suggestion for a chastity belt for my daughter

Angelina

it is definitely not easy, but if you keep your original setting, you can handle it relatively well

@Ines told us that even she fights even though she has a very tight relationship to her belt, you see it is completely normal 🙂

how a man will react I can't really answer (I have no own experiences) but I think at the beginning it's a big shock, if he really loves you he will overcome it and love you as you are 🙂

but you must be aware that if you wear the belt consequently, you will not be able to play with yourself anymore !

Rick

I know that was sarcastic 😉

Vanessa

Angelina i wonder if the until then very positive feelings about the belt would change ? @aslan_asena ?

It could impact her feelings,I think

aslan_asena And someone really interested in me should surely accept my "special body parts of steel".

Sure,but it makes a bit harder to start a relationship.It would need he falls in love with you to increase much the chances he would accept it,which may not already be the case when you would have to talk to him about it....

aslan_asena Maybe, my positive feelings towards my belt will decrease, when I do not have access to the keys anymore?

I think it can easily be the case,yes.

Angelina if he really loves you he will overcome it and love you as you are 🙂

Yes,but sometimes it needs time before he falls in love,and it would be hard to conceal the belt that long...

Angelina but you must be aware that if you wear the belt consequently, you will not be able to play with yourself anymore !

She may have some possibilities to "relieve her needs",even if it is not clear how often.

Christine Well, we meet sometimes.

Still the case,even with the belt on?

Angelina therefore i will stay in the area of accounting and controlling. also complicated but with logical thinking to understand 😉

😉

Angelina So it's just a friendship?

"Friends with benefits",maybe(even if the "benefits" would be very limited for @Christine).

HHelen I don't know and it's basically not my business.

It is.It is your choice to make her wear a belt,and how it affects her relationship would impact how she feels about the belt.

Angelina

I agree!

Christine

James A clear sign he wanted to use you.

Ofc, but I knew I worn the belt.

Vanessa hey still had some "fun" together,even if not in a relationship anymore,when she had to start wearing it.

Well, we meet sometimes.

Angelina

Christine Well, we meet sometimes.

do you think the relationship still has a chance?

Laura No more than other types of engineering

therefore i will stay in the area of accounting and controlling. also complicated but with logical thinking to understand 😉

Laura

Angelina why do IT people always have to be so complicated?

No more than other types of engineering

Christine

Angelina do you think the relationship still has a chance?

No, I don't think so.

Angelina

Christine

So it's just a friendship?

Christine

Angelina So it's just a friendship?

Yes.

HHelen Did he give up?

He didn't have a choice.

Vanessa Still the case,even with the belt on?

Why not?

HHelen

Saintprudence I mean that if a secondary shield is not used, self-pleasure may happen at any time.

As long as it's not a pleasure by somebody else it's fine.

Christine He has got very frustrated when discovered the belt.

Did he give up?

Renita Yes, the new generation uses their phones with cameras all the time.

I wouldn't be surprised.

Vanessa He still don't know about her new "situation"?

I don't know and it's basically not my business.

Angelina

HHelen and it's basically not my business.

of course it is your business, as a keyholder you have a very high responsibility and that includes knowing who knows about the belt

HHelen

Angelina and that includes knowing who knows about the belt

Not sure why should I know it as long as it stays in place.

Vanessa It is.It is your choice to make her wear a belt,and how it affects her relationship would impact how she feels about the belt.

I was not even supposed to know about this relationship.

Angelina

Vanessa Yes,but sometimes it needs time before he falls in love,and it would be hard to conceal the belt that long...

if it is not yet real love, she should not show the belt yet 😉

Vanessa She may have some possibilities to "relieve her needs",even if it is not clear how often.

well then the goal would change, there is no real permanent wearing (and that was her own goal) 🙂

Vanessa (even if the "benefits" would be very limited for @Christine).

then i can understand why he was not happy about the belt 😉

Vanessa

Angelina if it is not yet real love, she should not show the belt yet 😉

But,as I said,it is hard to conceal it for a long time...

Angelina well then the goal would change, there is no real permanent wearing (and that was her own goal) 🙂

However,she was worried about permanent chastity.And didn't want to lose completely any possibility of orgasm.

Angelina then i can understand why he was not happy about the belt 😉

😉

HHelen Not sure why should I know it as long as it stays in place.

It is better not too much people know it,it could spread and embarrass her.

HHelen I was not even supposed to know about this relationship.

She didn't tell you about it?And now you know it,have you discussed together about this subject?

Anyway,it is your choice to make her wear a chastity belt and you're her keyholder,so I think you should care about how it affects her life(and it includes any relationship she has)

Christine Why not?

As there is less "benefits" for him too!😉

Angelina you should be a role model for your daughter and not do the same 😉

And wear a chastity belt too! 😉

Angelina it's nice when former couples stay friends 🙂

Not common,but nice,yes.

Angelina @Vanessa thinks of friendship+ 😉

Yes.😉

Angelina

@Laura can easily say it is her choice(and @HHelen's daughter too).Or a game with a lover.

Angelina

HHelen Not sure why should I know it as long as it stays in place.

but this should interest you, you should know who knows about the belt, otherwise you and your daughter could get into unpleasant situations 🙁

HHelen I was not even supposed to know about this relationship.

then this was a communication problem, but you should be a role model for your daughter and not do the same 😉

Christine Yes.

it's nice when former couples stay friends 🙂

Christine Why not?

@Vanessa thinks of friendship+ 😉

Laura

Angelina but this should interest you, you should know who knows about the belt

However my parents also didn't ask it

HHelen

Angelina therwise you and your daughter could get into unpleasant situations

Like what?

Vanessa And now you know it,have you discussed together about this subject?

I think there is nothing to discuss yet.

Angelina

Laura

very irresponsible, even if you are an adult, there can be big social problems for your parents if certain people find out, so the parents (the key holders) should always know who knows about the belt

Angelina

Vanessa But,as I said,it is hard to conceal it for a long time...

not if we just want to have sex with someone we really love and then we can show the belt to that person 🙂

Vanessa However,she was worried about permanent chastity.And didn't want to lose completely any possibility of orgasm.

the question is what is her decision a chastity belt or a abstinence belt

Vanessa @Laura can easily say it is her choice(and @HHelen's daughter too).Or a game with a lover.

I assumed they were telling the truth, but that's one way around it. 😉

Christine

Vanessa As there is less "benefits" for him too!

He wouldn't have these "benefits" even if I didn't wear the belt.

Vanessa

Angelina not if we just want to have sex with someone we really love and then we can show the belt to that person 🙂

But we should wait until this person is in love too.

Angelina the question is what is her decision a chastity belt or a abstinence belt

It seems,based on her posts,it is going to be a chastity belt,with release as rewards.

Angelina I assumed they were telling the truth, but that's one way around it. 😉

Of course,for telling the truth,we must be very careful.

Christine

So,it shouldn't have been a problem for him.

Angelina

Maybe @Christine's decision have been different or change after some time,if not in a chastity belt !😉

Angelina

Christine

if it is really "only" a friendship, it is the right decision no matter if with or without the belt 🙂

Christine

Angelina if it is really "only" a friendship, it is the right decision no matter if with or without the belt

But he has a different opinion, I suppose.

Angelina

Vanessa But we should wait until this person is in love too.

that's right, we shouldn't start an "official" relationship before that either

Vanessa be a chastity belt,with release as rewards.

I have to admit it's not a bad system for improving behavior.

Vanessa Maybe @Christine's decision have been different or change after some time,if not in a chastity belt !😉

I don't think she'll change her mind as long as she wears the belt 😂

HHelen Like what?

so it is completely normal for you to say in public that my daughter wears a chastity belt and I have the keys or how should I understand that?

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