Waist vs. hips

Kaushal

Jonas Thanks for the advice. I will definitely look into it. Is there a reason to go with neosteel compared to my-steel and fancy steel?

Jonas

Kaushal No problem, I hope you make a choice that's right for you. I personally think the quality and security of the Neosteel is superior, though MySteel are still very good belts. I am not sure that Fancy Steel is usable as a 24/7 belt. @Ines wrote a review of the Fancy Steel here: https://unwedchastity.org/d/407-review

Kaushal

Jonas @Ines wrote a review of the Fancy Steel here: https://unwedchastity.org/d/407-review

Thanks, I will read through it in time! Do you have both those belts yourself?

Jonas

Kaushal My wife and myself currently have NeoSteel belts, but I used to have a MySteel one. I've no direct experience with Fancy Steel which is why I directed you to the review. It is worth taking your time, learning and making a good choice - both @alberto and @HHelen really seemed to make an effort choosing the right device and it really helped I think.

Kaushal

Do you know what they finally went with? I was a little turned of by the websites of both my-steel and neosteel. They both look like they were made in a different millennia. Though I find NeoSteel even a little bit worse. As far as I can tell you recommended the female system chastity belt with the sports module crotch band and the ergonomic waist band, correct? I didn't find any of the additions you mentioned like secondary shield, though I think this is included, or high security lock (I found the seals), so i am a little bit lost on this site....

Does your wife have the same belt? Does she wear it longterm`and do you keep her key, while she keeps yours?

Laura

Kaushal I was a little turned of by the websites of both my-steel and neosteel. They both look like they were made in a different millennia.

AFAIK, only my-steel offers hips style

Jonas

Kaushal Do you know what they finally went with?

Urm I think they both went with Neosteel. Let me check.

HHelen Neosteel.

alberto Finally we got the belt. i have inspected it and i am very pleased with the quality of neosteel,

Yep. That's right. The main difference is that I think HHelen's belt had a long secondary shield. This design continues the shield up the belt to a singular lock that secures both the front shield and the secondary shield. Alberto chose a short secondary shield which means an extra lock on the front of the belt but it means that the secondary shield can be removed without removing the entire belt. Personally, I'd ask for a short secondary shield to be permanently affixed but this is non-standard.

I was a little turned of by the websites of both my-steel and neosteel.
They both look like they were made in a different millennia.

Well, yeah, it can be difficult to find everything, but also there's a lot of new terminology and technology to learn about too! At first I couldn't make any sense of my letter from Tollyboy! (Tollyboy is another high quality belt maker, (ask @Laura!!) but they're quiet at the moment).

As far as I can tell you recommended the female system chastity belt with the sports module crotch band and the ergonomic waist band, correct?

Yep.

I didn't find any of the additions you mentioned like secondary shield, though I think this is included, or high security lock (I found the seals), so i am a little bit lost on this site....

Keep on looking for the secondary shield as this is vital for the main purpose you have in mind.

I didn't know about the high security lock (couldn't find it!!) until @Verrouille mentioned it.
http://www.neosteel.de/Nsepdimp.htm

Does your wife have the same belt? Does she wear it longterm`and do you keep her key, while she keeps yours?

My wife has the full rear strap (this was her preference). I think the cable allows for far greater security, (which again, for your purpose is an important consideration). We have worn our belts together only for short periods. In reality, I need my belt far more than she needs hers. Whoops.

Vanessa

Kaushal

I find the Neosteel website a bit worse too.It is easier to navigate on the My-Steel one.Maybe because I wear a My-Steel belt,however,so I'm more used at these products.However,My-Steel don't offer detachable secondary shield.

Jonas Yep. That's right. The main difference is that I think HHelen's belt had a long secondary shield. This design continues the shield up the belt to a singular lock that secures both the front shield and the secondary shield. Alberto chose a short secondary shield which means an extra lock on the front of the belt but it means that the secondary shield can be removed without removing the entire belt. Personally, I'd ask for a short secondary shield to be permanently affixed but this is non-standard.

It seems @HHelen's daughter belt has a detachable secondary shield too.

Jonas We have worn our belts together only for short periods. In reality, I need my belt far more than she needs hers.

How,and who,decide when she had to wear her,and for how long?

Jonas

Or to accept to take the whole belt off sometimes.With would make the masturbation more pleasant.

Christine Unfortunately it was not nly a threat.

Was it delivered recently?Sorry for you...

Angelina but that will not change even with a waist style belt

I agree.But her mother probably think it would be more secure,and would have less chance to cheat on a waist style one.

Jonas

Laura I thought Neo did do a hip model, but as you know, I can't check without installing a dual boot OS! 😀 ..and I can't be bothered to do that.
That's the secret of security. Make it just a little too much effort for people to bother.

Tobbe

Laura only my-steel offers hips style

All of the major manufacturers can make hip style, but you may ask if you want it.

Jonas

Jonas As far as I can tell you recommended the female system chastity belt with the sports module crotch band and the ergonomic waist band, correct?

Yep.

I've been granted use of my wife's phone to check this!!! This is massive!! Me? With unfiltered internet?! The world's gone mad. Bwahhahahaha!

Anyway, yes, I was thinking of the Female Sports System Module in combination with (ergonomic) Waistband System Module.

I see Neosteel call the secondary shield the Front Shield and yes it does appear to come with the Sports System Module as standard (and quite right too!). The one in the picture shows the short version with the lower (additional) lock.

And, ...as if by magic... the phone is gone, from my hands and normality and sanity is restored to the world.

HHelen

Jonas The main difference is that I think HHelen's belt had a long secondary shield. This design continues the shield up the belt to a singular lock that secures both the front shield and the secondary shield.

Correct. But more important, it's detachable, hence it's my choice if she should have it on or off.
Also mind "doing other things down there".

Jonas

Hmmm. Another double-post. Sorry. Will change this one just to say that I couldn't see a female hip belt on Neosteel's shop page as @Laura said, only male ones.

-Ah, just seen @Tobbe's post about asking for a hip style. Makes sense.

Laura

Jonas Hmmm. Another double-post. Sorry.

Don't worry. I will deal with them

Jonas

HHelen Correct. But more important, it's detachable, hence it's my choice if she should have it on or off.
Also mind "doing other things down there".

I guess the choices here are whether to prohibit, to control, or to curb masturbation. The second and third options require a removable shield because they assume that masturbation is, under certain circumstances, acceptable.

HHelen

Jonas I guess the choices here are whether to prohibit, to control, or to curb masturbation.

I would be more concerned about oral sex.

Vanessa It seems @HHelen's daughter belt has a detachable secondary shield too.

Correct. It was the main selection criteria.

Christine

Vanessa Let's hope for you it is only a threat.

Unfortunately it was not nly a threat.

Angelina it makes her angry because she is afraid you might be successful ?

coz I didn't give up.

Angelina

Christine Unfortunately it was not nly a threat.

May I understand that, that a new belt has now been ordered or has even already been delivered?

Christine coz I didn't give up.

but that will not change even with a waist style belt

Christine

Angelina that a new belt has now been ordered or has even already been delivered?

Received and "installed".

Angelina but that will not change even with a waist style belt

It will be a waste of time in her opinion.

Jonas

Vanessa Jonas We have worn our belts together only for short periods. In reality, I need my belt far more than she needs hers.

How,and who,decide when she had to wear her,and for how long?

Chastity is a game for her, a serious need for me. That's the way things are.

Jonas

Or to accept to take the whole belt off sometimes.With would make the masturbation more pleasant.

After my life-experiences, I am not a fan of masturbation and don't want to encourage it, but of course, it's up to the individuals involved how they use their belts.

Tobbe

Vanessa I find the Neosteel website a bit worse too.

Very difficult to navigate and you have to remember that many times things are written in the blog http://www.neosteel.de/ before it enters the shop pages. https://shop.neosteel.com/

Angelina

Vanessa I find the Neosteel website a bit worse too.It is easier to navigate on the My-Steel one.

well, i have experience with both brands and agree with you that the mysteel website is easier to use.

Vanessa .But her mother probably think it would be more secure,and would have less chance to cheat on a waist style one.

But less chance of success does not mean less fights.

Vanessa

Jonas Chastity is a game for her, a serious need for me. That's the way things are.

So,she's the one deciding it for her?

Jonas After my life-experiences, I am not a fan of masturbation and don't want to encourage it, but of course, it's up to the individuals involved how they use their belts.

What I meant is,if it is allowed,it is better to make it as pleasant as possible.

Angelina But less chance of success does not mean less fights.

Sure!

HHelen I would be more concerned about oral sex.

Which need to use the secondary shield too.

Angelina

Right!😉

Jonas

Very effective...🙁

Christine Received and "installed".

How do you feel ?

No training?

Christine It will be a waste of time in her opinion.

It was the case with the hip style one.

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