Jen
and is very respectable. Each girl is a world, and your expectations about what you are looking for in your belt are very legitimate.
I guess we both agree that security is "sufficient", but we differ on the point where we place that "sufficient".
You know that I believe that the girl always has the last word, but I also understand that the keyholder has his expectations and it is very logical that these are that our belt is as safe as possible.
From this perspective, it is reasonable that the belt be purchased with D rings and the accessories that are considered, especially if there is not much previous experience, if the belt is a known element, in the family, for example, yes I think it can be reach a prior agreement, and, even so, I would acquire it in its entirety because events may vary, (for a silly example, a girl who does not normally wear thigh bands, but who, one weekend, does not want to accompany her family to a boring trip. She can be allowed to stay at home but the security level would have to be higher), as you see in this break from "normality" it is advantageous that this belt had rings. Keep in mind that the keyholder is not just someone with a key, but someone who cares about our safety and just as it is wrong when you want to abuse the girl, it is also not logical that you want to extend it to an exceptional situation, a weekend alone, which is valid for the rest of the year.
Jen Bra can be safer - but the idea of wearing that long term seems like a joke.
Safer... I do not know... I barely can see it as a part of a belt. I am strongly against the usage.
Jen The belt makes me feel safe from myself that's enough.
And if it is good for you, it is the important, however, usually for other girls there are another things in equation.
At the end, a chastity belt is a metal element that can have a lot of usages, and most of them are fine. The final objective is that wearer is happy.
