Chastity bra

Sara2001

Foxies Thank you for your answer. As you know I (will).wear my equipment as a free choice after wedding, too. For me it is not that clear that it brings me a lot of pleasure, it mostly brings me the pleasure to know how proud my boyfriend will be of me and to know how much he loves this. I don't see many other benefits for me from wearing it.

I think Angelina and Vanessa will never wear it as a free choice for long, I think this lifestyle is only for a very few people.

Angelina

Foxies and perhaps Angelina would wear them willingly for their girlfriends and that perhaps sometime in the future that will be the case.

I don't want to take away your hope, but the chances of this happening are less than 1%. 😂

Vanessa

Foxies

But your wear it willingly.

Angelina

Sure.

Foxies

It would only be used as a sex-toy after I get married.

Foxies either wear the equipment reluctantly or suffer worse consequences.

Right...

Foxies This suggests that Vanessa and perhaps Angelina would wear them willingly for their girlfriends and that perhaps sometime in the future that will be the case. I hope so, because perhaps then they too will experience the pleasures that I feel.

I don't think.Not as you wear it,at least;as a game for me,and not at all for @Angelina

Angelina

Vanessa I don't think.Not as you wear it,at least;as a game for me,and not at all for @Angelina

right, i think as a game it wouldn't work for me because i can't really develop positive feelings towards the belt

Foxies

Angelina i can't really develop positive feelings towards the belt

Sigh. I suppose that's the difference between us. I don't have any feelings for the belt, positive or negative. Its an inanimate object - like a door lock that just happens to be on me. I suppose when I use the bathroom it is a blasted nuisance, and sometimes it nips me - but I try not to think about it.

Vanessa

Angelina

Maybe after some times while being free,your feelings could change...

Angelina i can even find wearing a belt good

Even if you don't have the keys?.

Angelina

Foxies

well, the problem is that even after the wedding, the original meaning of the belt is still in my head and that is: "my father doesn't trust me enough".

Foxies

Angelina the original meaning of the belt is still in my head and that is: "my father doesn't trust me enough".

I can understand that and sympathise. Our histories and experiences are all different and the reason we all feel differently

Angelina

Foxies

exactly, but thanks to this forum i have also learned why there are people who have a very positive relationship with the belt and yes if these feelings are positive i can even find wearing a belt good

Foxies

Vanessa Even if you don't have the keys?.

I have an odd relation to the keys for my belt. I have two, both in sealed boxes that I can use any time I choose. Of course my partner would know I had used them since they have breakable seals. My partner insists I have them in case of emergency. I don't really want them but I understand her concern and know that they are a sensible precaution.

All things being equal however, I don't want them. And truly, they are not a temptation. Using them would feel like I am breaking a promise in the same way I would break any vow. Something I would do only with extreme reluctance.

That being said, the other keys, the ones my partner keeps on a chain around her neck are special. I love to see them and even better, I love to see her reach for her necklace, remove it and use those keys. Then it is so special my heart sings - even if she is just cleaning me in the shower. Those specific keys are a very fun part of my life! Smiles

Angelina

Vanessa Maybe after some times while being free,your feelings could change...

maybe, but there are much more interesting toys for the bedroom 😉

Vanessa Even if you don't have the keys?.

of course, i keep saying that the belt is useless if the wearer has the keys.

Vanessa Similar system for my emergencies keys.But it is hard for me to not use these...

understandable, that's why i reject this system for myself

Vanessa

Foxies

Similar system for my emergencies keys.But it is hard for me to not use these...

Vanessa

Angelina maybe, but there are much more interesting toys for the bedroom 😉

Sure,it would only be one of these!😉

Angelina of course, i keep saying that the belt is useless if the wearer has the keys.

I agree.

Angelina understandable, that's why i reject this system for myself

You couldn't manage it without opening the boxes,even if the consequences would be hard?

Angelina

Vanessa You couldn't manage it without opening the boxes,even if the consequences would be hard?

i think i could bear it for a certain period of time, but not for several years, the temptation gets too big at some point

Vanessa

Angelina

Knowing that the consequence would be very bad,it helps to not open these boxes.But I can confirm it is not easy...

Jonas

I don't think it is useful for a man,if not a fetish.

Jonas But seriously, My-Steel does say on site that they do a chastity bra for males.

Right,I was surprised at first,but think it can be useful for fetishists...

Jonas

Even in this case,I doubt he could use it to orgasm,without masturbating.

Jonas security would be quite low.

Very likely,yes.

Jonas

Could/should a male chastity bra be a part of real (non-fetish) chastity?! Or is this idea too strange for regular forum contributors?

Laura

Jonas Could/should a male chastity bra be a part of real (non-fetish) chastity?!

Only if a man has boobs 😂

Angelina

Jonas Could/should a male chastity bra be a part of real (non-fetish) chastity?! Or is this idea too strange for regular forum contributors?

for what ? 😂

Jonas But seriously, My-Steel does say on site that they do a chastity bra for males.

then mysteel is welcome to try it, i think it is nonsense

Jonas

Laura 😀 Lol. Man-boobs , also called "Moobs", are a thing that can develop with age/weight.

But seriously, My-Steel does say on site that they do a chastity bra for males.

Kris

Jonas But seriously, My-Steel does say on site that they do a chastity bra for males.

I would love to see and test it 😄 I think its not that secure as a female chastity bra 😊

Jonas

Yes, I would imagine security would be quite low. (And chastity gear needs a certain level of security simply to justify the discomfort of wearing it.)

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