Chastity bra

Vanessa

I've discussed about it with my parents and they agree to not make me wear one at work.🙂

If I'm not at work during half of the day,my parents would come at home before I leave to work(to take it off),or when I come back home from work(to put it on).

Laura

Vanessa I think your position is better than this now and you should negotiate more like go to work without any chastity gear, but belt. You are just in one step to say goodbye

Vanessa

Laura

It is the case.At work,I only wear my chastity belt,no more chastity devices.

If I manage to live on my own,I think I probably keep the belt until married,to keep a good relationship with my family,but I wouldn't wear the chastity bra nor the thigh bands anymore.

Angelina very very very good for you. i wouldn't have understood why you should wear the bra to work anyway and i'm very glad that you don't have to 😉

Yes,and my parents have accepted it quickly.

Angelina I don't believe that, unfortunately, and it could also quickly lead to the opposite 🙁

Not sure it would lead to the opposite,but I'm happy with what I got,and want to make them like I accept their decision too,as I would have to convince them about letting Emilie and me sleep in the same bed if she wears a chastity belt only during it,soon.

Angelina

@Vanessa

very very very good for you. i wouldn't have understood why you should wear the bra to work anyway and i'm very glad that you don't have to 😉

@Laura

I don't believe that, unfortunately, and it could also quickly lead to the opposite 🙁

Angelina

Vanessa If I manage to live on my own,I think I probably keep the belt until married,to keep a good relationship with my family,but I wouldn't wear the chastity bra nor the thigh bands anymore

would your parents accept that you only wear the belt and would they even accept that you live alone with emilie before marriage?

Vanessa

Angelina would your parents accept that you only wear the belt and would they even accept that you live alone with emilie before marriage?

Living with her,I guess so.They know,and agree,I think it is better to know how it'll work if living together before getting married.

Using the chastity bra and the thigh bands would be very complex if not living at home anymore.

Sara2001

I don't think it is a sexual relationship,as she can't have sex with her chastity belt...More of a "love story".

Anyway,it seems she wasn't forced to break-up with him;good,she's probably in love if she told him about her chastity devices,it would have been very hard for her if your father decided it.

Very awful she has to wear a chastity bra permanently,but you thought it could happen to her(even if not for this reason).At least,she can hope to be released of it before getting married,even if it is going to be long.How dis she eract?

Was the other punishment a severe spanking?It was part of the punishment I got if I dated someone before the approval meeting...

About ti,will there be an sort fo approval meeting,now?

I hope he will help her and took care to never reveal her chastity devices to anyone...I think it's possible he's in love too,as he already know there is no hope to have sex together before getting married.

Sara2001

Unlike you,I think she was right to hide it,even if the punishment was pretty severe.As your father reacted,he would probably told her she can't date him,and told her she has to get older,if she aksed for his permission.By hiding it,she "forced" him to accept it,even if it meant a severe punishment for her.It was very risked,he may heve told her to break-up with him in addition,but it was not the case,and,in the end,she managed to get her relationship.If she is in love,she probably think it is worth it(and I may agree)

Renita How does it change if she is in date or not?

It is different to be caressed on the breasts by herself or by a partner.....

Angelina I'm very sorry that she should get a chastity bra 🙁, I don't see any really good reasons, but I wonder if it is already 100% decided or if your father just said it out of anger

Based on @Sara2001's posts,it seems if their father say something,it means it is decided.

Sara2001

It looks like my sister is in big trouble again. Yesterday a boy from her new class came to bring her a Christmas present.

My father asked her why he did so and she confessed to us, that she started a relationship with him a month ago without telling my father.

My father was very unhappy about this for several reasons. He thinks she is to young to start a sexual relationship and he really hated that she already explained her equipment to him. He says after the school change it was very stupid to be that open to a classmate.

However, he said now it is to late to make it undone, so he now has to deal with it. At least her boyfriend seems to accepts that she wears her equipment, at least he was very nice to my father. I wonder a lot why he came to our house. I didn't had the idea that he is stupid or something like that. I think most probably my sister didn't made clear enough what consequences he risks with that.

At the end of the evening my father decided, that she will get a chastity bra to wear it 24/7. He wants to make sure she can not feel any sexual pleasure until he thinks she is adult enough to do so. He sayed this will most probably not be long before her 18th birthday.

Of course she got another very painful punishment in addition, but I think I will spare the details here 🙁

At least her boyfriend seems to be nice and looks not that bad. I hope the relationship lasts long and he handles the information he has with care.

Jimmycane

Sara2001 okay I understand the differences in my life experiences and yours and how this may seem acceptable, but for anyone else does this sound borderline like abuse or even slavery like characteristics. Your father isn't acting like a normal human being.

Laura

Sara2001 that she started a relationship with him a month ago without telling my father.

It means her chastity belt worked as supposed to

Renita

Sara2001 He wants to make sure she can not feel any sexual pleasure until he thinks she is adult enough to do so.

How does it change if she is in date or not?

Angelina

Sara2001

I have mixed feelings about reading your post.

first of all i congratulate your sister on her relationship 🙂 i don't really understand why she should be too young for this, my camryn is only 14 🙂

i also think it's very brave that she told a boy that she is closed 🙂

yes it was stupid of her not to tell your father from the beginning 🙁

I'm very sorry that she should get a chastity bra 🙁, I don't see any really good reasons, but I wonder if it is already 100% decided or if your father just said it out of anger

Sara2001

Jimmycane Even if I don't agree with some points from my father I don't think so. As you can see in this forum his values and point of view is not that uncommon.

I'm very sad for my sister, but I also have to say that she knows his expectations and any risk that was related to having a hidden relationship. I think she acted very stupid and could know that massive consequences will be on her way if she get caught.

Yes it will be very hard for her, but he did nothing unexpectable. I think this time again it was mostly her fault. Children should respect the wishes of the parents. From my point of view there was no reason to hide the relationship.

Ines

Sara2001 As you can see in this forum his values and point of view is not that uncommon.

Yes they are, thankfully, in my opinion! Specially in some points.

Sara2001

Angelina first of all i congratulate your sister on her relationship 🙂 i don't really understand why she should be too young for this, my camryn is only 14 🙂

You are allowed to have a relationship, but not allowed to feel sexual pleasure. My father thinks underage you can have a boyfriend but it should not be sexual for her.

Angelina i also think it's very brave that she told a boy that she is closed 🙂

I think so, too. But she should have talked to my parents before. This was really stupid.

Angelina I'm very sorry that she should get a chastity bra 🙁, I don't see any really good reasons, but I wonder if it is already 100% decided or if your father just said it out of anger

He wants to make sure she stays "sex free" when they are together. This includes having nice feelings from playing with what is under the bra.

Vanessa I don't think it is a sexual relationship,as she can't have sex with her chastity belt...More of a "love story".

For my father sexual pleasure starts long before an orgasm. He sees what I have as an active sex life and from his point of view he is very generous with me.

Vanessa Anyway,it seems she wasn't forced to break-up with him;good,she's probably in love if she told him about her chastity devices,it would have been very hard for her if your father decided it.

Yes, my father is not unhappy that she is in a relationship, he is very unhappy that it was hidden.

Vanessa At least,she can hope to be released of it before getting married,even if it is going to be long.How dis she eract?

I hope for her it will happen on her 18th birthday. She is very down now, it was clear for her, that a relationship would mean stricter rules befau she is so young, but for sure she hoped for something else then the chastity bra. She knows it's useless to talk about this topic again now, but it is clear that she is very unhappy about the descision. I hope the fact that she at least can stay with him will help her a bit. I haven't talked to him yet, but he looked like a nice guy.

Vanessa Was the other punishment a severe spanking?It was part of the punishment I got if I dated someone before the approval meeting...

Yes, with a very long corner time before and after it. She spend almost the whole evening in the corner.

Vanessa About ti,will there be an sort fo approval meeting,now?

My father wants to meet him soon. It will at least be a meeting to start to know about eachother. Not really an approval meeting, but I think if my father thinks he is the wrong person he will find a way to end the relationship.

Vanessa I hope he will help her and took care to never reveal her chastity devices to anyone...I think it's possible he's in love too,as he already know there is no hope

I hope so, too. But I still fear that this is maybe not the case, because in puberty you are quickly in love and it also can end quickly. I really hope he will not talk to anyone then.

Vanessa As your father reacted,he would probably told her she can't date him,and told her she has to get older,if she aksed for his permission.By hiding it,she "forced" him to accept it,even if it meant a severe punishment for her.

I think this was a small risk. I think she just feared the stricter rules (for a reason). In my family punishments are always designed to be hard enough that you feel acting as you should would have been better.

Angelina

Sara2001

i hope your father will accept the relationship 🙂 of course it is not easy for your sister's boyfriend to get into a rather conservative family

of course it was pretty stupid that your sister had the relationship secretly, which unfortunately makes for a bad first impression, but I am glad that your father wants to get to know him and gives him a chance

when should the chastity bra be ordered ? and how may the relationship proceed until your sister wears the bra ?

please support your sister, the situation is certainly not pleasant for her

are you afraid that it might mean that you'll have a chastity bra, too?

Vanessa

Sara2001 You are allowed to have a relationship, but not allowed to feel sexual pleasure. My father thinks underage you can have a boyfriend but it should not be sexual for her.

Not very different than you,except the chastity bra,but I guess it is more to let your boyfriend plays with these(without orgasm for you).

Sara2001 For my father sexual pleasure starts long before an orgasm. He sees what I have as an active sex life and from his point of view he is very generous with me.

Yes,good he accepts it.Would he think you giving pleasure to your partner(without you feeling anything),as "being sexually active"?

Sara2001 Yes, my father is not unhappy that she is in a relationship, he is very unhappy that it was hidden.

Not illogical,he doesn't accept lying by omittting,and it is a very important one!

Sara2001 I hope for her it will happen on her 18th birthday. She is very down now, it was clear for her, that a relationship would mean stricter rules befau she is so young, but for sure she hoped for something else then the chastity bra. She knows it's useless to talk about this topic again now, but it is clear that she is very unhappy about the descision. I hope the fact that she at least can stay with him will help her a bit. I haven't talked to him yet, but he looked like a nice guy.

When she started to date,she probably knew it won't stay hidden for very long,and probably expected the severe spanking and cornertime.But I understand she may thought the chastity bra was too extreme to be used,especially as the belt prevents her to have sex.She would probably need time to accept it...I guess being able to date him could help her,yes.Let's hope her relationship lasts long,it would very hard for her otherwise(even more as she would still have the chastity bra on even if single again,I guess...)...

Sara2001 Yes, with a very long corner time before and after it. She spend almost the whole evening in the corner.

Not pleasant,but not the worst part of the punishment.Was it during all the Christmas Eve?

Sara2001 My father wants to meet him soon. It will at least be a meeting to start to know about eachother. Not really an approval meeting, but I think if my father thinks he is the wrong person he will find a way to end the relationship.

Let's hope he likes him.No "apriori" from your father?If there is,it would be harder to convince him to accept your sister's boyfriend...

Sara2001 I hope so, too. But I still fear that this is maybe not the case, because in puberty you are quickly in love and it also can end quickly. I really hope he will not talk to anyone then.

There is always a risk.Is he her first boyfriend?It is rare these couple lasts for life,but it can happen...Even if not,I hope too he would keep her secret hidden.

Sara2001 I think this was a small risk. I think she just feared the stricter rules (for a reason). In my family punishments are always designed to be hard enough that you feel acting as you should would have been better.

If he would have accepted it,it would have been better to ask for it before,so,yes.She may have avoided the chastity bra.

It seems your father doesn't like the idea of "better to ask for forgiveness than for permission"...

Angelina i hope your father will accept the relationship 🙂 of course it is not easy for your sister's boyfriend to get into a rather conservative family

I agree,she is "lucky" to have found someone who accept it.

Sara2001 Yes, my father is obviously VERY strict, but he is also very clear and very fair.

Good he's fair,and that he accepts to give him a chance,even if the starts was far from the best.

Sara2001 She already get measured. So delivery will most probably be in January.

I guess it was very hard for her...

Sara2001 I will do as much as she let me. Actually she is very mad at anybody. I think at the end she is mad about herself.

I hope she'll accept your support soon.She should take care to not be mad at your parents,she should avoid to make the situation worse...And to not be mad at her boyfried,to not endanger her relationship.

Sara2001 I don't think so. From my fathers point of view I am old enough and act more responsible. The only positive aspects I can see is that I can get a better idea what's on my way after engagement.

Yes,it would be useful for you to know how it goes for her.

Sara2001 Thorax and under bust.

For My-Steel?Not sure it is useful,based on their website...

Well,I checked again,and there is "chest width" and "under chest circumference" too,now.I guess there was some problems while asking only for the cup size.

Sara2001 Once the bra arrived and my father has met him, she will be allowed to meet him again.

So,for now,no contact with him for her?

Sara2001 Definitely

Yes,it would be easier.

Sara2001

Angelina i hope your father will accept the relationship 🙂 of course it is not easy for your sister's boyfriend to get into a rather conservative family

I hope so, too.

Angelina of course it was pretty stupid that your sister had the relationship secretly, which unfortunately makes for a bad first impression, but I am glad that your father wants to get to know him and gives him a chance

Yes,it was extremely stupid, I think it is because she is in puberty. Yes, my father is obviously VERY strict, but he is also very clear and very fair.

Angelina when should the chastity bra be ordered ? and how may the relationship proceed until your sister wears the bra ?

She already get measured. So delivery will most probably be in January.

Angelina please support your sister, the situation is certainly not pleasant for her

I will do as much as she let me. Actually she is very mad at anybody. I think at the end she is mad about herself.

Angelina are you afraid that it might mean that you'll have a chastity bra, too?

I don't think so. From my fathers point of view I am old enough and act more responsible. The only positive aspects I can see is that I can get a better idea what's on my way after engagement.

Angelina

Sara2001

can your sister meet her boyfriend until she wears the bra or is it completely forbidden?

yes it is a first impression of the bra for you, but you are in a better position because Daniel is the keyholder and not your father 😉

Laura

Sara2001 She already get measured.

What exactly is supposed to be measured to order a chastity bra?

Sara2001

Laura What exactly is supposed to be measured to order a chastity bra?

Thorax and under bust.

Angelina can your sister meet her boyfriend until she wears the bra or is it completely forbidden?

Once the bra arrived and my father has met him, she will be allowed to meet him again.

Angelina yes it is a first impression of the bra for you, but you are in a better position because Daniel is the keyholder and not your father 😉

Definitely

Laura

Vanessa guess there was some problems while asking only for the cup size.

But no problems for you, I guess

Sara2001

Vanessa Not very different than you,except the chastity bra,but I guess it is more to let your boyfriend plays with these(without orgasm for you).

Yes, for him this is a very sexual act (for me,too). It is very arousing.

Vanessa Yes,good he accepts it.Would he think you giving pleasure to your partner(without you feeling anything),as "being sexually active"?

Definitly, but as long as we feel nothing (at least physical), it is mostly ok for him. He thinks that's something a girlfriend should do for her partner. She has to wait but he should get anything he wants 🙁

Vanessa Not illogical,he doesn't accept lying by omittting,and it is a very important one!

Yes, he looses a lot of trust to my sister. I think that's the main reason while the bra will stay in place.

Vanessa When she started to date,she probably knew it won't stay hidden for very long,and probably expected the severe spanking and cornertime.But I understand she may thought the chastity bra was too extreme to be used,especially as the belt prevents her to have sex.She would probably need time to accept it...I guess being able to date him could help her,yes.Let's hope her relationship lasts long,it would very hard for her otherwise(even more as she would still have the chastity bra on even if single again,I guess...)...

She expected more then just the spanking and corner time. This wouldn't have stopped her and my father knows it. I think she feared stricter limitations for her sex life and at the end this is exactly what she got with the chastity bra. Most probably she had got it anyway.

Vanessa Not pleasant,but not the worst part of the punishment.Was it during all the Christmas Eve?

Yes, except for dinner and spanking she stands in the corner almost all the time. It it not a nice Christmas this year for the whole family.

Vanessa There is always a risk.Is he her first boyfriend?It is rare these couple lasts for life,but it can happen...Even if not,I hope too he would keep her secret hidden.

Yes, he is number one. I hope the same but are not sure.

Vanessa It seems your father doesn't like the idea of "better to ask for forgiveness than for permission"...

Definitely not. A punishment must compensate anything you got from your misbehaviour and more. It must always be better for you to follow the rules.

Vanessa I agree,she is "lucky" to have found someone who accept it.

Yes, I know how difficult it is. I was never brave enough to ask.

Vanessa I guess it was very hard for her...

Yes, she said absolutely nothing. She fears it a lot.

Vanessa I hope she'll accept your support soon.She should take care to not be mad at your parents,she should avoid to make the situation worse...And to not be mad at her boyfried,to not endanger her relationship.

I think she needs time.

Vanessa Well,I checked again,and there is "chest width" and "under chest circumference" too,now.I guess there was some problems while asking only for the cup size.

Yes, as a side effect I think now I understand the cup size problem. It's just the diameter of your breasts. So I think I was right (and I think it will definitely fit to me 🙁 )

Vanessa So,for now,no contact with him for her?

They can use the phone to talk and chat.

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