Chastity bra

Ines

Obviously I do not share use of anything against girl wishes, but I can understand the thinking that is behind it.
Bra for me is so much strict and obviously, at least for me,the goal to achieve is very small in comparance with suffering that provocates to the girl, but I can understand that if parents are very conservative can wish protect her daughters breasts.
Another thing for me is when you are forced to use a padlock instead a chain, for me it is cruel, without ulterior consideration. Add stress to us and do not add anything in security field.

😕

Angelina

Ines

the breasts of a girl are a part of her femininity that was just made inaccessible to us, it's psychologically very bad 🙁 but tighbands with padlock are a lot worse, you're right

Sara2001

Ines at least for me,the goal to achieve is very small

You said there is a small goal to achieve 🙂

Vanessa

Ines

I feel the chastity bra is worse,but I wear it way more often than thigh bands,it probably play a part in this feeling.

Angelina yes one gets used to it, if one wears the bra permanently, but it will never become quite comfortable 🙁

Even managing it a bit better,especially at night,can be a good improvement.

Angelina now without a joke, a chastity bra is psychically very restrictive, it is as if a part of your femininity is missing and simply locked behind cold metal 🙁 very unpleasant and very bad 🙁

Especially as your other feminine part is locked too.

Ines Obviously I do not share use of anything against girl wishes, but I can understand the thinking that is behind it.
Bra for me is so much strict and obviously, at least for me,the goal to achieve is very small in comparance with suffering that provocates to the girl, but I can understand that if parents are very conservative can wish protect her daughters breasts.

It is very hard but yes,we can understand our parents' opinion,even if we don't agree at all with it.

Sara2001 And I think there is no valuable goal to achieve with bands or bras. Nobody gets pregnant from masturbation and everything else is impossible.

It is mainly to prevent orgasm and stimulation.

Ines With a padlock in the bands ther is not absolutely no goal at all.

I agree,but it is difficult to make parents accept it,if they're convinced it is more secure,and that the fact we want a chain instead is a proof a chain would be less secure...

Sara2001

Maybe it's why my parents use a padlock,as I mainly wear thigh bands when I'm home alone...

Ines For me is amazing as you, @Angelina and @Vanessa can manage your padlocks. 😕

I only wear it at home,never outside,it helps to manage it.

Angelina and that's exactly what i'm trying to achieve, a chain during the day and then i'd accept the padlock at night. i think i can at least gain some more freedom 😉

It would still be a very good improvement for you.

Sara2001

Angelina the breasts of a girl are a part of her femininity that was just made inaccessible to us, it's psychologically very bad 🙁 but tighbands with padlock are a lot worse, you're right

And I think there is no valuable goal to achieve with bands or bras. Nobody gets pregnant from masturbation and everything else is impossible.

Ines

Sara2001
First part:
I did not say "valuable", I did not say " share it", I did not say "endorse", I did not sat " approve"...
I said that for conservative parents I can understand (not share, not endorse, not approve) that they (not me) do not want her daughter can stimulate herself. And with a bra you achieve it.

Second part:
With a padlock instead a chain the parents do not achieve absolutely nothing about security, this mean, result=0. And in change to that 0, ads a lot of suffering.

I hope, now I achieved to explain me well enough.

Ines

Sara2001
For sure, it does not worth the extra stress, I think. But I guess that for some parents avoid totally every possibility of stimulation can be a goal (not for me).
With a padlock in the bands ther is not absolutely no goal at all.

Angelina

Ines

the padlock on the tighbands should restrict me, that's what my father told me and that's exactly what it does. i think it fulfilled his goal even if it's extremely to my disadvantage 🙁

Angelina

@Sara2001

the goal should be to prevent the stimulation of the breasts and that is exactly what the bra does. no meaningful goal but a line that my father pursues 🙁

@Ines
we are not native speakers in english (neither are you), which means we may use different words than you, although we mean the same thing

and yes you explained yourself well enough 😉

Ines

Angelina the padlock on the tighbands should restrict me, that's what my father told me

Yes, I remember when you said it to me. I was very shocked. For me is extremely unfair to use a chastity belt for "keep tied" a girl.
I wish you best of luck in your negotiations!

Sara2001

Angelina the padlock on the tighbands should restrict me, that's what my father told me and that's exactly what it does. i think it fulfilled his goal even if it's extremely to my disadvantage 🙁

I can understand (even if I absolutely not agree) that a padlock is used when we have a lot of time on our own. Because with "only" a chain our fathers maybe fear that we find a solution for something that has no solution 🙂

During the day, when you are busy all the time, there is definitely nothing to fear.

I mean, theoretically, if there is a way to get around a chastity belt while you wear tightbands connected with a short chain, it would take very long to achieve something. You normally don't have that much time during the day.

That's more or less why my father allows me to only have a chain during the day and the padlock from dinner to 6am.

Ines

Sara2001
For me, a chain, even restrictive makes bearable their usage.
For me is amazing as you, @Angelina and @Vanessa can manage your padlocks. 😕
I would be bitter.

Sara2001

Ines Normally I don't have to walk a lot with them, I just have to do some tasks at home where they are an issue and of course toilet is definitely not easier with the padlock, but it's far away from perfect with a chain, too.

Angelina

@Ines

thanks, I will try everything 😃

@Sara2001

and that's exactly what i'm trying to achieve, a chain during the day and then i'd accept the padlock at night. i think i can at least gain some more freedom 😉

Angelina

Vanessa

i agree with you in everything, i will soon talk to my father about the chain during the day, probably on sunday

the bra is of course also not beautiful but he is only psychologically very strong, while the tighbands also physiologically strong 🙁

Vanessa

Angelina

I hope you'll have good news to share after this talk!😉

Concentrate on thigh bands now,maybe,after some time,and especially if he notices he can trust you about following rules even when alone with Camryn,he'll be more open to use a bit less the chastity bra.But it may take some time before he accepts it,and you should not start such talk too soon.

Angelina

Vanessa

i think my father will be open for my suggestions 😉 but he must also be in a good mood for it

if he is worried about camryn, i can offer him that i will continue to use a padlock on our dates, but i want to be a little freer in normal everyday life 😉

Vanessa

Angelina

Right,try to get it the best way you can,but keep some parts you can "give" in exchange.

lucy

Let's hope it'll never be the case.

I don't want to scare you,but,for @Angelina and me,it was added after starting to wear the chastity belt(several months after for her,several years after for me).And I can't orgasm by playing with my breasts.

Angelina she knows about the chastity belt, so I think she also knows about the chastity belt 🙁

Especially as My-Steel seems to put ads for chastity bra in the package containing the chastity belt...

@lucy,what is the brand of your chastity belt?

lucy

Thank God, mom did not propose to wear a chastity bra in my case.

Angelina

lucy

i think as long as you don't give her a reason, there's also no reason for a chastity bra 😉

lucy

Angelina i hope she will never get that idea 🙁

Angelina

lucy

she knows about the chastity belt, so I think she also knows about the chastity belt 🙁

but i don't think there is any reason at the moment, or can you reach an orgasm like @Sara2001 by playing with your breasts?

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