suggestion for a chastity belt for my daughter

Angelina

I would be interested in an update from @alberto and also if his daughter would like to join us on the forum ? 😉

Vanessa

I wonder if her training goes well,too.

alberto

Angelina Vanessa
Sorry i didnt have much time to write im really busy at work at this time of the year. She has been wearing it intermittent, bathroom is much better now, still she prefers to have the secondary shield off also she has tried number two and it was ok. She went shopping with the belt on, the temperatures has been quite high but she managed. I have made some minor bendings on the shield and the band where te pressure marks where worse and it helped a bit. she wanted to try sleep with it on but she cant sleep so her mother release her. Wishing you a happy, healthy New Year!!!

Angelina

alberto

if she is not supposed to wear the belt at home, she doesn't have to sleep with it 😉 but if it works, that would be the final proof that she is used to the belt.

I hope that everything stays as good as it is now.

Ines

Angelina if she is not supposed to wear the belt at home, she doesn't have to sleep with it

Since she ask for it, it is good. Maybe she wants wear it more time.

alberto She went shopping with the belt on, the temperatures has been quite high but she managed.

Nice, she is with a good adaptation.

Vanessa

alberto

It seems she manage it well!

Good you made the belt more comfortable.

Sleeping with a chastity belt on is all but easy...

Angelina if she is not supposed to wear the belt at home, she doesn't have to sleep with it 😉

It seems she would have to wear it for several years;maybe,in some time,she would want to be able to ask a boyfriend/girlfriend to stay at home during the night...Better if the training for wearing it at night too is done.

Ines Since she ask for it, it is good. Maybe she wants wear it more time.

I doubt she would want it on more often(she's a semi-willingly wearer;she accepts it in exchange to privileges).

alberto

Angelina Ines Vanessa . You are right she doesnt have to sleep with the belt on at home, but i guess she wanted to try it in case she have to, for example spleeping over with her friends. a few nights ago she sleep with the belt on, she asked again. this time she keep it on she said that it was hard falling sleep but once sleep she didnt wake up so it wasnt that bad. she can have a boyfriend we dont mind but no sex. for now she didnt ask for more privileges but she has been wearing the belt a lot

Angelina

Ines Since she ask for it, it is good. Maybe she wants wear it more time.

of course, i agree with you. i was more trying to say that it's not too bad if it doesn't work out 😉

Angelina

Vanessa she would want to be able to ask a boyfriend/girlfriend to stay at home during the night..

well, then it would probably be a serious relationship, i don't think that was the main reason.

but i'll pass the question on to @alberto, what do you say?

Vanessa she accepts it in exchange to privileges).

the question is whether she is willing to wear it more if she gets more privileges

Vanessa

Angelina then it would probably be a serious relationship, i don't think that was the main reason.

It wouldn't mean she would be allowed to have sex with her boyfriend/girlfriend,even if it is a serious relationship....

Angelina the question is whether she is willing to wear it more if she gets more privileges

Good question.

Angelina

Vanessa It wouldn't mean she would be allowed to have sex with her boyfriend/girlfriend,even if it is a serious relationship....

as far as I remember that was not the goal of @alberto . it sounded more like more casual sexual contacts should be prevented

Ines

Angelina
It depends on approach of every family. I think that sexuality of a girl have to be related to marriage (or equivalent).

Angelina

Ines It depends on approach of every family.

exactly, that's why it's just my guess. i'll pass your question on to @alberto again and hope he has time to answer soon. 🙂

Vanessa

Angelina

I hope @alberto would answer,as it is not very clear,yes.

Angelina

alberto

good that she managed to sleep with the belt 🙂

you say that you don't want her to have sex when she has a boyfriend, would you use the belt for that too ? and if so, until the wedding or only until the relationship is really serious ?

Vanessa

alberto for example spleeping over with her friends.

A good reason for her to train wearing it during night,yes.

alberto she didnt wake up so it wasnt that bad.

Good,it seems she manage it very well.I guess her training is finished soon,so?

alberto for now she didnt ask for more privileges but she has been wearing the belt a lot

Do you think she would ask for more privileges after the training is ended?

alberto if her relationship is really serious it it possible that we allow her

Good idea;it would make easier for her to accept wearing a belt if she can masturbate and know she may be allowed to have sex with a boyfriend if their relationship is serious enough.

Angelina maybe your daughter should wear the belt permanently with secondary shield for a few days (only for a few days and only if she agrees)

I agree,as long as she agrees to this part of the training.

HHelen

It depends of the purpose.It seems it fits the goal of @alberto.It prevents her daughter to have sex too easily with anyone.

alberto

Angelina Yes since she will be wearing her belt when not at home she will be unable to have sex. if her relationship is really serious it it possible that we allow her

Megan she have normal tiny pin holes shield, about 3mm each. you are right i believe she need to urinate slower. At the time she have the secondary shield off, but her mother wants her to practice with it on becouse it protects her labia against pinchs. i told her she could give her the key for the secondary shield since it is diferent from the main lock so she can remove and lock on herself

Megan

alberto she tried going to the bathroom with the belt on she said that pee overflowed under the shield but it was ok if she clenead on the bidet then use dryer. for another try my wife removed the secondary shield and she said that leaning forward without the shield was much better

I prefer a more open shield to the pin hole shield... I do use my muscles to urinate very slowly which is good but after awhile if you know you can only urinate slowly then you will not drink as much water and especially in the hot summer your will start becoming more and more dehydrated without realizing it. It is also nice to have ventilation...
@Laura actually has a very good model with excellent machining.

@alberto is she just needing to urinate a little slower or does she have tiny pin holes only a needle thick where it would take 5 minutes???

Angelina

alberto Yes since she will be wearing her belt when not at home she will be unable to have sex. if her relationship is really serious it it possible that we allow her

ok, i don't know if you understood my question correctly. if she is in a serious relationship, i assume that the sex (if allowed) will take place at home. but good that you will decide about it again, if it should be so far. 🙂

alberto

practice practice practice, i think there is no other way and most of the time it has a greater success if she can't help it. i don't want to give wrong recommendations and also don't want to completely deviate from my position in this forum, but maybe your daughter should wear the belt permanently with secondary shield for a few days (only for a few days and only if she agrees) . i think then she could train it better

HHelen

alberto if her relationship is really serious it it possible that we allow her

I think, it contradicts the whole idea of the belt.

alberto

Angelina Vanessa Tomorrow we will ask her if she is ready to try wearing the belt for a few days constant to see if she can handle, with daily cleaning breaks. today she had the secondary shield on she said that it was better going to the bathroom but still spill some. i think it is a possible that she asks for additional benefits but she is more willing that we thought about wearing the belt

HHelen I see your point but if it is a long and stable relationship we believe it is fair for them

Angelina

HHelen I think, it contradicts the whole idea of the belt.

Not necessarily, it depends on what goals are to be achieved with the belt.

alberto I see your point but if it is a long and stable relationship we believe it is fair for them

i think so too, there is a big difference if it is a casual on off relationship or if she is really serious about having a relationship with someone.

alberto

thanks for the update, i am glad she agreed, i hope this will help her to get used to everyday life with a belt. but i have a problem with the statement a few days, i think this should be defined exactly.

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