Megan I am not sure how Laura is in trouble for this?

What troubles are you talking about?

    Your questions had some good answers,and it is nice you had a talk and will try to find another way than using a chastity belt.

    However,if you want to do this,you should never enforce it on her.You should convince her,the good way or the worse one.

    The good one,is the one that Ivana(a Misterpoll poster)used:by wearing one herself and giving their daughters more privileges if they accept to wear one too(like later curfew)ans having fun talk,laughing,etc...together during the cleaning breaks.

    The worse one is to threaten her;in your case,it is not by threat of stopping your financial help or breaking the relationship,but it can be a strict grounding,with no going out,no party,no friends,no cell,no computer use when not supervised,etc...until she accept to wear one.

    Of course,I strongly advise you to use the good one,not the worse one(even if it is the worse one who is jused on me...).Maybe,after several talks,she understand she haven't behaved well and ask you to "help" her,with a chastity belt(but it is unlikely,I think).

    If she hesitates,you may use it a bit differently:like Catherine,some "free days",without the belt on,while she's not allowed to have sex,but is allowed to relieve her urges alone(for Catherine,it is every other Sunday);or not plan to make her wear it until married, but until she dates an(approved,like after you had a talk with him and your daughter)boyfriend for long enough,and had good grades and behavior.

    Of couse,if it is possible to solve the troubles without using chastity,it is even better.

    strictfather I take it you don't want to discuss discipline then? I hope you have found solutions otherwise...

      Given the discussion here, what have you thought of doing with your girls and your wife?

      James, i thinks is useless to open a new topic about this.
      situation is "work in progress", is delicate and also a false step can create other/more problems. i can't tell <<i have decided to...>> because situation is fluid. for example last weekend i never imagined the second daughter cold tell what she told to the sister. and situation changed again.

      it's logic me and my wife took emergency solutions:

      • she can't go out except for school
      • if she has to go out after school me or my wife go with her (problem with our work!)
      • we are talking very much (also with younger sister who actually has a bad idea of sister "the bitch" 🙁 )
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        Laura Sorry about that Laura.

        @strictfather Oh, I see. Yeah, it's a tough situation. As you know there are holes in all those plans of course, but have to start somewhere. Glad to talk to you more about discipline if you want to though.

          strictfather
          ok you have found temporary solutions but for a long time you need to find better methods.

          have you talked to your wife and daughters about family therapy ?

            strictfather she can't go out except for school
            if she has to go out after school me or my wife go with her (problem with our work!)

            You cann't control her this way all the time.

                Laura Or even some of the time. There's a lot a determined girl can do at school or even if she's told to stay home.

                You and your wife talking with the girls is unlikely to work now as you are their parents, though.

                  Laura
                  But It can be a start. More time together, and in the meanwhile talk with her, for sure in few weeks she will be much more calm, and then she will analize the whole scene.
                  Then, if they used to be strong, the trust ties will grow again, and she will see the problem she has.
                  Only then you can show her the advantanges of a belt in order to help her.
                  If she is not calm and aware of her problem, she will see the belt as tool of revenge or anger.
                  To the daughters afect us deeply when parents are anger with us, even if fathers are wrong, and feel ourselves guilty when we Are right make us angrier an sad and...
                  To be, a good, daughter is complicated too.

                      Ines

                      the last sentence and actually the whole text speaks to me from my soul and you are 100 % right

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                          And if she accepts, please be moderate. We see always fairer to the kind parents.

                          Angelina
                          Thanks Angelina. It is good this forum to bare our soul. And I empathic a lot with your experience, because I am sure that if your chastity would not be introduced so rough to you, I am sure you could be a please wearer.
                          Even with your situation, you give us some positive sentence, even about the bands.

                              Ines

                              well, there's nothing else left. i've recounted now i have 8 locks on my body (2 on the cb, 3 on the bra and 3 for the bands) i have no success defending myself anyway, so i accept the situation and try to make the best of it, even if it's often hard

                                  Renita
                                  yes my father had the delivery notes lying on his desk recently, he had not paid attention so i could see that the bra and the bands are from mysteel. the belt is from neosteel but i knew that