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Vanessa

I don't think he plan to try to understand anyone here.

a_father I'm at least glad that nobody calls me a troll anymore

Only because it's useless.

Megan will we become disproportionately lesbian

Personally,I'm bi(and I was before having to wear a chastity belt),and I don't think our chastity devices can influence that much our sexual orientation.

Laura

Vanessa and I don't think our chastity devices can influence that much our sexual orientation.

I still feel myself straight

Angelina

Vanessa I don't think he plan to try to understand anyone here.

I'm afraid I think so too 🙁

Vanessa I don't think our chastity devices can influence that much our sexual orientation.

I agree with you, I was bi before I had the belt.

Ines and trying to build a relationship.

Any progress? 😉

a_father

Vanessa There's a reason why I don't talk to you much or not at all. Last year you started a huge argument with a forum member. I do not feel like it.
But to you, you provoked the answer:
I read that you hate your belt. Your parents always invent new rules to restrict you even more (sexually). If you do nothing about it, it will get worse and worse. You yourself always find new reasons not to move out. What if you have a permanent job? Do you still stay at home? You only get out of there if you have your own apartment, or don't you want to? What about your girlfriend? Does she want to move in with you at all or do you postpone the decision because you are not sure and that is the reason why you stay at home? You are both grown up. Why not get married and the spook has an end. Are you just too comfortable to take your life into your own hands? I'm not the first one to tell you this, but the first one to say it directly. If your parents want to break contact, it is illogical. The opposite is much more likely and all parents are afraid of it. But I just repeat myself again an again and don't want to understand you .... And you don't want to understand me😬.
So now you can attack me. That was probably your intention anyway.

Ines

Laura
Same here, and in my case quite clear, and trying to build a relationship.

Vanessa

Ines trying to build a relationship.

With the tennis player?How does it go?😉

a_father

I've already answered your questions.

And I won't attack you,just ignore you.

Laura

😉

Angelina Even though Vanessa has her reasons, i agree with you on this one 🙂

But unlike him,you understand why I don't do this.

a_father

Angelina Well, I don't understand you (as you said) but one question: You are bi, ok, but are you sure you could have a boyfriend instesd of a girfriend at the moment? Boys want to protect their girlfriends and this could lead to bad situations between a boyfriend and your father. What I want to say (in a careful way) is, it is much easier to handle a girlfriend in your situation. I hope you understand what I want to say. I don't want to say that you don't love your girlfriend, just that your current situation favors a girfriend.

Laura

a_father Do you happen to be @Renita ? 🤣 She says exactly the same

Angelina

a_father Why not get married and the spook has an end.

Even though Vanessa has her reasons, i agree with you on this one 🙂

a_father Well, I don't understand you (as you said)

which does not surprise me 😉

a_father just that your current situation favors a girfriend.

i can disagree, my father would have liked it even better if i had started a relationship with a boy, in the beginning he was not really happy about my decision, but he got to know my girlfriend better and now he likes her 🙂

a_father

Laura Yep.... Vanessa is a little bit lazy...or whatever... There must be a reason we don't know. She is in the comfortable situation to end the belting whenever she wants but she doesn't.

Laura

a_father Then give her the favor, do the same analysis regarding me 😂

Renita

a_father She is in the comfortable situation to end the belting whenever she wants but she doesn't.

I can say the same about @Laura , as she likes to know.

a_father

Laura Why? You didn' t give me a reason. Do you have a partner to move out? Or would you be alone? This is a different situation.

a_father

Angelina So you don't understand me again (I'm sorry... 🙂). What I wanted to say is, that your situation favors a girlfriend and you know it. So your decission is a girlfriend, or would your father allow sex with a boyfriend? In your situation you can handle a girl better than a boy. Just my opinion. A boy would try to protect you from your father in any situation. That would very quickly quarrel between the boy and your father. Boys are like that. The woman must be protected ... The behavior is hard-wired in the head.
You are bi, so the decission was a girl.
And if we're talking ... Getting married to get rid of the belt is a stupid idea. I hear from your postings that you are almost counting down the days. What parents do here is nonsense. They drive the girls into a marriage and, in my opinion, they are to blame if it later fails. A former Muslim colleague told me that couples can hardly wait to get engaged and get married because a relationship is not welcome without marriage. I asked her what if they realized afterwards that it didn't work. She meant that you could get a divorce again. That is not my idea of marriage. Some parents of girls on this forum drive their daughters exactly into this situation.

Angelina

a_father So your decission is a girlfriend, or would your father allow sex with a boyfriend?

it doesn't matter, he would want to prevent both

a_father A boy would try to protect you from your father in any situation.

it depends on his character

a_father Getting married to get rid of the belt is a stupid idea. I hear from your postings that you are almost counting down the days.

yes it's a stupid idea, but it wasn't my idea and of course it's understandable that I'm looking forward to being free again sometime or?

a_father I asked her what if they realized afterwards that it didn't work. She meant that you could get a divorce again

that would be the consequence and I agree it would not be very pleasant

but i want to emphasize again that i love my girlfriend very much and i will marry her not only because of the belt, also without the belt i would marry her sometime and there is also a risk. many marriages have already been divorced even without a chastity belt

Laura

a_father Why? You didn' t give me a reason.

Because @Renita is wondering 😂

a_father Do you have a partner to move out?

No. Otherwise it wouldn't be a question

a_father

Renita If you don't have a partner, it's a different situation. @Vanessa has everything she needs. - Just my opinion -. Plus, @Laura doesn't make it a big topic.

Renita

a_father If you don't have a partner, it's a different situation

Meaning you must stay in a chastity belt even if you don't like it? I'm confused.

a_father

Angelina That's what I mean. You would marry her SOMETIMES, not as soon as possible. I understand, that you want to be free. That's ok. Is your father aware of the problem he is causing?

Angelina

a_father Is your father aware of the problem he is causing?

i think i would have to know the problem myself first 😂

i don't see anything wrong with marrying my girlfriend as soon as possible. of course it's difficult to say that, but maybe i would marry her very early without the belt

a_father

Angelina What aubout your grandmother when you marry your girlfriend and live in sin forever? A good reason to insist in a chastity belt for both after marriage 😬.

a_father

Renita No. But she would be alone. @Vanessa provoked what I said. @Laura wasn't in focus. In principle, what I said applies to both with the difference that @Laura has no partner.

Angelina

a_father

if my grandma had the keys, i would definitely have to worry, but fortunately that is not the case 😉

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