Chastity belts in colleges and unversities

Laura

Angelina i think it is difficult to judge, theoretically you would have had to study twice, once with and once without belt to test it

But she can always compare before and after, because she has got her belt during her study

Angelina

Laura

right, she had the belt before, but it was decided to wear it permanently during her studies

Vanessa

Angelina i think it is difficult to judge, theoretically you would have had to study twice, once with and once without belt to test it 😂

In fact,I can compare my studies at university when the belt was used as a punishment,and after I've to wear it permanently,and my grades were similar,most of the time.

Angelina which I don't like, but you didn't see these one night stands as a relationship, did you?

No,it was always very clear it was only for sex,no love,and we would not date each other(and probably rarely meet each other too).

Laura

Exactly!😉

Michael

I hadn't it on when I had sports(even if I had to wear it as a punishment,it was taken off the days I had sports),and I started to have to wear it permanently while in university,with no mandatory sports.

HHelen But she is not an university student yet.

Do you think there is a high risk she would act like this without her abstinence belt?

Angelina yes I sometimes fear it too 🙁

Me too.Logical when wearing it.

Michael

When you wear your belt at school or when you wore it at school, how is/was it possible to do sports?
I mean wearing a belt hinders your movement at least a bit and teachers could notice that or you could do less good at sports and when dressing for sports or afterwards other pupils might also get suspicious.

Angelina

Michael how is/was it possible to do sports?

with the right clothes you can hide the belt

Michael and teachers could notice that

it never hindered me much, besides my teachers never noticed it, i always had good marks in sports

HHelen Nobody supports it, but it takes place.

unfortunately 🙁 but I don't think that your daughter is such a girl or ?

HHelen

Angelina but I generally do not support such a thing

Nobody supports it, but it takes place.

Vanessa But,based on what you told about her,it is not how she behaved.

But she is not an university student yet.

Sara2001

Angelina it never hindered me much, besides my teachers never noticed it, i always had good marks in sports

Same for me. Clothes is the key. But I always feared that someone will see something. But because people don't think about it, it never happens.

HHelen

Angelina but I don't think that your daughter is such a girl or ?

But since she will wear her belt, we will never know.

Vanessa Do you think there is a high risk she would act like this without her abstinence belt?

Yes, the risk is very high and an abstinence belt disciplines a girl very much. I agree with @Ines that every female student should wear one.

Tobbe

Sara2001 No one sees it they do not expect to see.

Angelina

Sara2001 But I always feared that someone will see something.

yes I sometimes fear it too 🙁

Sara2001 But because people don't think about it, it never happens.

and that is why my fears are not too big 🙂

Angelina

Vanessa and my grades were similar,most of the time.

it is the same with my school grades, i think sometimes the use of the belt for performance in school / study is overestimated

Vanessa No,it was always very clear it was only for sex,no love,and we would not date each other(and probably rarely meet each other too).

well, then at least you haven't played with your partners' feelings 🙂

Vanessa

Angelina it is the same with my school grades, i think sometimes the use of the belt for performance in school / study is overestimated

I think it may have a small impact.

Angelina you haven't played with your partners' feelings 🙂

Sure.I know it is not pleasant at all(experienced it),and I don't want to act this way.

HHelen Yes, the risk is very high and an abstinence belt disciplines a girl very much.

Based on what you say about her,I doubt it.However,she may act differently as a student.But you told that,if she leaves home,she would probably not have to wear it,as it could be hard to make it works.So,what if she starts her studies in another town?

Angelina

And I would add that,if she has sex only with her boyfriend,it is not a big problem.Even more if their relationship is serious,and they take care to protect them.

Angelina

HHelen But since she will wear her belt, we will never know.

hahaha good answer 😂

no seriously, do you think that without a belt the fear could come true?

HHelen

Angelina do you think that without a belt the fear could come true?

There is high pressure from classmates, so, yes, it could become true.

Angelina

HHelen

well, i admit that i find this kind of pressure very bad. the belt helps to avoid it, but i think she should resist this pressure anyway, this is not good

Angelina

Vanessa I think it may have a small impact.

yes, of course it can have an impact, i speak now only from personal experience

Vanessa Sure.I know it is not pleasant at all(experienced it),and I don't want to act this way.

very good 🙂

Vanessa And I would add that,if she has sex only with her boyfriend,it is not a big problem.Even more if their relationship is serious,and they take care to protect them.

i agree with you, even if it is not about that. because what you describe should be the joint decision of a couple and not be controlled by external influences

HHelen

Vanessa However,she may act differently as a student

This is my main concern.

Vanessa But you told that,if she leaves home,she would probably not have to wear it,as it could be hard to make it works.

That's true.

Vanessa So,what if she starts her studies in another town?

Then I'm going to talk to her the same way as to @Ines 's sister.
We live in a crowded area, hence the only reason for this can only be getting rid of the belt.

Angelina

HHelen We live in a crowded area,

do you have a university close to where you live? so would you insist that your daughter lives at home during her studies?

Vanessa

HHelen This is my main concern.

Any reason for it?

HHelen Then I'm going to talk to her the same way as to @Ines 's sister.
We live in a crowded area, hence the only reason for this can only be getting rid of the belt.

But she hasn't the choice for wearing her chastity belt or not,unlike @Ines' sister.

Angelina

Right,her city can be crowded but not offer her the possibility to study what she wanted.

Ines

Angelina
If her daughter does not have a clear vocation for a degree that it is only offered in another University, I think the most normal is that the girls study in local University.
Specially if she decides to wear a belt.

HHelen

Angelina do you have a university close to where you live?

Few.

Angelina so would you insist that your daughter lives at home during her studies?

I would insist her to wear a chastity belt.

Laura All New Jersey is close to NYC, well, to Jersey city,

Pretty much.

Vanessa But she hasn't the choice for wearing her chastity belt or not,unlike @Ines' sister.

She will have this choice, if she pays for education herself.

Angelina

Ines

i agree with you, but i don't know yet if there is a university in the city of @HHelen, not every big city has a university 😉

Laura

Angelina not every big city has a university

All New Jersey is close to NYC, well, to Jersey city, but whatever 😂

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