Chastity belts in colleges and unversities

Vanessa

No.It was used as a punishment during 6 years after I started wearing it for the first time,and after,and still now,it is permanent.

HHelen

Vanessa It was used as a punishment during 6 years after I started wearing it for the first time,and after,and still now,it is permanent.

This means that threats at this age do not work . You knew it would end up like this, but kept doing you were not supposed to.

Angelina

Vanessa

I only knew 2017, so I wasn't quite sure. 😉

Vanessa

Angelina

No problem!😉

HHelen You knew it would end up like this, but kept doing you were not supposed to.

No,I don't guess they would make it permanently;as punishment,sometimes it was worth it...And I always had a chance to not be caught.

If I was warned,I maybe have changed a bit.But I probably would still act similar,only even more careful,even if it would mean less sex/masturbation.

Angelina

HHelen This means that threats at this age do not work . You knew it would end up like this, but kept doing you were not supposed to.

in this case i can even agree with you, but that doesn't mean that it applies to all girls of this age.

Angelina

Vanessa No,I don't guess they would make it permanently;as punishment,sometimes it was worth it...And I always had a chance to not be caught.

i know i've written it before, but i think if i wore the belt as a punishment several times like you did, i would eventually think about my parents using it permanently too, that sounds a bit naive

HHelen

Vanessa If I was warned,I maybe have changed a bi

If they changed it suddenly, something should have triggered it.

Vanessa

Angelina

After some years without even a threat of a permanent wearing,I thought they were satisfied by how it worked,and would continue to use it that way.

HHelen

Probably bothered I continue to disobey my rules,and maybe because I was more sexually active since I started university.Among some other reasons;but probably not a special event.

Angelina

Yes,but I'm not sure if it is what they make them decide to put the belt on permanently,or if they thought about it before and used the opportunity to start it when I was single(as I had to break-up with him).

Angelina

HHelen If they changed it suddenly, something should have triggered it.

@Vanessa

didn't you write on misterpoll that you had a boyfriend who had problems with drugs and since then you are permanently in the belt?

HHelen

Angelina you had a boyfriend who had problems with drugs and since then you are permanently in the belt?

She broke up with him long ago, but the belt is still on.

Vanessa Probably bothered I continue to disobey my rules,and maybe because I was more sexually active since I started university.Among some other reasons;but probably not a special event.

Did they ever warn you?

Angelina

Vanessa After some years without even a threat of a permanent wearing,I thought they were satisfied by how it worked,and would continue to use it that way.

i understand, but sorry i can't let that be an excuse 😉

Vanessa or if they thought about it before and used the opportunity to start it when I was single(as I had to break-up with him).

that can be, of course, perhaps they hoped for a higher or faster acceptance of you, or your parents were looking for a reason.

Vanessa

Angelina that can be, of course, perhaps they hoped for a higher or faster acceptance of you, or your parents were looking for a reason.

They probably thought I would accept it more easily if single...

HHelen Did they ever warn you?

No.I was sometimes warned I would have to wear it as a punishment,if they thought I was close to disobey my rules with a boyfriend/girlfriend,but never warned I would have to wear it permanently.

Angelina a wrong boyfriend is not a reason anymore today

But it was very likely not a major reason at the start.

Angelina

HHelen She broke up with him long ago, but the belt is still on.

what i think is wrong, their current relationship seems to be very serious and probably it will lead to marriage. a wrong boyfriend is not a reason anymore today

HHelen

Angelina a wrong boyfriend is not a reason anymore today

I don't understand it either.
They had a chastity belt for her since 16. But didn't insist to wear it when she went to an university.
And changed their mind later on presumably for the reason. Make sense.
That reason is not a case anymore, but she still has to wear the belt 24/7, furthermore, with extra accessories.
Well, they might like to keep her belted, but at a more mature age than it should have been.

Angelina

Vanessa They probably thought I would accept it more easily if single...

and it is clear that at the latest after you have met emilie, this hope is no longer given.

Vanessa but never warned I would have to wear it permanently.

this is not good, i think there should have been at least one warning

Vanessa But it was very likely not a major reason at the start.

probably not i agree with you, it was more of a bogus justification

Vanessa

Angelina and it is clear that at the latest after you have met emilie, this hope is no longer given.

Sure,harder to make me accept if in a relationship.

Angelina this is not good, i think there should have been at least one warning

I think so,too,it would have been better...

HHelen And changed their mind later on presumably for the reason. Make sense.

It was not one the main reasons.

Angelina

I guess two possible reasons.They may hoped that using it as a punishment may make me follow my rules to avoid being punished this way(especially as they can easily noticed I hated to wear it,even as a punishment(and I hate it even more now it is permanently...)).Or they may have hesitated a bit to use it permanently as it is restrictive and knew I'm unhappy to have to wear it.

However,I appreciate to not had to wear it permanently during several years.

Angelina

HHelen

i admit that this is where my understanding ends, it doesn't make sense to me to permanently belt someone as an adult woman, where before there was the possibility for 5 years. i find it a bit confusing

Angelina

Vanessa However,I appreciate to not had to wear it permanently during several years.

that is understandable and yes your parents probably hoped that it would be enough that you wear it as punishment, but they are two different reasons. if you wear the belt as punishment you have already behaved wrongly, if you wear the belt permanently the wrong behaviour is prevented.

Vanessa

Angelina

And as I continued to misbehave when I was punished this way,they finally decided to prevent me to misbehave anymore.

HHelen

Vanessa they finally decided to prevent me to misbehave anymore.

Time to re-consider their decision, because time goes and you will not behave the same way.

Angelina

Vanessa

probably, i can understand the logic even if i prefer to follow the logic "you learn from your mistakes".

HHelen Time to re-consider their decision, because time goes and you will not behave the same way.

i agree, she is now much more mature

Vanessa

HHelen

Very unlikely my rules change until married...

Angelina the logic "you learn from your mistakes".

It was the logic for using it as a punishment,but I've to admit it was not very effective...

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