands. it is the same procedure.

carg Well, they did order D-rings on the sides of her belt.

good point, that makes me think too

Maija Currently I wear the bra exactly the same as the thighbands. So a break of one hour per day for exercising (for which I'm very grateful). For the connecting chain, it arrived like a month ago or so and since then I have worn it at nights (from dinner to morning). It's not as bad as I feared and I can totally be happy with it.

thanks for the answer, at least not the connecting chains permanently. i am surprised though that you are so happy with it, i would be more depressed, but of course good for you if you can manage it. 🙂

Maija Well, it's not nearly as bad as some of the others here, like @Angelina or @Sara2001 .

i would disagree, i don't wear connecting chains anymore and you wear the thighbands more than me

Jen Yeah wtf were they thinking lol anyway I've stopped noticing the rings it doesn't matter.

You should at least pay attention and react if your mother makes suggestions that go in this direction.

Vanessa

carg I'd say with Jen this old saying is quite appropriate: 'the only thing constant is change' 😉

Right!😉

carg they did order D-rings on the sides of her belt...

Not good,yes.

carg t they probably have a goal beyond what Jen would be comfortable with

But I'm pretty sure she would be able to refuse to wear more than the belt,and make her parents accept it(as it was with the chastity belt at first).

Maija Currently I wear the bra exactly the same as the thighbands. So a break of one hour per day for exercising (for which I'm very grateful). For the connecting chain, it arrived like a month ago or so and since then I have worn it at nights (from dinner to morning). It's not as bad as I feared and I can totally be happy with it.

You don't think wearing all these devices is often very hard?

Especially as it was not your choice to wear one,at first.

Maija Well, it's not nearly as bad as some of the others here, like @Angelina or @Sara2001 .

It seems very similar,however.

Even worse with the connecting bands,now.

Jen I've stopped noticing the rings it doesn't matter.

Good.

Jen It's so good I was so against it at the start

Yes,it helped giving you way more freedom about choosing how you would wear it.

youdontknowme your parents deliberately added optional parts whose only purpose is restraining the wearer further.

But it may never be used.

Angelina yes, but the belt was bought even though she did not accept it in the beginning, the same can be applied to the bra and thighbands. it is the same procedure.

And she would refuse to wear it.Problem solved.

Liana

So,I would be allowed to have these plays with Emilie,but only if my parents are looking at us?

It's pretty weird!

And I doubt Emilie and me would be able to manage it.

Angelina i have no chance at all.

Even without the thigh bands.

Maija

Angelina can you maybe write a few sentences about the current situation with the bra. i haven't quite understood yet how often you wear the bra. i know you wear the thighbands permanently with one hour break a day. how is it with the bra? do you always wear the connecting chains or only in certain situations? i would be very happy about answers 🙂

Sure 🙂

Currently I wear the bra exactly the same as the thighbands. So a break of one hour per day for exercising (for which I'm very grateful). For the connecting chain, it arrived like a month ago or so and since then I have worn it at nights (from dinner to morning). It's not as bad as I feared and I can totally be happy with it.

Roland How are you coping with all that?

Well, it's not nearly as bad as some of the others here, like @Angelina or @Sara2001 .

Roland Surely it must take a few minutes to put it all off and on again for cleaning?

Yes, like half an hour at most

Roland How many padlocks are there in total?

Not very many since most of my equipment has integrated locks

Joh

Maija Not very many since most of my equipment has integrated locks

Who made your device?

Renita

Maija For the connecting chain, it arrived like a month ago or so and since then I have worn it at nights (from dinner to morning)

Why does it make a difference?

Jonas

Jen Yeah wtf were they thinking lol anyway I've stopped noticing the rings it doesn't matter.

Often keyholders seem to approach the subject from an entirely practical point of view and lose sight of what they're actually asking people to put up with! From the wearers point of view it does look entirely insane!!

Jen It's so good I was so against it at the start it's like the one time anxiety has been a good thing.

Strongly agree. Your strong reaction led to you having an entirely free choice in the matter. The fact that their approach didn't put you off completely is genuinely impressive, to me at least.

But I feel - safe yeah- like about the belt and them now.

Brilliant. That's just great.

youdontknowme

Jen anyway I've stopped noticing the rings it doesn't matter.

Let us hope so have they. I think the concerns about the D-rings are less that they annoy you and more that your parents deliberately added optional parts whose only purpose is restraining the wearer further.

But considering the effort they had to go through to get you to put the belt on in the first place, I guess there is hope for you.

Ines

Angelina not for an orgasm but without thighbands i can stimulate myself

avoiding that is precisely the objective of the bands.
Not only do you avoid bad behaviors, but you avoid a lot of frustration and avoid becoming obsessed with having some stimulation.

youdontknowme Let us hope so have they. I think the concerns about the D-rings are less that they annoy you and more that your parents deliberately added optional parts whose only purpose is restraining the wearer further.

But considering the effort they had to go through to get you to put the belt on in the first place, I guess there is hope for you.

In my opinion, it is a good idea to acquire the complete belt, since in the end, if the girl accepts it well, the objective of the belt is to keep us as safe as possible, within an order.
Especially if there is not much tradition in the environment, at first, the prudent keyholders go little by little, and when they realize that, if the girl consents, it is not impossible 24/7, it is logical that, little by little, they want Get as much security from the belt as it can provide.
Even cases like my cousin who only uses the bands for hours on a weekend, it is good that the belt has the extras, because you do not know when they can be useful.

Liana

Vanessa Do you mean that "supervised" could mean being alone,and with no chastity devices on,with Emilie?

No, supervised by your keyholder

Liana

Angelina for 24 hours a week he accepts it, so i wear the thighbands permanently during that time to "balance" the security again

So, he knows that leaving you without bra for 24 hours you stimulate your nipples and he is ok with this ..
Balance of security with thighbands has nothing to do with this because there is no chance to have access anyway..

Angelina

Liana Balance of security with thighbands has nothing to do with this because there is no chance to have access anyway..

that's not entirely true. because i stimulate myself without the bra i also fight more against the other devices, so the thighbands give him a little more assurance that i have no chance at all.

Liana

Angelina that's not entirely true. because i stimulate myself without the bra i also fight more against the other devices, so the thighbands give him a little more assurance that i have no chance at all.

Yes it makes sense..
Its normal that he wants you to wear thighbands during the hours you don't wear the bra for being sure that you can't cheat..
But why he lets you without bra for so many hours?

Angelina

Vanessa But I'm pretty sure she would be able to refuse to wear more than the belt,and make her parents accept it(as it was with the chastity belt at first).

but she didn't want to wear the belt at all at the beginning and now she wears it anyway. i don't think that's set in stone forever.

Vanessa And she would refuse to wear it.Problem solved.

at first yes, it will be the natural reaction, but i doubt she will keep it up, especially because i don't think her mother will let it go.

Vanessa Even without the thigh bands.

not for an orgasm but without thighbands i can stimulate myself

Vanessa

Angelina i don't think that's set in stone forever.

But it would be her choice.

Angelina at first yes, it will be the natural reaction, but i doubt she will keep it up, especially because i don't think her mother will let it go.

She already managed it with the chastity belt.

She only wear it now,as she wants,because she decided to do it.

Angelina not for an orgasm but without thighbands i can stimulate myself

But it would only lead to being more frustrated.

Angelina

Liana But why he lets you without bra for so many hours?

because we negotiated it that way. i wanted to have breaks and in return he wanted me to wear the thighbands permanently, that was a deal.

Liana

Angelina because we negotiated it that way. i wanted to have breaks and in return he wanted me to wear the thighbands permanently, that was a deal

Sounds fair 🙂

Angelina

Vanessa But it would be her choice.

hopefully

Vanessa She only wear it now,as she wants,because she decided to do it.

right, but she wouldn't do that if her parents hadn't bought one

Vanessa But it would only lead to being more frustrated.

of course, but this way I realise that my sexuality is still "ready for action". 😉

Liana Sounds fair 🙂

on the whole yes 🙂

Avery

Angelina of course, but this way I realise that my sexuality is still "ready for action".

Good to hear. Hopefully before not too long you'll be able to make up for lost time.

Vanessa

Angelina right, but she wouldn't do that if her parents hadn't bought one

Of course.

But they may have understand it is not a good idea to buy something before asking her if she agrees,as they were close to waste the money they used to buy the belt.

Angelina i find it hard to think of it as lost time

Personally,I think I've lose some fun time with Emilie(and sometimes alone in my room),due to it.

Angelina i plan to be more active after my wedding than i ever planned to be 😉

Understandable!🙂

Angelina

Avery Good to hear. Hopefully before not too long you'll be able to make up for lost time.

i find it hard to think of it as lost time, but yes i plan to be more active after my wedding than i ever planned to be 😉

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