suggestion for a chastity belt for my daughter

Sara2001

Vanessa I think early is better, because it would be hard to invest so much hope and emotions and then having trouble because of the belt.

Angelina

Sara2001

I give you limited permission,

we should definitely do it early but only if we are really sure that the relationship has a chance

i would recommend the earliest time when the relationship is serious 🙂

Vanessa

Angelina

I hope for her you're wrong...

Angelina

I think it is easy to guess,too.

HHelen She prefers to have it off.

Not surprising.

HHelen Yes, because time to go out.

Ok,only when she goes out,so,right?

HHelen I don't pan to put it on permanently.

Good!🙂

Angelina a training for it to become a real chastity belt or ? otherwise the training would be useless

Not necessarily.Even if she "only" wear it when going out,some training can be useful.

Sara2001

Yes;it would depend on the boyfriend's reaction(if he reacts well and accept it,it was worth investing hope and emotions),however,but difficult to guess,sure.

Angelina

I agree.The relationship should be serious before we talk about what we're wearing.

Sara2001

Angelina i would recommend the earliest time when the relationship is serious 🙂

Yes, that's the best moment.

Angelina

Vanessa I hope for her you're wrong...

I don't think she's lying on purpose, but rather that she can't understand her daughter

Vanessa Even if she "only" wear it when going out,some training can be useful.

I didn't think of that. Sorry.

Vanessa .The relationship should be serious before we talk about what we're wearing.

i think there is no perfect time for that, i think it will always be the time when we are bravest and sure that we can trust our partner 100% 🙂

HHelen

Angelina a training for it to become a real chastity belt or ?

No, to wear it outside.

Vanessa Ok,only when she goes out,so,right?

Right.

Vanessa

Angelina I don't think she's lying on purpose, but rather that she can't understand her daughter

Maybe,yes.

Angelina i think there is no perfect time for that, i think it will always be the time when we are bravest and sure that we can trust our partner 100% 🙂

I think it is better if both partners are in love,however.And it should not be explained too soon.

HHelen Right.

Good this way.

Angelina

I think it is the opposite.It would not make sense this way;it would mostly prevent her to masturbate but could allow her to get oral sex...

Sara2001

Even if not sure the partner is in love too?

Angelina

HHelen No, to wear it outside.

so at home with secondary shield and outside without secondary shield ?

HHelen

Angelina so at home with secondary shield and outside without secondary shield ?

Opposite.

Vanessa It make sense,but she could not have oral sex when alone in private,too

She will have the secondary shield on when alone home too.

Angelina

Vanessa .And it should not be explained too soon.

Just like I said, when 100% trust exists is the best time 🙂

Vanessa it would mostly prevent her to masturbate

that's why I thought so, because in public she will (probably) not masturbate

Vanessa

Angelina Just like I said, when 100% trust exists is the best time 🙂

And it can be hard to hide it until it...

Angelina that's why I thought so, because in public she will (probably) not masturbate

It make sense,but she could not have oral sex when alone in private,too.And I think @HHelen's care more to prevent oral sex than masturbation.

Angelina

Vanessa And it can be hard to hide it until it...

this is true, especially if the partner wants to be intimate before 🙁

HHelen She will have the secondary shield on when alone home too.

So the point is if she is under your control she doesn't need it and if you can't control her then with secondary shield?

Tobbe

HHelen The best way to use the second shield.

Vanessa

HHelen She will have the secondary shield on when alone home too.

Understandable,but she will not like it...

Angelina this is true, especially if the partner wants to be intimate before 🙁

Even if he/she wants to caress some parts on our body.Not accepting he/she puts his/her hand between our legs or on our breasts,it can be understood,but not accepting it on the waist too,it is more unusual...

HHelen

Would she be allowed to have some privacy in her own bedroom,if she wants to,while you're at home(and without the secondary shield)?

Renita

Right!😉

HHelen

Angelina So the point is if she is under your control she doesn't need it and if you can't control her then with secondary shield?

When she doesn't have a chance of fooling around, the secondary shield is not required.

Angelina

HHelen

so always depending on the situation ?

Renita

HHelen the secondary shield is not required.

The belt itself too.

HHelen

Renita The belt itself too

She must have it always on to get used to.

Vanessa Would she be allowed to have some privacy in her own bedroom,if she wants to,while you're at home(and without the secondary shield)?

Abstinence belt.

Angelina

Vanessa ,but not accepting it on the waist too,it is more unusual...

i think it would certainly raise questions and depending on how much we trust our partner we either have to tell the truth or lie (both not good)

Vanessa

Angelina

Yes,it is a hard situation,and when we are in this point in the relationship,which can happen quickly,it is time to consider telling him/her about our chastity belt...

HHelen She must have it always on to get used to.

I don't think we can get used to it...But,do you plan to let her free of it sometimes,after she has worn it permanently for some months,and consider she's used to it?

HHelen Abstinence belt.

Right.

Angelina

Vanessa Yes,it is a hard situation,and when we are in this point in the relationship,which can happen quickly,it is time to consider telling him/her about our chastity belt...

exactly and even if the belt for a relationship can be very bad, it is a very nice feeling if our partner loves us anyway 🙂

HHelen

Vanessa But,do you plan to let her free of it sometimes,after she has worn it permanently for some months,and consider she's used to it?

I want her to wear an abstinence belt all the time with few, mostly medical, exceptions. it will help to get "smart" ideas out of her head, like @Katie 's.

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