Chastity belts in colleges and unversities

HHelen

Angelina but this could lead to problems, what if they really love each other, but he can't support your daughter financially enough?

And I must be that person who supports them both?

Vanessa And if he doesn't agree?

Then he wouldn't marry her.

Vanessa In this case,would her opinion be more taken into account?

Yes, as usual.

Vanessa If she gets married,and you don't accept to give him the keys,the chastity belt(or the locks)could be easily destroyed,anyway.

She can always move out and live independently, she doesn't need to destroy her belt.

Vanessa or if she gets married during her studies(even if it is not common).

Then gets pregnant and gives up her studies.

Renita Then he is wrong guy or not ready for marriage

True.

Angelina

HHelen And I must be that person who supports them both?

not financially, but morally and you should accept the wedding and give the keys to him

HHelen Then gets pregnant and gives up her studies.

nonsense, not every girl gets pregnant through a wedding. these are very 50s moderate views

Vanessa

Renita

I don't think his financial income impact that he is the wrong or right man for marriage...

Angelina right and even in my situation, where the consequences would be bad, i would react like this. if i get married but do not get the keys for the belt, the belt will be destroyed

I would do the same,in this situation.

HHelen And I must be that person who supports them both?

If needed,his parents can support him too(and you your daughter),until they got a job.

HHelen Then he wouldn't marry her.

I doubt they would obey,if they want to marry,and not use the chastity belt on her.They would probably destroy the belt.

HHelen Yes, as usual.

It seems presently her opinion is not taken much into account...

HHelen She can always move out and live independently, she doesn't need to destroy her belt.

Only if you give her the keys.

HHelen Then gets pregnant and gives up her studies.

There is ways to avoid it.

HHelen

Angelina but morally and you should accept the wedding and give the keys to him

Then why couldn't they wait?

Vanessa I doubt they would obey,if they want to marry,and not use the chastity belt on her

It's a fair deal.

Vanessa They would probably destroy the belt.

And get new one.

Vanessa Only if you give her the keys.

I would do.

Vanessa There is ways to avoid it.

The best way to avoid it is to hold your knees together (or wear a chastity belt).

Angelina

Vanessa I don't think his financial income impact that he is the wrong or right man for marriage...

I agree, there are more important things than money

Vanessa There is ways to avoid it.

furthermore there are two different topics

Renita

Vanessa I don't think his financial income impact that he is the wrong or right man for marriage...

This is not a serious approach.

Vanessa

Renita This is not a serious approach.

A romantic one.Which is better,in my opinion!😉

HHelen Then why couldn't they wait?

Because it is logical an husband and his wife have sex.

HHelen And get new one.

Simply refuse to wear one again.

HHelen I would do.

So,she would probably have it off quickly.

HHelen The best way to avoid it is to hold your knees together (or wear a chastity belt).

Condoms and pill work fine,too.

HHelen

It would be very unlikely they would marry only to have sex.

Angelina

Right.

Angelina

HHelen Then why couldn't they wait?

for the simplest reason there is, the two love each other and want to confirm their love officially 🙂

HHelen

Angelina and want to confirm their love officially

Or just want sex.

Angelina

HHelen Or just want sex.

of course, but if you use this logic you will never know if your daughter is marrying for love or for sex

Renita

Vanessa A romantic one.Which is better,in my opinion!

Romance tends to end quickly.

HHelen

Vanessa Because it is logical an husband and his wife have sex.

I meant wait with marriage.

Vanessa Simply refuse to wear one again.

And simply no more financial support.

Vanessa So,she would probably have it off quickly.

Not necessary.

Vanessa Condoms and pill work fine,too.

For married couples?

Vanessa It would be very unlikely they would marry only to have sex.

Then there is no problem with her belt.

Angelina

Renita Romance tends to end quickly.

maybe that's why you are still single 😃

Vanessa

Renita

Depends.

HHelen I meant wait with marriage.

And we talked about being married while still studying.

HHelen And simply no more financial support.

If they're married,and not allowed to have sex together,I doubt this consequence would be deterrent enough anymore.It would make things harder for them,but they probably wouldn't let it interfere in their life as a a married couple.

HHelen Not necessary.

Very probable.

HHelen For married couples?

Pills at least if they don't want her to be pregnant at this moment.Condoms are not needed if they're faithful to each other.Or they can decide to use condoms,but not pills,to prevent unwanted pregnancies.Or both to avoid the risk if one of these fail.

HHelen Then there is no problem with her belt.

Having sex is part of the life of a married couple.

Angelina

HHelen For married couples?

of course, not every married couple wants to have children right away, some of them not at all

HHelen

Vanessa If they're married,and not allowed to have sex together,I doubt this consequence would be deterrent enough anymore.It would make things harder for them,but they probably wouldn't let it interfere in their life as a a married couple.

It would mean they are mature enough and no more support and a chastity belt for her is needed. But I doubt in it so far.

Vanessa Having sex is part of the life of a married couple.

Of course. That's why I suggest to not marry until being ready for it. But if she is stupid enough, I will let her keep wearing a chastity belt.

Vanessa

HHelen Of course. That's why I suggest to not marry until being ready for it. But if she is stupid enough, I will let her keep wearing a chastity belt.

Which would not be good,nor accepted,for a married couple,I'm pretty sure of it.They would destroy the belt,and it would damage your relationship with your daughter,while,accepting her choice,and giving them the keys,would have lead to a better outcome.

Angelina

HHelen It would mean they are mature enough and no more support and a chastity belt for her is needed. But I doubt in it so far.

one question: don't you think that the decision for a wedding is already a very mature decision ? (the question is completely independent of the beltL)

HHelen

Ines Do not give the key to husband when a daughter is married, in my opinion is insane.

It is more a threat than a reality. And she will know it in advance about a belt until graduation.

Angelina don't you think that the decision for a wedding is already a very mature decision ?

Despite the possibility of a chastity belt after marriage, yes.

Vanessa Which would not be good,nor accepted,for a married couple,I'm pretty sure of it.

They can still hold hands.

Ines

Do not give the key to husband when a daughter is married, in my opinion is insane.

Angelina

Ines Do not give the key to husband when a daughter is married, in my opinion is insane.

even if the daughter agrees ?

Vanessa

Angelina

Yes,when she's married,only her husband should have the key(except for the emergency key).

HHelen And she will know it in advance about a belt until graduation.

But does she think you would not give the key if she marry before?

HHelen They can still hold hands.

It's a step many people do since the start of the relationship,not the only things they do after marriage.

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