Chastity bra

Owl

Angelina […] the question, however, is whether any of your girls can bring themselves to orgasm by rubbing their breasts, that is the crucial point.

It might be nitpicking (and you probably know better than I), yet we should keep in mind: Even not reaching it but being able

to "just" get so much arousal that it leaves one in a frustrated state,
to reach a lecherous mental state, that provokes more irrational follow-up actions,
and/or to consume a significant portion of time (without any malicious intend but just because nature drives one and keeps one "experimenting" )

might be arguments enough for some people. There is more, though I wouldn't expect it to be relevant for Rafael and Yolanda's family. (BTW: Don't take this as an official recommendation, what to do.)

As a general thought and general complication for every decision on the bra, let's add: I see no valid way to reliably rule out that there is one of the above problematic conditions. (There might be a chance if the keyholder is a legitimate sexual partner of the chaste.) Ofc, one might always ask, but what guarantee does one have to get a sufficiently precise, true answer? Besides the whole situation being awkward... 🙄

I guess this general awkwardness of such questions like

"how much stimulation can the chaste get from breast stimulation" l
"how much adverse impact, direct or indirect, does it have"

leads some (over?)concerned keyholders to simply play it safe. And voila, more girls "favoured" with the bra, while stating that it wouldn't have been necessary… Or would it?
It's so easy to either implement exaggerated measures or unexpected loopholes. I do not envy either side.

For comical relief: Fortunately my own breasts are rather ... uninteresting. ;-) But could or would I prove it, if a bra-keen keyholder confronted me? 🙄 😝 Gotta go...

Angelina

Owl "how much stimulation can the chaste get from breast stimulation" l

that's a crucial question and what you want to prevent. i can stimulate myself, @Sara2001 for example can bring herself to some kind of orgasm. what do you want to prevent? if my father only wanted to prevent orgasms i wouldn't need a bra, but he also wants to prevent stimulation, that's why i target the bra. those are the two crucial questions (from my point of view)

Ines but the function of the belt in all of them is the same:

but if you take this argument to the extreme, it would imply that your belt and a fetishist's belt are the same. in my opinion, it depends a lot on who wears it and why.

saras

I agree with you, the important point is that the daughter usually does not know when she will get a "redemption".

ToCuteForU0

so i usually try to wear hoodies and jumpers in winter too, but if it's too hot t-shirts made of solid fabric and with little neckline are suitable, sorry a better answer is difficult because i usually go shopping for something like that and just experiment what fits 😉

Ines

saras There is a clear difference between chastity full time like me and 'part time'with regular breaks for sex. Thats more using it as a kink than a way of life

Angelina finally someone who says it openly, that's exactly the point that always bothers me when parents and daughters are compared here, thank you. 🙂

As for me, I understood you from the first moment, but you are wrong (from my point of view).
It is evident that the girls are not going to be the same as the mother, but the function of the belt in all of them is the same: that they are protected until the right moment arrives.
That the girls are not married and at the moment they can't wait for that right moment? TRUE.
That your mother is married and that right time can be several times a day? True too.
The important thing is that the belt in all of them protects them by preventing them from doing things they shouldn't.

Saras, it has nothing to do with anything inappropriate or "kinky", I think if you say that it is because in your circle there are no mothers who wear the belt.

saras

Ines You are missing the point entirely.
A mother / wife / girlfriend who is put in by a partner cannot comprehend what a daughter is like in a belt.
Whether you say its kinky or just waiting for the right time, the fact is that sooner or later, my dad will want sex she knows she will get pleasure so regardless the reason she would put it on thinking, at most she gets less than she would like.
For the likes of me, I look ahead and see no pleasure for the forseeable future.
Furthermore look at dating. My dads gf could go on a date thinking she might 'get lucky', I go on one thinking the most I can hope for is a kiss goodnight. The mindset is entirely different.

Ines

saras You are missing the point entirely.

No, not at all.

Ines It is evident that the girls are not going to be the same as the mother,

saras Whether you say its kinky or just waiting for the right time, the fact is that sooner or later, my dad will want sex she knows she will get pleasure so regardless the reason she would put it on thinking, at most she gets less than she would like.
For the likes of me, I look ahead and see no pleasure for the forseeable future.

Exactly. I wrote exactly the same:

Ines That the girls are not married and at the moment they can't wait for that right moment? TRUE.
That your mother is married and that right time can be several times a day? True too.

The difference is that for you something is not important that for me it is:

Ines The important thing is that the belt in all of them protects them by preventing them from doing things they should not.

I do not think that neither you nor I are wrong, we are different and our circumstances too, I always remember my mother's belt and then my sister's, for me the strange thing was when my younger sister did not want to use hers.

I respect your opinion and I do not want to convince you of anything, I just want you to see that there are several possible approaches to this.

Renita

saras I go on one thinking the most I can hope for is a kiss goodnight

Same for me. But 'get lucky' has different meaning.

youdontknowme

saras she knows she will get pleasure so regardless the reason she would put it on thinking, at most she gets less than she would like.

I think by the time a chastity belt enters the discussion, allowing the reluctant wearer sexual relief has already been ruled out as an option, however much or little they end up wearing in the end. Having a keyholder with belt wear experience themself is more about the other, practical experiences of chastity device wear, like how much allowance to make for hygiene, what to look for when practicing long-term wear and when further accessories may be justified/acceptable.

Jen

saras There is a clear difference between chastity full time like me and 'part time'with regular breaks for sex.

If he believes chastity values he should not be having sex outside of marriage.
It seems he doesn't believe in good values so why is he insisting for you?

Joh

Angelina but who should take the photo? Sara is in the shower at the time and her father has to supervise her.

Don't make it complicated. He can take a picture in the bath during his supervision. Nobody expect a perfect picture.

saras My dads gf could go on a date thinking she might 'get lucky', I go on one thinking the most I can hope for is a kiss goodnight. The mindset is entirely different.

From this point of view I agree.

Jen If he believes chastity values he should not be having sex outside of marriage.
It seems he doesn't believe in good values so why is he insisting for you?

Good argument.

Sara2001

saras You are missing the point entirely.....

I can't agree more. That's exactly my feeling.

Ines I do not think that neither you nor I are wrong

I agree with this, too

Angelina those are the two crucial questions (from my point of view)

I think there is a third aspect. For me it increased the feeling of being "helpless and under the keyholders control" a lot, no matter if it helps me to get an orgasm or not, but of course this doesn't make your points wrong in any sense, just a third aspect.

ToCuteForU0

Hey, maybe this conversation is already spoken about, but I couldn't find it real quick. This will be the first summer I will have to wear my chastity-bra. And I think it's going to be much harder then the winter. In the winter I can get away with oversized tops/sweaters. But for the summer that wouldn't be ideal.
I recently start experimenting with wearing a sportsbra over my chastity bra, so I wear tight tops. It works alright. But a tight sportbra is also a little uncomfortable. Because it presses the bra a little more into the chest.
Does anyone have a tip for me?

Ines

ToCuteForU0
Yes, there are 3 threads where you can fit your question, however, it can fit in this thread too.

Maija

ToCuteForU0 This will be the first summer I will have to wear my chastity-bra.

What do you think of it? With the connecting chains to the belt or without?

ToCuteForU0 And I think it's going to be much harder then the winter. In the winter I can get away with oversized tops/sweaters. But for the summer that wouldn't be ideal.

Yes, that is exactly the case. Can you have breaks from your equipment for pool, beach etc? For me that has certainly been the hardest part about the bra that I cannot go to swimming😭 (even though I can have breaks from thighbands for exercise etc)

Angelina

Sara2001 "helpless and under the keyholders control" a lot,

of course, the more devices we wear and the more we are restricted by them, the more control for the keyholder. i agree

ToCuteForU0

Maija
I think the chastitybra is a good addition to my gear, although not always easy to handle of course. It's not connected to the belt.

I haven't yet been to a pool since the bra. But around a year ago I had a free moment from the belt when I went swimming in public. But back then I also had to cancel some swimmings.

Angelina

Maija For me that has certainly been the hardest part about the bra that I cannot go to swimming😭 (even though I can have breaks from thighbands for exercise etc)

you need to look for the right swimming suit. have you thought about a full body neoprene suit, if it's not too tight it could work

Joh Don't make it complicated. He can take a picture in the bath during his supervision. Nobody expect a perfect picture.

yes ok, you're right again, but i wouldn't post private photos here either

Joh The answer was not for you it was for @Angelina and I referred to my question if @saras could post a picture of the work her father has done at her bra.

It's a bit complicated when we have two Saras here. 😂

Sara2001

Joh Don't make it complicated. He can take a picture in the bath during his supervision. Nobody expect a perfect picture.

I think you have lost me. What picture? I am not allowed to post any pictures from anything everr and I think that's a good decision.

Joh

Sara2001 I think you have lost me. What picture? I am not allowed to post any pictures from anything everr and I think that's a good decision.

The answer was not for you it was for @Angelina and I referred to my question if @saras could post a picture of the work her father has done at her bra.

Renita

ToCuteForU0 It's not connected to the belt.

It should since it's a good addition 😃

Maija

Angelina you need to look for the right swimming suit. have you thought about a full body neoprene suit, if it's not too tight it could work

Still doesn't help for the thighbands... A couple of times I have worn a skirt type swimming suit but of course like that I can only stand in the water, not swim

Angelina

Maija Still doesn't help for the thighbands... A couple of times I have worn a skirt type swimming suit but of course like that I can only stand in the water, not swim

of course you should not do this with thighbands, but you do have an hour's break. why not move the break to the nearest lake/sea? i would not swim with thighbands because of the risk of drowning.

Ines

Angelina i would not swim with thighbands because of the risk of drowning.

Right.

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