Distancing serious use from fetish.

Laura

Jonas Do you think the bra should be in the non-bondage/fetish part of the site?

Belt, thighbands and bra are appropriate for this forum

Jonas

Laura Agree they're all appropriate here, was wondering about on My-Steel's page.

Angelina

Vanessa Except the "bondage" part(in which there is the chastity bra,however).

i admit that i never understood why the chastity bra is on the fetish part

Laura Belt, thighbands and bra are appropriate for this forum

righteous, that are devices that can be associated with serious chastity

Jonas So, I agree they should be in "Accessories" not fetish, but I do think the actual bondage, the restriction from them is too harsh for everyday wear.

i also think that it suits Accessories better, but it is quite possible to spend everyday life with it 😉

Vanessa

Jonas Do you think the bra should be in the non-bondage/fetish part of the site?

I think so.More in "Accessories".

Jonas

Do you think the bra should be in the non-bondage/fetish part of the site?

Vanessa I think so.More in "Accessories".

Usually, I find myself in agreement with Ivana from MisterPoll. I'm thinking about her positivity, her willingness to wear the belt along with her daughters and her understanding that chastity should mean no masturbation.

I think I am right in saying that she considered bra and thigh bands to be something that might help achieve full chastity, but that they'd be impractically severe in everyday life. I'm sure you'd agree and I would too.

So, I agree they should be in "Accessories" not fetish, but I do think the actual bondage, the restriction from them is too harsh for everyday wear.

Laura

Jonas I think I am right in saying that she considered bra and thigh bands to be something that might help achieve full chastity, but that they'd be impractically severe in everyday life.

In my opinion, it will be enough, if a girl wear a belt only. But some parents want more, and it's their choice. It's not a fetish or bondage, but should be used at home

Vanessa

Jonas they'd be impractically severe in everyday life.

Chastity bra are very unpleasant and reduce the choice of clothes;however it is bearable in everyday life,without too much troubles(except emotionally).For thigh bands,it is way more restrictive,even for walking,climbing stairs etc...,so maybe harder to wear in everyday life.

Angelina i admit that i never understood why the chastity bra is on the fetish part

I guess there is way more fetishist who buy it than serious users...

Angelina righteous, that are devices that can be associated with serious chastity

I think so,too.

Jonas

Right.Some women(even if not all)can orgasm by stimulating only her breasts.

In my case,it is mainly to make less interesting for me to give sex.

Jonas How much protection from self-stimulation do you think it adds?

Depends if the wearer can orgasm this way.In my case,I tried and,even if it arouses me a lot,I can't reach orgasm by stimulating only my breasts.

Angelina just to be clear, this does not mean that it is easy to carry the bra. especially psychologically it is very hard, but it is possible to live everyday life with it.

I agree.

Jonas

Angelina ...but it is quite possible to spend everyday life with it

I've read that you and @Vanessa have to deal with very limiting "accessories" like the bra, but had decided that this was due to the amazing effort that you both are making to comply with rules that many would consider unacceptably harsh.

However, I have a question:

On MisterPoll Ivana expressed her doubts that it was wearable on long-term, too obstructive she thought.

And, above, @Laura suggests home-use

Laura In my opinion, it will be enough, if a girl wear a belt only. But some parents want more, and it's their choice. It's not a fetish or bondage, but should be used at home

If a wearer and keyholder fully agreed to chastity and strongly wanted to prevent masturbation, would you say that a chastity bra really could be suitable for long term wear? Or is this accessory too restrictive to be generally included in real chastity?

Angelina

Jonas On MisterPoll Ivana expressed her doubts that it was wearable on long-term, too obstructive she thought.

if she has doubts, she should not use it. i can only say from my own experience that it is possible and many other girls here can confirm that.

Jonas Or is this accessory too restrictive to be generally included in real chastity?

no it isn't and sorry for answering a question that wasn't asked of me, but this question should only be answered by bras wearers. 🙂

HHelen

Jonas Do you think the bra should be in the non-bondage/fetish part of the site?

I don't see any practical use for it so far.

Ines

HHelen
Agree

Jonas

HHelen I guess the bra blocks another route to orgasm through masturbation.

HHelen

Jonas I guess the bra blocks another route to orgasm through masturbation.

Hard to do it.

Jonas

Angelina Thanks so much for answering, I was asking you (and @Vanessa) for, as you say, you have the most experience.
If you say that the bra isn't too restrictive for everyday chastity then I will take your word for it.

Jonas

Angelina

If the belt isn't too restrictive for everyday wear, I guess the question now is: If a wearer and keyholder freely agree that they want full chastity, would you recommend that a chastity bra be used? IE: How much protection from self-stimulation do you think it adds?

Sorry to ask so many questions! 😅

Angelina

Jonas If you say that the bra isn't too restrictive for everyday chastity then I will take your word for it.

just to be clear, this does not mean that it is easy to carry the bra. especially psychologically it is very hard, but it is possible to live everyday life with it.

Jonas IE: How much protection from self-stimulation do you think it adds?

it depends a little bit. there are women who are able to get something similar to an orgasm by rubbing their breasts. this is for example the case with @Sara2001. with me it is only stimulation that should be avoided. i would only recommend it if rubbing the breasts is an obstacle for the goal.

Jonas I think it becomes increasingly possible if other routes are blocked.

But only if the ability exists in principle

Jonas

HHelen Hard to do it.

If you mean it's hard to orgasm this way, I think it becomes increasingly possible if other routes are blocked.

HHelen

Jonas I think it becomes increasingly possible if other routes are blocked

You only think.

Jonas

Angelina just to be clear, this does not mean that it is easy to carry the bra. especially psychologically it is very hard

I absolutely understand this. It's a huge thing to expect of anyone in chastity.

Angelina i would only recommend it if rubbing the breasts is an obstacle for the goal.

Yes. I understand. How strict the chastity depends on how strict the agreed aim. Thanks.

Angelina

Jonas Yes. I understand. How strict the chastity depends on how strict the agreed aim. Thanks.

this is exactly what i mean and i would also like to emphasise this time again that the goal should be defined beforehand

Vanessa .For thigh bands,it is way more restrictive,

I agree

Vanessa I guess there is way more fetishist who buy it than serious users...

a fetish for metal breasts hmm... 😂

Vanessa and,even if it arouses me a lot,I can't reach orgasm by stimulating only my breasts.

it is the same with me

Jonas

Angelina the goal should be defined beforehand

Yes. I agree, this is necessary for consent. Where rules are tightened, consent needs to re-obtained.

Vanessa

Angelina a fetish for metal breasts hmm... 😂

Not much more surprising than for a chastity belt,I think.

Angelina it is the same with me

Not good;however,if I can,I would probably have to wear the chastity bra permanently too,so it has good side that I wasn't able to reach orgasm this way,too.

Jonas

I agree.

Sara2001 Is it fetish, is it not? Is using it for fetishism the normal use? I think everybody has an own answer to this question.

I think you're pretty right.

Jonas My reason for asking the question remains however, I wonder how many people, who simply want to protect virtue, or prevent masturbation are put off by the more overtly pro-sexual aspects of the equipment.

I doubt we can have a clear answer about it,however.We don't even know how many people use it,so knowing how many would have used it if not shown as a fetish,but have changed their mind due to it...I don't think it is possible to know it.

Jonas I am against all forms of forced wearing. Consent is a vital first step in chastity and it requires the ability to say "No".

I agree.

Angelina

Jonas Where rules are tightened, consent needs to re-obtained.

right, because it is a new situation

Sara2001 Is it fetish, is it not? Is using it for fetishism the normal use?

i would say it is a serious use of the devices. everyone can have their own opinion about this, but you are wearing the devices not only for your sexual activities, but all the time to make him happy. this makes it a lifestyle and that is more than a fetish in my eyes.

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