Asking for releases

Ines

Laura
Yes. No doubt.

HHelen

Vanessa She doesn't plan to do it if she has no breaks,it seems.

She will have a break right after a month.

Vanessa

Ines

Interesting to know.

But,as @Laura said,@Hannah's belt should have these holes for it.

HHelen

Not sure,she could decide if she continue wearing it or not after a month,but not sure she would get a break too.

Angelina but they could be fitted later

Are you sure?Not necessary to order a new belt?

Angelina but i think if @Hannah's mother didn't see the point of the D-rings (or didn't want to), then she probably won't come up with these ideas.

Right.

Hannah I'm hoping the solution will not be something bad, maybe a release schedule. 😅

It would be good,yes.

Hannah Even once per week would be enough I think.

Not much,but not too bad.May I ask you how often you did it,before wearing the chastity belt?

Hannah Yes, I would take the freedom from the belt. But maybe I can do another month in the belt after for personal freedom and then have belt freedom again after that...

I strongly doubt that your mother would accept you switch on and off about wearing the belt,depending on the freedom you need...

Angelina if i were you, i would tell your mother a very relaxed idea, so that you say two to three times a week. she will probably refuse but then you have a chance to find a middle way with once a week or every two weeks 🙂

I agree,she should ask for more than she wants,to be able to negotiate better.

Hannah

Good you may be allowed to orgasm,even if the way she told it to you is unusual...Except if you have a boyfriend and girlfriend and allow you to have sex with him/her,it would be possible only by masturbating...

I guess the points would be a reward for good behavior,good grades,extra chores or similar...

So,you consider wearing it 3 more months?

Good you can manage your urges better,anyway!

Joh

It would be weird...

Maybe she plan to use some sorts of vibrator,to make her orgasm without touching herself...On a fixed schedule,to not do it instead of doing her homework,etc...

Angelina

Vanessa Anyway,thigh bands can't be worn with her belt(no D-rings).

but they could be fitted later

Vanessa She doesn't plan to do it if she has no breaks,it seems.

I read it over, sorry 😂

Ines

but i think if @Hannah's mother didn't see the point of the D-rings (or didn't want to), then she probably won't come up with these ideas.

Hannah

Megan I don't think it is narrow or particularly wide either. I would say normal. I am slightly muscular because I walk quite a bit. The belt does fit me quite well.

Angelina I wont extend it without the releases, which I have made clear to my mom. I'm hoping the solution will not be something bad, maybe a release schedule. 😅

Christine If I get a reasonable number of releases then I will continue. Even once per week would be enough I think.

Vanessa Yes, I would take the freedom from the belt. But maybe I can do another month in the belt after for personal freedom and then have belt freedom again after that...

Angelina

Hannah I wont extend it without the releases, which I have made clear to my mom. I'm hoping the solution will not be something bad, maybe a release schedule. 😅

then i wish you good luck for the probably hard negotiations. if i were you, i would tell your mother a very relaxed idea, so that you say two to three times a week. she will probably refuse but then you have a chance to find a middle way with once a week or every two weeks 🙂

Hannah Yes, I would take the freedom from the belt. But maybe I can do another month in the belt after for personal freedom and then have belt freedom again after that...

you have already understood opportunism very well 😉 😂

Hannah

Angelina I asked her about the solution today while she was checking the lock. Once again she said that I would not be allowed to masturbate. But she also said she was looking into a solution that would let me orgasm from time to time so that I can have some "relief" 😅 and so it doesn't get too distracting.
She must have noticed that I was getting very preoccupied with something 😄.
But she said that it would also depend on a schedule and a points system and I this would only be allowed if I agree to continue wearing the belt for the next 3 months.
I am really happy 😀 , but unsure about the points system and the schedule. I wonder what she has in mind for the relief, it seems a bit strange to me.
Comitting to another 3 months is also a big step.

My urges are also a bit more under control now. I think this was because of my earlier embarrasment. But it does make life easier.

Joh

Hannah Once again she said that I would not be allowed to masturbate. But she also said she was looking into a solution that would let me orgasm from time to time so that I can have some "relief" 😅 and so it doesn't get too distracting.

Does she has in mind to bring you to your orgasms by her?

Angelina

Hannah

That doesn't sound too bad, but before you make the decision you should wait and see how the points system is structured, i.e. what you have to do to get points and how many points you need to get a break, but of course better than nothing.

if you agree, do you keep your freedoms that you got in return for wearing the belt?

Vanessa Are you sure?Not necessary to order a new belt?

i don't think i'm not sure but i think you can send the belt back to mysteel and they could attach d-rings. but for this period, @Hannah would be freed from the belt

Joh What is the different between masturbating and using a vibrator?

the hands stay clean 😉

HHelen

Vanessa Not sure,she could decide if she continue wearing it or not after a month,but not sure she would get a break too.

Of course, she will not have this choice, but from parenting viewpoint she must pretend it's her decision.

Hannah She decides something on principle and she can be "as stubborn as a mule"

Most parents are of this kind.

Hannah But she said that it would also depend on a schedule and a points system

I wouldn't do if I was your mom.

Hannah and I this would only be allowed if I agree to continue wearing the belt for the next 3 months.

But if you don't agree if will not wear a belt anymore, so "schedule and points system" will not be needed.

Hannah

Joh Lol? no way.

Vanessa I don't have a bf or gf.

Angelina the hands stay clean 😉
Basically this. I asked her again why I couldn't just masturbate but she lectured me again about how self pleasure is a bad and so on... I don't want to force the topic because I don't want her to change ger mind 😅 .

Joh Mom has always been like this. She decides something on principle and she can be "as stubborn as a mule" (my Dad said that to me once).

Ines Once again, I glad that she is not reading this website.

Joh

Vanessa It would be weird...

Maybe she plan to use some sorts of vibrator,to make her orgasm without touching herself...On a fixed schedule,to not do it instead of doing her homework,etc...

Yes, it would be weird as well your idea. What is the different between masturbating and using a vibrator? I don't see it.

Vanessa

Joh

@Hannah would not touch her directly,only with the vibrator.

Chris1

It is right we think more about sex and such when wearing a chastity belt.However,with time,we can manage to concentrate on other things,but it doesn't always work.

Laura But the initial purpose of the belt was something else

Right.

Laura Or I want an abstinence belt

Right too.

HHelen Most parents are of this kind.

I agree.

Laura

Yes.Some are made to only stimulate the clitoris,so the hymen would not be broken.

Max9 it would destroy the purity

I don't agree,using a vibrator would not destroy @Hannah's purity.And,anyway,she has already masturbated.

Ines I was not talking of you, but how can someone think in this!!

As I was the one guessing the vibrator use,I think I've expressed myself badly.I meant that @Hannah could use herself the vibrator,not asking someone else to use it on her.

Angelina i see it differently, i have not been able to stimulate myself for some time now, but i cannot confirm that the "bad ideas" will go of mind

I agree.

Hannah She admitted she was thinking of lieing but decided it would damage our relationshop too much.

Good she changed her mind.Lying would have been a bad thing to do.

Hannah She actually gave me the key today and told me to "just" be responsible.
I'm a little shocked but also delighted.

Understandable you like it.🙂

But what about the added freedom,

And would she think about another way to manage it?

She doesn't like at all you masturbated,so it's surprising she doesn't care about it anymore...

Angelina think you are the first one where the parents have changed their mind 🙂

I think so,too.

Laura

Angelina but for this period, @Hannah would be freed from the belt

Anyway she has another one

Joh

Angelina the hands stay clean

Oh com on. This is not a valid argument 😉 She could wear rubber cloves to keep her hands clean. Not so good feeling but clean 🤣

Angelina

Laura Anyway she has another one

that's right I forgot

Chris1

That doesn't make sense. If she is free to masturbate whenever she wants to, she will only think about it few times a week. With a chastity belt on and with this points system, she will think about her relief all the time. Fact is that she will be way more distracted from school and anything else just because she is in the chastity belt. If her mother doesn't even allow her to touch herself, she will be so frustrated that she won't think bout anything else anymore.

Joh

Chris1 she will only think about it few times a week.

I agree with that. Sexuality is part of our life and we have to learn to handle it in in a responsible manner.

It is similar with alcohol. It is available and you have to learn how you can live with it without damage your self. It is nice drinking a good glass of red wine but if your drink every evening one bottle by yourself it is too much. You get health problem, beside other problems.

Ines

Chris1

Chris1 If she is free to masturbate whenever she wants to, she will only think about it few times a week. With a chastity belt on and with this points system, she will think about her relief all the time. Fact is that she will be way more distracted from school and anything else just because she is in the chastity belt.

Agree

Chris1 If her mother doesn't even allow her to touch herself, she will be so frustrated that she won't think bout anything else anymore.

No agree.

The best option is avoid all stimulation, without any possibility of touching, the bad ideas will go out of the mind quickly.

I think that this kind of "program" are nonsensense, at all should be easier: I want wear a belt or I do not want wear it.
Other things are not very ethical.

Chris1

Chris1 Why was this message deleted?

Angelina

Joh Oh com on. This is not a valid argument 😉 She could wear rubber cloves to keep her hands clean. Not so good feeling but clean 🤣

🤣

Ines the bad ideas will go out of the mind quickly.

i see it differently, i have not been able to stimulate myself for some time now, but i cannot confirm that the "bad ideas" will go of mind

Max9 But to the ones who lock their children inconsently... how do you actually feel about it?

I can say without asking my father that he is very happy with this decision. 🙁

Max9 would be possible... I mean as long as it doesn't break the hymen.

But then you have to be very careful and if it is still fun then hmm...

Ines I mean... Nobody of people that I know, could be happy with her mother stimulating them.
It is weird...

i agree with you, for me it would probably trigger the opposite. instead of a sexual climax, it would rather be a sexual low point.

Joh

Ines the bad ideas

It depends on the point of view. I don't see it as bad thoughts but as beautiful ones. 😉

Laura

Ines The best option is avoid all stimulation, without any possibility of touching,

But the initial purpose of the belt was something else

Ines I want wear a belt or I do not want wear it.

Or I want an abstinence belt

Chris1

Ines No agree.

Oh, wait I meant that in terms of her mother's argument that she won't be allowed to touch her self for relief. I meant knowing that she can touch herself in order to cum is easier. It will be frustrating if she knows that she will not be allowed to touch herself and her mother does it with a vribrator. knowign she could touch herself if she wanted will make it easier not to think about it.

Ines

Laura But the initial purpose of the belt was something else

Of course, but, I mean, you know that in my opinion, that is not the main idea of wearing a belt.
However, all my respect to girls that think in another way.

Joh

Hannah Mom has always been like this. She decides something on principle and she can be "as stubborn as a mule" (my Dad said that to me once).

Do you have an idea what she has in mind as a solution?

Max9 I mean - you are making decisions about a person and their body that your child does not want...

This is a continue discussion at this forum. Many members are of the opinion a forced wearing of the CB is a no go.

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