Sara2001 You are allowed to have a relationship, but not allowed to feel sexual pleasure. My father thinks underage you can have a boyfriend but it should not be sexual for her.
Not very different than you,except the chastity bra,but I guess it is more to let your boyfriend plays with these(without orgasm for you).
Sara2001 For my father sexual pleasure starts long before an orgasm. He sees what I have as an active sex life and from his point of view he is very generous with me.
Yes,good he accepts it.Would he think you giving pleasure to your partner(without you feeling anything),as "being sexually active"?
Sara2001 Yes, my father is not unhappy that she is in a relationship, he is very unhappy that it was hidden.
Not illogical,he doesn't accept lying by omittting,and it is a very important one!
Sara2001 I hope for her it will happen on her 18th birthday. She is very down now, it was clear for her, that a relationship would mean stricter rules befau she is so young, but for sure she hoped for something else then the chastity bra. She knows it's useless to talk about this topic again now, but it is clear that she is very unhappy about the descision. I hope the fact that she at least can stay with him will help her a bit. I haven't talked to him yet, but he looked like a nice guy.
When she started to date,she probably knew it won't stay hidden for very long,and probably expected the severe spanking and cornertime.But I understand she may thought the chastity bra was too extreme to be used,especially as the belt prevents her to have sex.She would probably need time to accept it...I guess being able to date him could help her,yes.Let's hope her relationship lasts long,it would very hard for her otherwise(even more as she would still have the chastity bra on even if single again,I guess...)...
Sara2001 Yes, with a very long corner time before and after it. She spend almost the whole evening in the corner.
Not pleasant,but not the worst part of the punishment.Was it during all the Christmas Eve?
Sara2001 My father wants to meet him soon. It will at least be a meeting to start to know about eachother. Not really an approval meeting, but I think if my father thinks he is the wrong person he will find a way to end the relationship.
Let's hope he likes him.No "apriori" from your father?If there is,it would be harder to convince him to accept your sister's boyfriend...
Sara2001 I hope so, too. But I still fear that this is maybe not the case, because in puberty you are quickly in love and it also can end quickly. I really hope he will not talk to anyone then.
There is always a risk.Is he her first boyfriend?It is rare these couple lasts for life,but it can happen...Even if not,I hope too he would keep her secret hidden.
Sara2001 I think this was a small risk. I think she just feared the stricter rules (for a reason). In my family punishments are always designed to be hard enough that you feel acting as you should would have been better.
If he would have accepted it,it would have been better to ask for it before,so,yes.She may have avoided the chastity bra.
It seems your father doesn't like the idea of "better to ask for forgiveness than for permission"...
Angelina i hope your father will accept the relationship 🙂 of course it is not easy for your sister's boyfriend to get into a rather conservative family
I agree,she is "lucky" to have found someone who accept it.
Sara2001 Yes, my father is obviously VERY strict, but he is also very clear and very fair.
Good he's fair,and that he accepts to give him a chance,even if the starts was far from the best.
Sara2001 She already get measured. So delivery will most probably be in January.
I guess it was very hard for her...
Sara2001 I will do as much as she let me. Actually she is very mad at anybody. I think at the end she is mad about herself.
I hope she'll accept your support soon.She should take care to not be mad at your parents,she should avoid to make the situation worse...And to not be mad at her boyfried,to not endanger her relationship.
Sara2001 I don't think so. From my fathers point of view I am old enough and act more responsible. The only positive aspects I can see is that I can get a better idea what's on my way after engagement.
Yes,it would be useful for you to know how it goes for her.
For My-Steel?Not sure it is useful,based on their website...
Well,I checked again,and there is "chest width" and "under chest circumference" too,now.I guess there was some problems while asking only for the cup size.
Sara2001 Once the bra arrived and my father has met him, she will be allowed to meet him again.
So,for now,no contact with him for her?
Yes,it would be easier.
