suggestion for a chastity belt for my daughter

Renita

[deleted] It must be hard to trust such a thieving keyholder

I didn't mean theft, it was an agreement.

Angelina

HHelen Especially if she is known by doing it.

it should also only be used in permanent relationships

Ines As general rule I think is no common that the girls hold the key of secondary shield.

even if it is "only" an abstinence belt?

Ines

Angelina
Angelina, you know I do not believe in "abstinence" belt.
Since a girl wear a belt, I do not see the point in that belt allows self touches since it can avoid it.
And, frankly, less intended @alberto , I do not see any use of it here.
Since we wear a belt, it should tend to more safety, not at less.

HHelen

[deleted] HHelen don't you have the keys to your own secondary shield?

I have the keys to everything.

[deleted] You don't think Renita should?

Her situation is different.

Angelina it should also only be used in permanent relationships

E.g. marriage.

alberto she will not wear the belt at home

How about visitors?

Ines I think that at the end Helen cheat a bit to her daughter.

Why? What do I do wrong?

Vanessa Only her boyfriend should know it.

And tells everybody around.

Vanessa I'm surprised she accept it if she has no "reward" for accepting it.

It's not a big deal for her.

Angelina

Ines

i know you don't believe in it, but we often think theoretically here. i understand what you mean, even if i can't agree 🙂

alberto make it easier also cleaning after better particulary in public toilets

true, it is better in public toilets because they do not offer the same hygienic comfort as at home 🙂

alberto

The idea is that removing the secondary shield for going to the bathroom make it easier also cleaning after better particulary in public toilets but it is true that a lot of safety is lost as the girl can remove the shield when she wants

Ines

alberto
Then... Are you thinking about a normal chastity belt instead an abstinence one?
Take time to think about the point, and do not try to cheat, nor yourself if you think that masturbation is not correct, nor your girl if you say her that she would wear an abstinence belt for a few hours.

alberto

Ines she will not wear the belt at home so even if we keep the secondary shield on it will be an abstinence belt i think. we ordered the neosteel belt, but it be at least a month to arrive probably two or even more. Becouse our country postage services are terrible

Vanessa

[deleted] Yes I think that is right, there should be no surprises. Allow her in her own mind to judge fully what she gives up and what she gains in this bargain and only if you all agree can you make changes to the agreement. You seem to have a fair approach to this but be vigilant to her state of mind through this, if you notice that she is going through real suffering you must be responsible and offer a way out.

I agree.

Renita She has confiscated this key initially 😃

Unexpected?

HHelen Especially if she is known by doing it.

Only her boyfriend should know it.

HHelen She agrees to have the secondary shield more time.

Any compensation for it?

I'm surprised she accept it if she has no "reward" for accepting it.

HHelen I would be more surprised if she didn't do it.

Yes,it seems logical in her case.

Ines Take time to think about the point, and do not try to cheat, nor yourself if you think that masturbation is not correct, nor your girl if you say her that she would wear an abstinence belt for a few hours.

Yes,he should tell her the truth and not change his mind when she wears it.

alberto she will not wear the belt at home so even if we keep the secondary shield on it will be an abstinence belt i think.

Yes,this way,it can be considered as an abstinence belt.

Ines

I think so,too.

Angelina under these conditions i can also be happy about a belt 🙂

Even with these conditions,I don't think I could say I'm "happy" to wear a belt...😉

Ines

alberto
Nice. Neosteel is a good brand with comfortable belt.
My belt usually is Neosteel, and it is very safe and comfortable.
I think you took a good decision about secondary shield, specially since she will not wear it in home. I know your approach, but I think that even not 24/7, the belt should be totally safe when is weared.
If you have doubts ,or she, do not hesitate in ask here.

Tobbe

alberto A good choice as Neosteel have a bigger and more secure lock than MySteel.
Hope it not will take to long time to arrive and be used.

Laura

alberto she will not wear the belt at home so even if we keep the secondary shield on it will be an abstinence belt i think.

@HHelen 's approach 😂

Angelina

alberto

well the order is placed and the rules seem to be moderate and reasonable. the most important thing is that your daughter accepts it. under these conditions i can also be happy about a belt 🙂

Tobbe more secure lock than MySteel.

i have worn both belts and both are 100% safe

Ines

Laura
Well, I think that at the end Helen cheat a bit to her daughter.

Tobbe

Angelina There is a different and it make Neosteel safer.
MySteel use Burg Wächter model 222 C-line 15
Diameter 3 mm
Horizontal 8 mm
Verical 11mm
Neosteel Ablus 60/30
Diameter 4,75mm
Horizontal 14,5mm
Vertical 19mm

Angelina

Tobbe

thank you, but i don't need this data. i speak from personal experience. in theory the padlocks are different but in practice i couldn't beat either 😂

Vanessa I'm surprised she accept it if she has no "reward" for accepting it.

me too

Vanessa Yes,he should tell her the truth and not change his mind when she wears it.

Definitely, only then can she trust him

Vanessa Even with these conditions,I don't think I could say I'm "happy" to wear a belt...😉

at least I am happier than when a father writes here that his daughter is unintentionally pregnant 😉

Renita

Vanessa Unexpected?

Most likely, yes.

Vanessa

Renita

Not a good surprise!

Angelina Definitely, only then can she trust him

And it is very important she can trust them.

Angelina at least I am happier than when a father writes here that his daughter is unintentionally pregnant 😉

She can have sex while avoiding being pregnant(condoms,birthcontrol pills...).

HHelen I have the keys to everything.

All these keys left at home when going out?

HHelen E.g. marriage.

Not necessarily.Very serious relationship,being engaged...

HHelen Why? What do I do wrong?

You add some parts,like the secondary shield,which are more restrictive than what you used at first.And it seems you plan to do the same by adding thigh bands(or at least consider it).

HHelen And tells everybody around.

If he does it,it could be a hint that he didn't truly loved her,or he would have kept it secret(especially if she asked him to not tell anyone).

HHelen It's not a big deal for her.

I'm surprised about it,too.Not easy to have a stricter chastity belt,which could be more effective to prevent her to masturbate too.

HHelen No, this is still part of the original agreement, and she doesn't wear it 24/7.

She knew you would use the secondary shield later?And only free of it at night?

Ines

HHelen Why? What do I do wrong?

😂
At the end, the use of secondary shield on your daughter' s belt, I think, is go further of first agreement

Angelina

HHelen E.g. marriage.

i think if a couple is together for several years, it is ok without marriage 🙂

HHelen And tells everybody around.

not if he is a good boyfriend 🙂

Ines

I agree with you

HHelen

Ines the use of secondary shield on your daughter' s belt, I think, is go further of first agreement

No, this is still part of the original agreement, and she doesn't wear it 24/7.

Angelina i think if a couple is together for several years, it is ok without marriage

Probably yes.

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