Just chatting

Angelina

Sara2001

I've heard about the new rules, but there's a problem

it is no longer allowed to meet many people in public, but people will continue to meet in private.

an example: if i invite 5 people to my place, they will all go into public separately, but they would all meet again at my place

therefore this measure unfortunately brings very little 🙁

Vanessa

Angelina camryn and i only meet at one of our houses too

No other choice,presently.

Angelina I hope you all stay healthy 🙂

Thank you;we do our best for it.

I hope everyone here is healthy too.

Sara2001

In France,we can go out to do some jogging,but only alone.And now,it should be not more than 1 hour,and not farer to our house than 1 kilometer.

Laura

Not surprising.There is more internet users presently.

Angelina

Theoretically,it is not allowed either in France.But harder to control.

Sara2001

Angelina an example: if i invite 5 people to my place, they will all go into public separately, but they would all meet again at my place

I think this is forbidden, too. Wasn't there a soccer player lately who had to pay 100.000€ for having a party?

Angelina therefore this measure unfortunately brings very little 🙁

I think most people don't meet in bigger groups at home. At least the people I know take very good care of it.

Vanessa

In France,we can go out to do some jogging,but only alone.And now,it should be not more than 1 hour,and not farer to our house than 1 kilometer.

Luckily it's still not that strict here. As long as you keep distance of 2 meters, everything is fine.

Vanessa My twin and his girlfriend think about it,too(but they would be allowed to sleep together,and have sex,every night if they want to...);it would be two more people living with us,but it woudn't be a problem.

Yes, in many places daughters and sons are threatened very different. My brother has the same privilegies. My sister sadly can't see her boyfriend currently because she is not allowed to enter a train and he is to young to drive a car.

Angelina

Vanessa No other choice,presently.

it would be allowed by the government, but we don't want it

Vanessa Theoretically,it is not allowed either in France.But harder to control.

that's what I mean, it's not allowed but almost impossible to control

Vanessa

Angelina

However,we can get a fine to pay if we're caught out without a good reason(and probably be told to return to our home immediately).And I don't think needing to meet a boyfriend/girlfriend is considered as a valid one...

Presently,we still do as usual with Emilie,but we start to think a lot about letting her to stay at our home until we can go out more easily again.She asked her parents if they would be ok if she does it,and they agreed,even if they don't like much she would stay with me permanently,even for a few weeks(but they know they'll have to accept it when we'll decide to live together and to marry,anyway).If we ask for it,my parents would probably accept after thinking a bit about it,but we already know we won't be allowed to spend every night in the same bed.My twin and his girlfriend think about it,too(but they would be allowed to sleep together,and have sex,every night if they want to...);it would be two more people living with us,but it woudn't be a problem.

Angelina

Vanessa

that sounds good, i think i would do the same with camryn if it comes to harder restrictions 🙂

Vanessa

Angelina

Your father and her parents are already ok about it?

In our case,Emilie got a fine when coming at my home to meet with me,so we decided it was time to ask my parents if it is ok that she stays at home with us(after being sure her parents are still ok).They think about it a few hours,and they accepted!🙂

So Emilie live with me,in my house,presently.However,we can only spend 4 nights a week together(if not the case,we sleeo in two separate bedroom,locked),and my parents make very clear it won't last after the containment is ended.

My twin have used the opportunity to ask for his girlfriend too,and my parents were fair and allowed her to stay at our home too(but unfair as they can sleep together every night and have sex...).

Our parents add a rule too about the part of the household tasks;as Emilie and my twin's girlfriend stay home,they both must do a part of it too(not illogical).

It is a bit easier for us to manage to be confined now,of course!🙂

In case you're wondering,as masturbation is not allowed at home for Emilie too,she does it under the shower!😉

Angelina

Vanessa Your father and her parents are already ok about it?

in case of emergency it would be ok 🙂

Vanessa So Emilie live with me,in my house,presently.However,we can only spend 4 nights a week together(if not the case,we sleeo in two separate bedroom,locked),and my parents make very clear it won't last after the containment is ended.

very good I am very happy for you 🙂

Vanessa My twin have used the opportunity to ask for his girlfriend too,and my parents were fair and allowed her to stay at our home too(but unfair as they can sleep together every night and have sex...).

unfortunately this is really very unfair and unfortunately incomprehensible for me

Vanessa Our parents add a rule too about the part of the household tasks;as Emilie and my twin's girlfriend stay home,they both must do a part of it too(not illogical).

that sounds logical and would be no different with camryn

Vanessa In case you're wondering,as masturbation is not allowed at home for Emilie too,she does it under the shower!

😃

Ines

Angelina unfortunately this is really very unfair and unfortunately incomprehensible for me

I have to say that even for me is very normal that boys have much more freedom, I think, or I am sure, my parents would not accept that my brother would practice sex in our home.
Even think about it makes me strange.

Vanessa

Angelina in case of emergency it would be ok 🙂

Good!🙂

Angelina very good I am very happy for you 🙂

Even without spending all our nights together,it is very great to have her living with me!🙂

Angelina unfortunately this is really very unfair and unfortunately incomprehensible for me

I agree!🙁

Angelina that sounds logical and would be no different with camryn

Sure.

Angelina 🙂

😉

Ines

They must not be loud,and have the door closed,but that's all(as long as their parts of the household tasks are done).They should stop if called(like for dinner).

Sara2001 Luckily it's still not that strict here. As long as you keep distance of 2 meters, everything is fine.

In France,it is 1 meter,however,when in supermarket,pharmacy,etc...

Sara2001 Yes, in many places daughters and sons are threatened very different. My brother has the same privilegies. My sister sadly can't see her boyfriend currently because she is not allowed to enter a train and he is to young to drive a car.

Yes,it is not that much uncommon...

Too bad for your sister and her boyfriend!🙁

Angelina unfortunately I still do not see a positive development 🙁

In France,we should notice the positive effects soon,according to scientists.

Sara2001 My father don't want us to do unnecessary journeys in the trains.

Can't he use a train and they meet in your house?

Angelina i know that it takes at least 2 weeks to see if the measures are successful, but unfortunately i do not see anything positive until the vaccine comes

Based in some articles I read recently,it may solve the problem for now,but it would resume at the Autumn...And so on,until a vaccine is found;or until enough people is immune(got it and recovered from it)...

Angelina

Sara2001 I think this is forbidden, too. Wasn't there a soccer player lately who had to pay 100.000€ for having a party?

of course it is forbidden, but it is almost impossible to control it

Sara2001 At least the people I know take very good care of it.

with me it is exactly the same, unfortunately I still do not see a positive development 🙁

Sara2001 As long as you keep distance of 2 meters, everything is fine.

I had been shopping this morning (only food), it is almost not possible to keep these 2 meters

Sara2001 My sister sadly can't see her boyfriend currently because she is not allowed to enter a train

I am very sorry for your sister 🙁 don't you have any trains anymore ?

Sara2001

Angelina with me it is exactly the same, unfortunately I still do not see a positive development 🙁

I think it's to early to see it and even if there is a massive effect, we maybe not see it. Who knows how everything would be without all the restrictions.

Sara2001

Angelina I had been shopping this morning (only food), it is almost not possible to keep these 2 meters

Really? In our market it is relatively easy.

Angelina I am very sorry for your sister 🙁 don't you have any trains anymore ?

My father don't want us to do unnecessary journeys in the trains.

Angelina

Sara2001

i know that it takes at least 2 weeks to see if the measures are successful, but unfortunately i do not see anything positive until the vaccine comes

Sara2001 Really? In our market it is relatively easy.

the aisles are too narrow for that 🙁

Sara2001 My father don't want us to do unnecessary journeys in the trains.

understandable, isn't there the possibility that your father drives your sister to her boyfriend or that his parents drive him to her?

Sara2001

Angelina i do not see anything positive until the vaccine comes

I've seen a video yesterday explaining the plan. The goal of the lock down is to reduce the number of cases to a number that can be observed by the authorities, like 1000 for the whole country. Then they are able to control and monitor the hot spots and anywhere else can get back more freedom (but still not as it was before, so still nothing with big groups). It's the goal to hold the number of infections under 1000 (or whatever the concrete number is) until we have a medicine.

So it can become better before we have a medicine, just not as free as it was before.

Angelina isn't there the possibility that your father drives your sister to her boyfriend or that his parents drive him to her?

It is, but very rarely, it took him an hour to bring her to him and another hour to hold her back. Since my sister decided to start a relationship with equal rights, he is more open to do this kind of things to her. His parents can't drive him to often, too. They never did until today.

Angelina

Sara2001 It is, but very rarely, it took him an hour to bring her to him and another hour to hold her back. Since my sister decided to start a relationship with equal rights, he is more open to do this kind of things to her. His parents can't drive him to often, too. They never did until today.

i think that in any case a solution has to be found because we don't know how long the current situation will last and it would be a danger for the relationship if they don't see each other for months 🙁

Vanessa

Sara2001 I've seen a video yesterday explaining the plan. The goal of the lock down is to reduce the number of cases to a number that can be observed by the authorities, like 1000 for the whole country. Then they are able to control and monitor the hot spots and anywhere else can get back more freedom (but still not as it was before, so still nothing with big groups). It's the goal to hold the number of infections under 1000 (or whatever the concrete number is) until we have a medicine.

It makes sense.

Angelina it would be a danger for the relationship if they don't see each other for months 🙁

I agree.

Sara2001 the relationship is still very young.

It is why it is dangerous for it.

Natescage

You're very pessimistic!I hope they'll manage it.

Sara2001 He thinks that relationships in young ages normally don't last long and I think that's true.

It is often the case,but there is cases when it lasts very long,and lead to marriage,too...

Sara2001 That's not the case. He thinks any couple should make this decision on it's own. But he thinks his girls should learn about the benefits before they give up this lifestyle. He feels that this is a very beautiful way of living and since I am with Daniel I can understand his point of view even better. The kind of relationship has major benefits for me, too. On the other side it is very important for him that the whole family is following this lifestyle as long as we all live under the same roof. That's why he supports her relationship by giving her some more freedom but not to much at once yet. It's complicated to explain 🙂

It is probably not easy to manage,but he seems pretty fair about letting his daughters and son choose the lifestyle they want to live when married.

Angelina especially because they are very young it is important that they see each other regularly, for a young couple it is much more difficult to have a relationship where they do not see each other for months than for an older couple

I agree.

Sara2001 But my father don't want anybody in our home that came by train.

Why?Due to the coronavirus?

Angelina it depends on the intensity of love

I agree too.

Sara2001 It's not forbidden, it's just very difficult. But I also forgot an option. Her boyfriend can come by bycicle. Since I can't use it anymore I tend to ignore it 🙂. He came to the place where we live by bike yesterday and they could share time with eachother. It took him more then one hour per direction.

Good it tia possibility,&an dthe manaed to emet recently!🙂

leannec

Second time you try to bother me by checking my potential mistakes in my posts.I guess you don't like I noticed you told different stories on different topics,which makes me think I was true by saying you're a troll.And,generally,trolls are not welcomed here.

Natescage

I think so,he seems to truely love her,and,even if it hard for them presently,I hope they'll manage it!

Hard week-end for me,but I was not very wise.I was in a bad mood precedent Friday,and was a bit sassy and back talking...It quickly ended by a spanking and cornertime(in my room,but Emilie could easily hear my spanking,and how I reacted...),and I was grounded in my room all week-end(except for going to the toilet,showering and meals),door locked(to be sure I don't spend time with Emilie during it)...At least,they don't remove our "nights together privileges",but it was hard to be locked in my room,alone,while my grilfriend was so close...🙁

Sara2001

Angelina i think that in any case a solution has to be found because we don't know how long the current situation will last and it would be a danger for the relationship if they don't see each other for months 🙁

I don't think my father see it in the same way, the relationship is still very young.

Natescage

Sara2001 so she may have to stop seeing him. That is rough and I feel bad for her. Hopefully your mother will help her emotional if she has to stop seeing him that is very hard to go through.

Angelina

Sara2001 the relationship is still very young.

and that's exactly why they have to see each other, that's very important especially at the beginning

and where there is a will, there is also a way. it seems to me through this false statement of his that he wants to sabotage the relationship

Natescage

Angelina I wonder if he does want that since the boyfriend had no Intention of having a relationship like Daniel so if the father truly believes that all women should live like that then he may be trying to sabotage this to get the kind of husband for his daughter that he approves of. Also if this boy lives this far it sounds like the sister met him online or outside of school so mabey the dad is worried she just impulsively found a boy to date to get out of the belt.

Sara2001

Angelina and where there is a will, there is also a way. it seems to me through this false statement of his that he wants to sabotage the relationship

No he don't want to sabotage it. He has just a bunch of work. He thinks that relationships in young ages normally don't last long and I think that's true. He don't drive my brother to his girlfriend, too. He is just very lucky that he can go to her by bycicle.

Natescage if the father truly believes that all women should live like that

That's not the case. He thinks any couple should make this decision on it's own. But he thinks his girls should learn about the benefits before they give up this lifestyle. He feels that this is a very beautiful way of living and since I am with Daniel I can understand his point of view even better. The kind of relationship has major benefits for me, too. On the other side it is very important for him that the whole family is following this lifestyle as long as we all live under the same roof. That's why he supports her relationship by giving her some more freedom but not to much at once yet. It's complicated to explain 🙂

Angelina

Natescage

that is exactly what i was thinking, i am a little worried about sara's sister because i believe that it is more important to maintain a happy relationship than to impose the conservative will

Sara2001 No he don't want to sabotage it. He has just a bunch of work.

and if your sister's boyfriend goes to you by train ? or his parents drive him, can he visit her ?

Sara2001 He thinks that relationships in young ages normally don't last long and I think that's true.

and I think it's wrong, it depends on how intense the relationship is and how your father behaves, separation is more likely 🙁

Sara2001 That's why he supports her relationship by giving her some more freedom but not to much at once yet.

It's the only freedom your sister needs right now

Natescage but if they are young they may still stay together if they really are in love I guess it depends.

especially because they are very young it is important that they see each other regularly, for a young couple it is much more difficult to have a relationship where they do not see each other for months than for an older couple

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