Asking for releases

Ines

Angelina this is probably one of the main reasons why @Ines recommends thigh bands 😉

I the safer is the belt we are calm.
Belt should be over-safe and we should not have any control over it, if not, it can creates anxiety.

Angelina

Hannah The bathroom I use extends into the washroom, so my mom usually does washing and ironing while im in the shower. She's not paying close attention but she doesn't need to.

well, of course, if you were to lead yourself to orgasm, she would notice it too if she wasn't watching you all the time.

Ines I the safer is the belt we are calm.

i can't quite agree with that, even though i understand your argument. for me, the fights aren't getting lesser, just shorter.

HHelen As I mentioned before about once a month and it's fair enough.

better than nothing, but still very little

Chris1

Sara2001 I just saw that the question has been deleted. Should I make this question another thread?

Sara2001

Chris1 Sara2001 I just saw that the question has been deleted. Should I make this question another thread?

Which one. I don't know.

HHelen

Angelina a cycle can be of different lengths, how long would your cycle be ?

As I mentioned before about once a month and it's fair enough.

Chris1

Sara2001 The question about how your showers are supervised. But that was before I realized some of you had already answered it.

Vanessa

Chris1

My parents supervise it,depending on who has free time for it.It is pretty shaming,having to be naked,and being watched to be sure my hands not stay on some places more than necessary...

Angelina this is probably one of the main reasons why @Ines recommends thigh bands 😉

Yes,I guess so,too.

Hannah Honestly, I was quite busy today so I didn't think about it much.

Good it wasn't too hard.

Still no more clear answer?

Angelina i can't quite agree with that, even though i understand your argument. for me, the fights aren't getting lesser, just shorter.

Similar for me.I don't fight less when I've my thigh bands on.It is more devices to fight...

Christine

Hannah I definatly thought about this, but there are some things happening next month that I really do not want to miss out on.

You have a risk of being imprisoned for a longer time than you expect.

Angelina

Christine You have a risk of being imprisoned for a longer time than you expect.

that's right, that's why @Hannah should talk to her mother as soon as possible and before the end of the one month, i expect an update soon 🙂

Angelina

Vanessa Similar for me.I don't fight less when I've my thigh bands on.It is more devices to fight...

understandable, but the main goal of our parents is unfortunately fulfilled, the chances of winning the fight become much smaller. 🙁

Hannah

The first week (almost 😁) has been pretty uneventful. It does feel different to no longer have breaks. I haven't had any problems with urges yet although im making and effort to keep it out of my mind. Mom is getting me a new Laptop tomorrow to celebrate 1 week, but I kinda need a new one anyway so its not actually special.

Angelina I had another talk with my mom about what happens at the end of the month. She said that I will have the option to continue for another 3 months or end it. I told her I will eventually end it if my urges don't go away and I can't masturbate. After the arugment we had before, I was expecting her to be a little angry but instead she sighed and said "I know what it is like to be young" oh lala.
I suggested scheduled breaks to her as another option, but she refused once again, and told me she is against self-pleasure. I told her it felt stupid that I would probably be ending this because I can't have an orgasm and neither of us want that. She just sighed again and said she would think it over. Not the best outcome, but now I have her thinking.

Vanessa

Angelina

Right...🙁

Even if,even without thigh bands,there is almost no chance to win such fight...

Hannah I haven't had any problems with urges yet

Good!Let's hope it stays this way,even if it would be surprising.

Hannah I kinda need a new one anyway so its not actually special.

Still a good gift!🙂

Hannah I suggested scheduled breaks to her as another option, but she refused once again, and told me she is against self-pleasure. I told her it felt stupid that I would probably be ending this because I can't have an orgasm and neither of us want that. She just sighed again and said she would think it over. Not the best outcome, but now I have her thinking.

Would you truly be ready to end it and lose the added freedom,or was it a bluff?

Not a good outcome but predictable.Do you think there is any chances she allow some breaks to make you continue wearing it?

Hannah

Good you feel some advantages about it.

Angelina i am not quite sure if you are wearing the belt voluntarily, so the king question of all is what are the consequences if you end it?

It seems she would lose all the additional freedom she presently have(and it seems she was very limited before).

Angelina i hope she thinks about it again. for her it would have advantages if you continue to wear the belt and for you it would be more bearable if you get breaks 🙂

It would be a good agreement,yes.

Chris1

Yes.

HHelen

Not uncommon.

Christine

Hannah She said that I will have the option to continue for another 3 months or end it. I told her I will eventually end it if my urges don't go away and I can't masturbate.

And what do you think? It might be your last chance to get rid of it.

Angelina

Hannah She said that I will have the option to continue for another 3 months or end it.

i am not quite sure if you are wearing the belt voluntarily, so the king question of all is what are the consequences if you end it?

Hannah She just sighed again and said she would think it over. Not the best outcome, but now I have her thinking.

i hope she thinks about it again. for her it would have advantages if you continue to wear the belt and for you it would be more bearable if you get breaks 🙂

HHelen

Hannah and told me she is against self-pleasure.

Once she has discovered that a chastity belt really works this way.

Hannah

Christine I will decide at the end of the month. I think I can decide again after the 3 months if I choose to do that.

I actually want to work out a way to keep it. I really enjoy the personal freedoms and I even feel safer going out with it on.

Christine

Hannah I think I can decide again after the 3 months if I choose to do that

I doubt you will have this option after 3 months.

Hannah

Angelina Ending it would mean curfew at 5pm and less freedom on the weekend. I can't really do much about it. I also think she would be disappointed. I am still hoping we can have some kind of agreement.

Chris1 I think she would try to find other ways of preventing it. But, I don't think that is possible.

Vanessa I didn't decide to end it then and there. I just said that it was quite likely. As for the urges... I am starting to feel pent up now. The belt feels like it is pressing into my crotch when I get aroused which feels nice, but is also frustrating. I don't think mom has noticed though, I can clean it up before any checks.

Ines There is no way in hell im telling her about thighbands. If she decided she wanted them then that would make things worse.

Chris1

@Hannah So, I"m not sure if I get this right. Either you wear your belt or you'll get freedom restrictions, but then you would still be able to masturbate right?

Ines

HHelen Once she has discovered that a chastity belt really works this way.

Hannah she refused once again, and told me she is against self-pleasure.

Vanessa Not uncommon.

Yes, I think un the same way.
I think that there are much more people that do not approve female masturbation but accept it because they think that it is inevitable.

When they discover that a chastity belt can avoid it, they want use it for this.

However, it is good that you are talking about it before the usage. Do you know if she wants that you wear some accessories to make the belt safer against self-pleasure. It is important talk about this too.

Angelina

Vanessa Even if,even without thigh bands,there is almost no chance to win such fight...

of course, but without the thigh bands stimulation is possible, so there is at least some hope (even if very slight), but with the thigh bands it feels completely "dead" 🙁

Vanessa It seems she would lose all the additional freedom she presently have(and it seems she was very limited before).

then rather unwillingly, but due to opportunism

Ines Do you know if she wants that you wear some accessories to make the belt safer against self-pleasure.

you speak from the parents' point of view, the parents call it making it safer, we should call it making it more restrictive. 😂

Vanessa

Ines I think that there are much more people that do not approve female masturbation but accept it because they think that it is inevitable.

When they discover that a chastity belt can avoid it, they want use it for this.

I think so,too.

Ines However, it is good that you are talking about it before the usage. Do you know if she wants that you wear some accessories to make the belt safer against self-pleasure. It is important talk about this too.

Good to talk before about it,and the possible additional devices;yes.

Angelina of course, but without the thigh bands stimulation is possible, so there is at least some hope (even if very slight), but with the thigh bands it feels completely "dead" 🙁

Right,the result is similar,but the feelings are different.

Angelina then rather unwillingly, but due to opportunism

Yes.

Angelina you speak from the parents' point of view, the parents call it making it safer, we should call it making it more restrictive. 😂

😉

Hannah Ending it would mean curfew at 5pm and less freedom on the weekend. I can't really do much about it. I also think she would be disappointed. I am still hoping we can have some kind of agreement.

Let's hope,the limits are strict otherwise...

Hannah As for the urges... I am starting to feel pent up now. The belt feels like it is pressing into my crotch when I get aroused which feels nice, but is also frustrating.

Logical,even if not easy for you.

Hannah If she decided she wanted them then that would make things worse.

I agree.

Hannah

Yes,you avoid these!🙂

Angelina that sounds like very little freedom, i admit in your case i would probably also consider whether the belt is not the better alternative, even though you must be aware that you are giving up a lot.

I agree.

Hannah Hmmm I was ok for the first week, but now it is like a switch has been flipped and the urges are now getting strong. I have to really focus to try and reduce the problem. For example, I found that I can cross my legs when sitting down and move my hips back and forth to get a little bit of a 'rub' against the belt. It's not mutch, but I started doing this without thinking sometimes which is making me more aroused and more frustrated.

Not surprising,it is very classical.And I doubt it would be easier at the end of your trying...

I advise you to not do it,it would not be enough to relieve your urges,but would likely make these even worse...

Hannah I checked with mom and I will have this option after 3 months.

Am I right to guess you would try the 3 months anyway,before considering more seriously to quit?

Laura

Hannah If she decided she wanted them then that would make things worse.

Do you have D-rings on your waistband?

Angelina

Hannah Ending it would mean curfew at 5pm and less freedom on the weekend. I can't really do much about it. I also think she would be disappointed. I am still hoping we can have some kind of agreement.

that sounds like very little freedom, i admit in your case i would probably also consider whether the belt is not the better alternative, even though you must be aware that you are giving up a lot.

Hannah I get aroused which feels nice, but is also frustrating.

understandable it is enough for stimulation but not for orgasm

Hannah

that's good for you 🙂 either your mother didn't know what the d-rings were for, or she deliberately didn't order them.

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