Vanessa
i understand what you mean, because of the chastity bh a part of me is missing. a part of my femininity. you don't feel like a woman anymore. i can understand that it's hard, even if the new rules are bad, but they give you the opportunity not to wear the bra too often (by that i mean, keep to the rules and you won't spend too much time in the bra)
i have been wearing this part almost permanently for 2 1/2 months now and yes slowly i am getting used to it but the psychological effect is still terrible