Periodic usage vs 24/7

Sara2001

I think the big question is, should she masturbate during the breaks or not. If she is used to wear the belt 24/7 or almost 24/7, that's what is one of the key questions. If masturbation is not okay, it's more difficult to monitor her when she doesn't wear it.

I personally think, even without wearing the belt at school a regime without masturbation can work, if she is back in her belt just after arrival. For period many cleaning breaks would be good, but I don't think it must not be worn at all.

Angelina

Ines If mom believes in chastity belts, there is not any reason for what she does not wear it.

unless she disagrees with her mum 😂

Vanessa ..But I can't tell about breaks of only a few hours.

that would be my suggestion. short breaks so that it doesn't get too hard, but not too long because otherwise the getting used to effect will diminish considerably.

Sara2001 I personally think, even without wearing the belt at school a regime without masturbation can work,

brave, it didn't work for your sister and led to a disaster 🙁

Vanessa

Sara2001 f masturbation is not okay, it's more difficult to monitor her when she doesn't wear it.

I think most of us would masturbate if we've some time without it on.Even if we're not allowed to.

Angelina it didn't work for your sister and led to a disaster 🙁

But her sister was not careful at all...

Sara2001

I agree,if she was allowed to masturbate sometimes,she would probably not have done it.

Ines

Angelina
Normal behaviour people do not masturbate in classes hours.

Sara2001

Angelina brave, it didn't work for your sister and led to a disaster

I agree with that, but I think my sister is an exception and at least when you are allowed to masturbate at home from time to time, this would never happen. But you are right, as you see on her example, the urges can be very, very strong.

Angelina

Ines Normal behaviour people do not masturbate in classes hours.

Yes, but you know I try to take all exceptions into account. 😉

Sara2001 and at least when you are allowed to masturbate at home from time to time, this would never happen.

that's what i mean, if i understood you correctly, in this example there should be no breaks at home. this can lead, as with your sister, to the girl using the only remaining chance and masturbating at school.

Foxies

Vanessa I think most of us would masturbate if we've some time without it on. Even if we're not allowed to.

Interesting point. The drive to seek orgasm has evolved to be very strong. From an evolutionary standpoint, it is a mechanism our genes have evolved to ensure their survival. A strong desire to remain chaste is thus counter evolutionary.

However, I have always found it interesting that evolution permitted the orgasmic sensation to be achievable in a solo setting. That never made much sense. Or did our genes evolve a mechanism that masturbation is frowned on even though the orgasmic experience is still intense?

I can however say, that an orgasm with a lover is a far better and more intense experience than the solo version. Perhaps that's why I gave my sex (and key 😉) to my lover.

Sara2001

Vanessa I think most of us would masturbate if we've some time without it on.Even if we're not allowed to.

I think it depends a lot on the consequences and how likely it is to be caught. In my situation it would massively damage my relationship with Daniel when I masturbate without permission, so I would most probably not risk it, even without the belt.

Angelina

Vanessa But her sister was not careful at all...

that's true, i think it depends on the character. but if it was my only chance, i don't know if i also wouldn't have taken it.

Vanessa Several studies shown that masturbation has good effects on the body

even though i have already said in another thread that i disagree with this, it might be something you could present to your parents as an argument or ? 😉

Sara2001 it would massively damage my relationship with Daniel when I masturbate without permission, so I would most probably not risk it, even without the belt.

i agree. that's also why i don't want to masturbate after my wedding. it wouldn't damage my marriage as much as it did yours (that's why i don't use the belt anymore), but i think the basic idea is right 🙂

Vanessa

Foxies

Several studies shown that masturbation has good effects on the body,it may be a reason it gives us pleasant feelings,to have these good effects even when single...

I agree,generally having sex give more intense orgasms than masturbation.

Sara2001

Foxies However, I have always found it interesting that evolution permitted the orgasmic sensation to be achievable in a solo setting. That never made much sense. Or did our genes evolve a mechanism that masturbation is frowned on even though the orgasmic experience is still intense?

Maybe it is like a teaser, like you get curious about doing it with someone else.

Vanessa

Sara2001 it depends a lot on the consequences and how likely it is to be caught.

I agree.

Sara2001 I would most probably not risk it, even without the belt.

Understandable,but hard to manage!

Angelina if it was my only chance, i don't know if i also wouldn't have taken it.

I think I would try.But I would take care to not moan or scream.

Angelina it might be something you could present to your parents as an argument or ? 😉

Already tried,but they answered there is no studies showing than not masturbating is damaging(and especially for women)...

Angelina it wouldn't damage my marriage as much as it did yours (that's why i don't use the belt anymore), but i think the basic idea is right 🙂

As your girlfriend masturbates presently,do you think it would hurt her if you do it when married?If not wearing the belt presently,would you not masturbate,as you're in a relationship with her?

Christine

Anne-Marie What is your opinion regarding 24/7 usage or periodic usage?

I have to wear it 24/7.

Kris

Angelina so i would say for voluntary wearers, small breaks yes, but not long ones.

I agree with that!

Angelina

Vanessa .But I would take care to not moan or scream.

me too, definitely, but i would plan it over months anyway to avoid getting caught. 😉

Vanessa but they answered there is no studies showing than not masturbating is damaging

that's true, but good health is better than normal health, isn't it? 😉

Vanessa As your girlfriend masturbates presently,do you think it would hurt her if you do it when married?If not wearing the belt presently,would you not masturbate,as you're in a relationship with her?

difficult question because i consistently distinguish between relationship and marriage. currently it is not a problem for me because it is the only possibility for camryn to have orgasms. after the wedding and when we are both completely free, i think sexual pleasure should only take place with the partner. it would not be bad if camryn masturbates after the marriage, but i would find it better if not

Vanessa

Angelina me too, definitely, but i would plan it over months anyway to avoid getting caught. 😉

If I've the possibility,I doubt I would be able to manage to wait several months before using this possibility!😉

Angelina that's true, but good health is better than normal health, isn't it? 😉

Sure.But it seems our parents don't think the benefit on our health is worth it...

Angelina difficult question because i consistently distinguish between relationship and marriage. currently it is not a problem for me because it is the only possibility for camryn to have orgasms. after the wedding and when we are both completely free, i think sexual pleasure should only take place with the partner. it would not be bad if camryn masturbates after the marriage, but i would find it better if not

If she still do it after you get married,do you think you would tend to allow yourself to do it,sometimes,as long as it doesn't impact badly your relationship?

And do you think it should not be used as foreplay,too?

Angelina

Vanessa If I've the possibility,I doubt I would be able to manage to wait several months before using this possibility!😉

i would first have to create this possibility for myself, and in my opinion it takes good planning. by chance is relatively unlikely. 😉

Vanessa Sure.But it seems our parents don't think the benefit on our health is worth it...

or they even think the opposite 🙁

Vanessa If she still do it after you get married,do you think you would tend to allow yourself to do it,sometimes,as long as it doesn't impact badly your relationship?

I would always allow her to do it, but she knows that I think differently. 😉

Vanessa And do you think it should not be used as foreplay,too?

maybe, but i don't want to take too much "horniness" beforehand

Vanessa

Angelina i would first have to create this possibility for myself, and in my opinion it takes good planning. by chance is relatively unlikely. 😉

Presently,even by trying to plan it well,there is few chances that you get such possibility,it seems...

Angelina or they even think the opposite 🙁

Right...🙁

Angelina I would always allow her to do it, but she knows that I think differently. 😉

You wouldn't feel hurt?

Angelina maybe, but i don't want to take too much "horniness" beforehand

Based on my experience,I advice you to keep it in mind,to at least give it a try,when it would be possible!😉

Angelina

Vanessa Presently,even by trying to plan it well,there is few chances that you get such possibility,it seems...

At least I don't see any chances at the moment 🙁

Vanessa You wouldn't feel hurt?

yes and no, I think it depends on why she is masturbating, there should definitely be discussions.

Vanessa at least give it a try,when it would be possible!😉

we will certainly try it 😉

Vanessa

Angelina At least I don't see any chances at the moment 🙁

I think you're right...

Angelina yes and no, I think it depends on why she is masturbating, there should definitely be discussions.

Do you think she could accept to stop doing it,if you ask her?

Angelina we will certainly try it 😉

Right decision!😉

Angelina

Vanessa Do you think she could accept to stop doing it,if you ask her?

i think so, but it should be her own decision 🙂

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