Chastity belts in colleges and unversities

Ines

Angelina then it doesn't matter if this free time is used for masturbation, because they don't spend this time of the day studying anyway.

It depends. If it is not accepted, masturbation it is not an option.

Angelina

Ines

Yes, I just want to make it clear that it has no influence on her studies. 😉

Vanessa

HHelen Usually it has higher "priority" than studies.

Depends.If she knows studies are important she can often give priorities to study.Even more if she knows she can have sex/masturbate when she wants,and could study her lessons,then spend time with her boyfriend or girlfriend/alone freely...It is a win-win situation:she study well and can get sexual pleasure.

HHelen Even the results are not poor, they could be better without it.

As you can't compare her results without her chastity belt on,you can't say it would be better,the same or lower.

HHelen I think few factors together.

But chastity belt may not be one of these.

HHelen Not mine, but somebody's else.

You fear your daughter is in the same situation if she hasn't to wear a chastity belt?

Angelina if the performance is not good, she should study more or motivate herself better. masturbation withdrawal is not a good remedy

I agree.

HHelen

Angelina masturbation withdrawal is not a good remedy

It motivates well.

Vanessa Even more if she knows she can have sex/masturbate when she wants,and could study her lessons

But even better if she knows she can masturbate only if she has good results.

Vanessa You fear your daughter is in the same situation if she hasn't to wear a chastity belt?

Yes, I would like to avoid it.

Vanessa

HHelen It motivates well.

Or has the opposite effect...

HHelen But even better if she knows she can masturbate only if she has good results.

It could work,but not sure.It depends on each person.And as it was not the case before,she may not accept it(and so,react to it)well.

HHelen Yes, I would like to avoid it.

Understandable.

Jonas

HHelen But even better if she knows she can masturbate only if she has good results.

Such a reward system is reportedly is working for @aslan_asena and her mother in terms of behaviour etc.

Angelina

HHelen It motivates well.

i don't think so, i still think that diligence and motivation are better 😉

HHelen But even better if she knows she can masturbate only if she has good results.

i am a bit worried that she might lose motivation completely. i would rather suggest that she gets breaks and as an incentive ADDITIONAL breaks when she performs well.

Jonas Such a reward system is reportedly is working for @aslan_asena and her mother in terms of behaviour etc.

Well, but we would have to know if @HHelen's daughter thinks the same way.

Vanessa

Jonas

Right,she seems happy to use it.

Angelina i don't think so, i still think that diligence and motivation are better 😉

Right.And these ways can't have the opposite effect.

Angelina i would rather suggest that she gets breaks and as an incentive ADDITIONAL breaks when she performs well.

Good idea,yes!

Angelina Well, but we would have to know if @HHelen's daughter thinks the same way.

It would be useful but it seems @HHelen don't suggest to her daughter to post here...

Joh

There is a risk,but I think it is small.Especially as @HHelen's daughter doesn't seem to be addicted to masturbation,even if she did,and still does,it.

Angelina a fixed timetable could also help during studies. when are the lectures, when do i want to study and when do i have free time? during free time everything is allowed, but during working hours the trousers remain closed 😉 of course it is difficult but if you can structure something yourself it is possible

I agree.I think too it can be a good way to act,if needed to be sure to not do it excessively.

Angelina

I agree.

HHelen

Jonas Such a reward system is reportedly is working for @aslan_asena and her mother in terms of behaviour etc.

Could you elaborate? It seems I've missed it.

Angelina i would rather suggest that she gets breaks and as an incentive ADDITIONAL breaks when she performs well.

What if she performs bad?

Vanessa but it seems @HHelen don't suggest to her daughter to post here...

She doesn't want to.

Jonas

Angelina Well, but we would have to know if @HHelen's daughter thinks the same way.

Yes, absolutely. Without that information we are guessing.

Angelina

Jonas

that's what i mean and not many girls think like @aslan_asena 😉

Joh Other my be get addicted and search for more stories and pictures which turn them on to masturbate. Instead of studying they wast their time for this.

a fixed timetable could also help during studies. when are the lectures, when do i want to study and when do i have free time? during free time everything is allowed, but during working hours the trousers remain closed 😉 of course it is difficult but if you can structure something yourself it is possible

Joh

Sara2001 I don't have others studies, but I think if you have time, because you are single and relaxed because you can masturbate it should be best for your studies

This is depended on the person. We are not equal in our needs and behaviour. For one it can be the case and help with studies. Other my be get addicted and search for more stories and pictures which turn them on to masturbate. Instead of studying they wast their time for this.

Joh

Angelina a fixed timetable could also help during studies. when are the lectures, when do i want to study and when do i have free time? during free time everything is allowed, but during working hours the trousers remain closed 😉 of course it is difficult but if you can structure something yourself it is possible

I agree with you. Many solutions could work. You have to find out which one is the best. From my point of view a cb is only one of many solution.

Angelina

Joh From my point of view a cb is only one of many solution.

it is a solution if someone wants to stop masturbating. for me, success in studies is not given by this. 😉

Angelina

Vanessa Right.And these ways can't have the opposite effect.

I agree

Vanessa It would be useful but it seems @HHelen don't suggest to her daughter to post here...

maybe there is a reason. maybe she is afraid that we will convince her daughter to make a decision that she does not want

Jonas

HHelen Could you elaborate? It seems I've missed it.

Sure. From what was posted it seemed to be a combination of motivation within over-all limit.

aslan_asena Mum and I have finally come to a "lady's agreement". As long as she is happy with my behavior, I get releases for pleasure each two weeks. Usually, I stay unlocked on Sundays then - for the complete day.

aslan_asena There is no dogmatic definition of good or bad behaviour. She wants me to be empathic and discover it myself. Showing discipline regarding housework, school, hygiene and self-education are certainly part of mum's catalogue. That's what I found out so far.

Jonas

HHelen What if she performs bad?

From my perspective, my wife and I would never use masturbation as a motivator for me personally, however, tying highly desirable time on the PC to work I've done around the house is effecting positive change in me. And about time too, in my case.

Angelina

HHelen What if she performs bad?

Then your daughter does not get these additional breaks, that is logical.

HHelen She doesn't want to.

why? i think it might help her

Joh

HHelen What if she performs bad?

Than you know it doesn't work. Otherwise you will never know and your decision could be the wrong one.

HHelen

Jonas From what was posted it seemed to be a combination of motivation within over-all limit.

I have read it before. But nothing about grades or results.

Vanessa and should spend more time at home,and studying

Do you suggest thighbands?

Vanessa So,she knows the board?

Yes, and the @Tobbe 's forum.

Vanessa

HHelen What if she performs bad?

No additional breaks,and maybe some related punishment:for example,if she gets bad grades,she is less allowed to go out with friends and should spend more time at home,and studying.

HHelen She doesn't want to.

So,she knows the board?

Angelina why? i think it might help her

I agree.And we could give her advices to manage her chastity belt better.

Angelina

Vanessa if she gets bad grades,she is less allowed to go out with friends and should spend more time at home,and studying.

again, you have to be careful that it doesn't lead to demotivation. motivation is the most important thing to make your studies successful. of course, it's best if your studies are not just work, but also fun. 🙂

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