Other ways to endure

Alex

This question mainly applies to chaste boys and men, but girls can also answer. Besides vigorous exercise and learning, what other ways do you use to endure long-term chastity?

Angelina

Alex

do you mean ways to distract yourself from chastity?

Conrad

Alex

First off I have never worn a chastity cage or belt for more than 24 hours, but I have forced myself to quit masturbating for over 5 months, without any cage or belt, which has been very difficult.

I have had a problem called vasco-congestion, commonly called blue balls, wherein my testicles get swollen and painful. Mine do not literally turn blue but this can happen to some people.

Have you experienced a similar issue?

If so... applying ice or other cold compress to the testicles helps relieve the pain.

If not... oops, this is irrelevant for you.

Vanessa

Alex

Studying when I was a student,working now.

Spending time with friends.

As @Angelina said,hobbies can help too.

Angelina writing on unwedchastity 🤣

Which doesn't make us think less about our chastity devices!😉

Foxies

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Foxies

Alex what other ways do you use to endure long-term chastity?

I suppose this question doesn't apply to me because even though I am locked in most of the time, it is removed each evening and several times/month for my partners examination and cleaning in the shower and of course her pleasure.

I still suffer frustrations however. I am sure other girls will not approve (since it borders on cheating), but I find thumping on the main shield, vacuum cleaning 🤣 , leaning on the washing machine and yes, resorting to feeling the sensations from my partners power tools occasionally etc 🤣 , sort of helpful. Though too much of those can make the frustration even worse 😅

Alex

Angelina Well, yes, something like what you can do to distract yourself when you are not studying and not playing sports.

Fatherof3

When i hit a certain amount of weeks with out a release. I find myself accomplishing things that i have put off for sometime. It is usually the smaller mundane things like cleaning windows or leveling the gravel in the driveway.

Angelina

Alex

it's hard to say, i would generally say that hobbies are a good idea. with me it's cooking and baking

and of course writing on unwedchastity 🤣

Foxies

Angelina it's hard to say, i would generally say that hobbies are a good idea. with me it's cooking and baking

and of course writing on unwedchastity 🤣

I would add teasing my partner 🤣

Fatherof3

Conrad I have had a problem called vasco-congestion, commonly called blue balls, wherein my testicles get swollen and painful. Mine do not literally turn blue but this can happen to some people.

Have you experienced a similar issue?

If so... applying ice or other cold compress to the testicles helps relieve the pain.

Good to know. TU

Alex

Conrad First off I have never worn a chastity cage or belt for more than 24 hours, but I have forced myself to quit masturbating for over 5 months, without any cage or belt, which has been very difficult.

I have had a problem called vasco-congestion, commonly called blue balls, wherein my testicles get swollen and painful. Mine do not literally turn blue but this can happen to some people.

Have you experienced a similar issue?

If so... applying ice or other cold compress to the testicles helps relieve the pain.

If not... oops, this is irrelevant for you.

No, the belt often opens, there simply does not have time for anything to form. Moreover, when I have the opportunity, I massage the testicles and stroke them.

Max9

Alex

Conrad

Maybe also try to press the skin under the downside of the base ring upwards so that you canmassage it at this spot.(No, I don't habe that, but maybe it helps)

Angelina

Foxies I would add teasing my partner 🤣

well, i would do that too if my girlfriend had the keys, but that's a different situation 😂

Vanessa Which doesn't make us think less about our chastity devices!😉

I see it differently, at least it helps us to feel normal

Vanessa

Angelina I see it differently, at least it helps us to feel normal

Yes,but,due to the focus of the board,we thought about our chastity devices when writing here!😉

Foxies I still suffer frustrations however. I am sure other girls will not approve (since it borders on cheating), but I find thumping on the main shield, vacuum cleaning 🤣 , leaning on the washing machine and yes, resorting to feeling the sensations from my partners power tools occasionally etc 🤣 , sort of helpful. Though too much of those can make the frustration even worse 😅

We all try to find ways to help us mange it!😉

But often it end in being even more frustrated,as it isn't enough to let us reach orgasm...

Foxies

Seems a good way to define it.

Foxies Personally I doubt it and I would be professionally interested in any male experience on this forum who has personal knowledge of such.

It was the case for American's graffiti,but he doesn't post on this board.

Tobbe

Foxies There is no right or wrong! Everyone deals with their keyholder and agrees on something that works fine.
The only thing is that then it can not be called 24/7, if there are hours of breaks at nights or other times.

Angelina

Foxies too much of those can make the frustration even worse 😅

that's right, it's definitely a big problem. i have tried many things (and am trying many things now) but either it has no effect or it frustrates even more because it stimulates but does not lead to orgasm 🙁

Max9 you can't be locked without interruptions.

nobody ever said that. the 24/7 are related to the time without orgasm, not to the time in the belt. the belt only helps to reach the 24/7

this discussion somehow makes no sense to me, wearing the belt is never permanent for men and women, but it is about what the time is used for

Max9

Tobbe Well, except if you make sure the person can't do anything that time. Unlock him / her and take her for a walk outside - he/she can't touch himself/ herself in public. If the supervised walk takes for some hours it is till 25/7

Tobbe

Max9 If we're gonna be picky, I'm talking about time with the chastity belt on (24/7) and you about denial.

Max9

Tobbe Well, then you also must not have any opening for cleaning, because as soon as you shortly open the belt to clean it it has not been on 24/7 anympre - maybe 23:45 / 7 ... so there must be some exceptions in 24/7 that don't cpunt as being unlocked because it wouldn't be possible otherwise. And I would say that as long as it is made sure that you can't touch yourself down there, in order to please yourself, it's still 24/7.

Tobbe

Max9 We can always go to extremes, but all who uses chastity belts and does not want to harm the user understands that there must be minor interruptions. As easy as having to stop and refuel a car, even if you drive a distance non-stop.
To not please yourself is only denial.

Max9

Tobbe who uses chastity belts and does not want to harm the user understands that there must be minor interruptions.

That's exactly what I'm saying ... you can't be locked without interruptions. The only quedtion is jow long the inzerruptions can be withput loosing the 24/7 status. When it's about female wearers the question does seem to be easy, but when it's about male wearers it becomes more difficult - because wee do need to have an errecrion from time to time for our health according to an urologist of my trust. That means ypu need to be unlocked for a certain amount of time to be able to habe an errection. That time you can spend either handcuffed in your room or going out for a wall with one of your parents / your keyholder.

Tobbe

Max9 You still mix 24/7 denial with 24/7 use of chastity belt.
If you is belted 24/7, you wear it 24/7 and it is only taken off for short periods, such as cleaning, examination or replacement to another chastity belt.
Not go out for guarded walks unbelted or sleep nights with other inability to touch your sex.

Max9

Tobbe Yes, but that would men men can't be 24/7 without taking care of their health.... no - because this erevtion is part of the healthcare just like cleaning the device it must be seen as such.
So beinh unlocked for like half an hour every 2 or 3 weeks still is 24/7 chastity as long as this unlocked time is due to the gender of your body necessary for your health. It is to be seen as part of a cleaning seassion.
Planes for example also need to do a bigger inspection from time to time. Butstill they are not counted as being out of use judt because they have a b check and not only a checks.