saras
@Rafael
Hello,
I think that Rafael is not writing about changing your situation, and I have also understood more or less the same as him.
The belonging thing is what I understand from your phrase
saras my kid is still dependant on me she will follow my rules thing
, and you also say that his girlfriend is not submissive and that is why she does not wear a belt.
saras his gf is in no way submissive
Do not be angry, your father of course is free to act as he believes, but when you say things in a forum it is obvious that it is for people to comment, and if it is not insulted and it is done correctly, you can have a completely opposite opinion .
With the customs of my family it is perfectly understandable that you have to wear a belt, but it is strange that your father's girlfriend does not have to wear one.
@Rafael, your opinion is absolutely respectable, but I probably misunderstood @sara the tone of the post.