Laura
hi sara, hi laura,
yes so I have now the bra for 3 weeks and yes it is extremely unpleasant.
at first it can be uncomfortable to wear it, because the chains press on the shoulders and so the impressions can occur if it is set wrong.
you must also consider if it is hot you sweat extremely in it. straight at the edges you must pay attention to it, otherwise there can be unpleasant rashes π
best you ask your father if he can drill small air holes, otherwise it is really unbearable. so it goes to some extent.
the most important point and probably also the sense of the chastity bra is that you can feel nothing more at the breast π
when you touch yourself there you feel nothing really nothing at all except metal. the same applies of course if someone else touches you as maybe soon your friend .
if you really get one i'm very sorry for that for you, i hope you don't have to wear it 24/7. but the first days and nights are the horror you wake up at night several times of it and panic and you will try several times to get it off.
PS: remember to wear clothes that hide him well, that's not easy.