Chastity bra

Liana

Angelina that's not entirely true. because i stimulate myself without the bra i also fight more against the other devices, so the thighbands give him a little more assurance that i have no chance at all.

Yes it makes sense..
Its normal that he wants you to wear thighbands during the hours you don't wear the bra for being sure that you can't cheat..
But why he lets you without bra for so many hours?

Angelina

Liana But why he lets you without bra for so many hours?

because we negotiated it that way. i wanted to have breaks and in return he wanted me to wear the thighbands permanently, that was a deal.

Liana

Angelina because we negotiated it that way. i wanted to have breaks and in return he wanted me to wear the thighbands permanently, that was a deal

Sounds fair 🙂

Vanessa

Angelina i don't think that's set in stone forever.

But it would be her choice.

Angelina at first yes, it will be the natural reaction, but i doubt she will keep it up, especially because i don't think her mother will let it go.

She already managed it with the chastity belt.

She only wear it now,as she wants,because she decided to do it.

Angelina not for an orgasm but without thighbands i can stimulate myself

But it would only lead to being more frustrated.

Angelina

Vanessa But it would be her choice.

hopefully

Vanessa She only wear it now,as she wants,because she decided to do it.

right, but she wouldn't do that if her parents hadn't bought one

Vanessa But it would only lead to being more frustrated.

of course, but this way I realise that my sexuality is still "ready for action". 😉

Liana Sounds fair 🙂

on the whole yes 🙂

Avery

Angelina of course, but this way I realise that my sexuality is still "ready for action".

Good to hear. Hopefully before not too long you'll be able to make up for lost time.

Vanessa

Angelina right, but she wouldn't do that if her parents hadn't bought one

Of course.

But they may have understand it is not a good idea to buy something before asking her if she agrees,as they were close to waste the money they used to buy the belt.

Angelina i find it hard to think of it as lost time

Personally,I think I've lose some fun time with Emilie(and sometimes alone in my room),due to it.

Angelina i plan to be more active after my wedding than i ever planned to be 😉

Understandable!🙂

Angelina

Avery Good to hear. Hopefully before not too long you'll be able to make up for lost time.

i find it hard to think of it as lost time, but yes i plan to be more active after my wedding than i ever planned to be 😉

Avery

Angelina i find it hard to think of it as lost time,

Sincerely hope you always feel that way.

Angelina

Avery Sincerely hope you always feel that way.

as long as i still spend the time happily with my girlfriend i don't see it as lost time 😃

Avery

Angelina as long as i still spend the time happily with my girlfriend i don't see it as lost time

Well said

Angelina

Vanessa But they may have understand it is not a good idea to buy something before asking her if she agrees,as they were close to waste the money they used to buy the belt.

that's true and i hope you're right, but they could also take into account current experience and think: what worked once will work a second time.

Vanessa Personally,I think I've lose some fun time with Emilie(and sometimes alone in my room),due to it.

yes, sometimes the thought comes to me too, but camryn always manages to get me away from it 🙂

Vanessa

Angelina that's true and i hope you're right, but they could also take into account current experience and think: what worked once will work a second time.

Rigtht,but they could easily de disappointed.

Angelina yes, sometimes the thought comes to me too, but camryn always manages to get me away from it 🙂

Good!🙂

Emilie does it,too!😉

Angelina

Vanessa Rigtht,but they could easily de disappointed.

Of course

Vanessa Emilie does it,too!😉

I am very happy for you 🙂

Vanessa

Angelina I am very happy for you 🙂

Thank you!🙂

Ines

Angelina not for an orgasm but without thighbands i can stimulate myself

avoiding that is precisely the objective of the bands.
Not only do you avoid bad behaviors, but you avoid a lot of frustration and avoid becoming obsessed with having some stimulation.

youdontknowme Let us hope so have they. I think the concerns about the D-rings are less that they annoy you and more that your parents deliberately added optional parts whose only purpose is restraining the wearer further.

But considering the effort they had to go through to get you to put the belt on in the first place, I guess there is hope for you.

In my opinion, it is a good idea to acquire the complete belt, since in the end, if the girl accepts it well, the objective of the belt is to keep us as safe as possible, within an order.
Especially if there is not much tradition in the environment, at first, the prudent keyholders go little by little, and when they realize that, if the girl consents, it is not impossible 24/7, it is logical that, little by little, they want Get as much security from the belt as it can provide.
Even cases like my cousin who only uses the bands for hours on a weekend, it is good that the belt has the extras, because you do not know when they can be useful.

youdontknowme

Ines In my opinion, it is a good idea to acquire the complete belt, since in the end, if the girl accepts it well, the objective of the belt is to keep us as safe as possible, within an order.

I would contend that while this is a perfectly fine recommendation to at least somewhat enthusiastic wearers, this may not be ideal for everyone. If the impulse for gettin the belt comes from the would-be keyholder and the wearer needs to be convinced/persuaded/bribed to accept the belt, a less-equipped belt may be a negotiation point - an assurance, if you will, that there is a limit to how many restrictions you are willing to place on the wearer in the name of security, and that the arrangement will not spiral out of the wearer's control.

Jen

Ines In my opinion, it is a good idea to acquire the complete belt, since in the end, if the girl accepts it well, the objective of the belt is to keep us as safe as possible

I don't want as safe as possible - like what's wrong with safe enough? My opinion is still no d rings would be better. Tighter can be safer- but more difficult to clean. Thigh bands can be safer- but more difficult to move. Bra can be safer - but the idea of wearing that long term seems like a joke.

Not wearing belt vs wearing is such a massive difference in comfort and cleanliness and being able to do things and just - like life is easier without the belt. Using the belt is like a massive change and I don't like the idea it's not enough. The belt makes me feel safe from myself that's enough.

Angelina

Ines avoiding that is precisely the objective of the gangs.
Not only do you avoid bad behaviors, but you avoid a lot of frustration and avoid becoming obsessed with having some stimulation.

well, it's quite simple. my father doesn't want me to stimulate myself, so i wear the bra. on the one day a week when i can stimulate myself, i wear the thighbands. it's not good for me, but actually logical.

youdontknowme I think this is about the wearer agreeing to just the belt and then the keyholder is the one to push for a more restrictive chastity outfit without the wearer getting a say

what i always say helps here too. talk, and that before the belt is locked. 😉

Ines

youdontknowme
In general I do not approve the "bribes", keyholder can " Suggest " but decision is always of the girl.
I think, as you, that "try to hide" the expectations about safety is not acceptable at all, but I think is not right that girl deny to achieve more safety before starting.

Joh

Ines I think, as you, that "try to hide" the expectations about safety is not acceptable at all, but I think is not right that girl deny to achieve more safety before starting.

Sorry, I don't get it what you want to express.

youdontknowme

Joh I think this is about the wearer agreeing to just the belt and then the keyholder is the one to push for a more restrictive chastity outfit without the wearer getting a say. That would be wrong. However, the keyholder suggesting to the wearer that it might be a good idea to order the rings, just in case the wearer wants to give thigh bands a try one day, seems to be what Ines is preferring.

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