Sara2001 From my own experience I know how difficult it is to not freak out and scream to him what he is doing to you. Normally nothing changes to the better if you do so.
I agree with you,never the best way to discuss it,even if it is not always easy to stay calm when you can't access to your own genital parts or feel sexual pleasure anymore,and knowing it'll be the case for several years...
Angelina when we lie on the beach he will take off the bra and the tightbands, so that i only have to wear the belt. i have also already seen what it looks like, the swimsuit has a leg attachment and a skirt on the hips, so that the belt is effectively covered.
when we are on longer hikes (from 30 minutes) i get the tightbands off 😉 but the bra stays on.
Not perfect,but it could have been worse.
Angelina t helped a lot to speak with my father in a calm tone i explained to him that i understand why he wants to lock me up, but i also explained to him which points would make the holiday inedible for me.
he then agreed to the compromises described above, which of course pleases me. today we often met in the middle.
You managed this talk very welll!
Sara2001 Yes, I know exactly what you mean. At least I was allowed to go to school without the belt on days with sport class. On any other day I had the same fear, but luckily nobody find it out.
It was the same for me when I was punished this way:no belt during sports,but having to wear and hide it when there is no sports.Nobody(except a few boyfriends/girlfriends,for obvious reasons)knew it.
Laura
She can say too it is her choice,as she wants to be able to date while letting her boyfriend understand very clearly that she won't have sex with him for a long time,and it is useless to try to make her accept to have sex with him.
Not the best place to self-pleasure,but it would be more than enough for us!