suggestion for a chastity belt for my daughter

James

Saintprudence Have you considered introducing her to the forum so she may get a firsthand account of belted life?

That's a good idea.

Angelina

it could be an idea, but i'm still not sure what @HHelen has in mind for her daughter, i think she sometimes contradicts herself

HHelen

Vanessa Would she get a "yes "or a "no",most of the times?

It would be "why?" most of the times.

Vanessa So after some time,it would be on,and she would lose her possibility to masturbate?It woud be very hard for her...

What's the difference if she loses it from the beginning?

Vanessa But if she's alone at home,no need to wear it

She might have visitors.

Vanessa usual for thigh bands or chastity bra

Excluded.

Vanessa but I didn't guess it is pretty common that the secondary shield is added after some time.

@Christine is an example.

Saintprudence Preventing access by unauthorized persons is indeed vital

Yes. It's important.

Saintprudence Have you considered introducing her to the forum so she may get a firsthand account of belted life?

I will do once she has a belt on.

Angelina but i'm still not sure what @HHelen has in mind for her daughter

To prevent sex with a partner.

James

HHelen To prevent sex with a partner.

That the only goal at this point? If so, it's a limited one, which is fine.

Laura

HHelen I will do once she has a belt on.

Have you ordered one already?

Angelina

HHelen To prevent sex with a partner.

then she must wear the belt but not at home, when she gets a visit, you can ask her to wear the belt

James Well, if that's the only goal, then you can limit her need for it to when she's likely to be with a partner (which will mean really only dates). So many days she won't have it on at all.

i think so too, i think under these circumstances she could accept the belt very well. however, a relationship through this is a big challenge

Vanessa

Sara2001

I think I would have felt the same,yes.

Christine She said she wanted to change my behavior this way.

Has uit any effect on it?

Christine I felt frustrated. It was even worse than the belt itself.

I agree;it prevents our last possibility to have orgasms.

Angelina i think it depends. if a abstinence belt is preferred, the secondary shield may be added to make it a chastity belt. if a chastity belt is preferred from the beginning, the secondary shield is added immediately

Yes,but better to decide what to use at first and stick to this.

Renita

But it would allow her to have oral sex.

Saintprudence Have you considered introducing her to the forum so she may get a firsthand account of belted life?

It could be a good idea.And helpful for her.

HHelen It would be "why?" most of the times.

So,if she get a good reason,you'll tend to allow it?

HHelen What's the difference if she loses it from the beginning?

Both would be awful for her,but I think it is harder to be allowed to at first even when wearing her chastity belt,and,suddenly,be prevented to do it anymore,even if she didn't do anything bad.

HHelen She might have visitors.

Then you would put it back before they meet.

HHelen Excluded.

Good.🙂

HHelen @Christine is an example.

Yes,but it is rare.

HHelen To prevent sex with a partner.

So,an abstinence belt is enough.No need to put the secondary shield on 24/7.😉

Angelina i think so too, i think under these circumstances she could accept the belt very well. however, a relationship through this is a big challenge

I think too.

It is harder to have a relationship with a chastity belt,sure,but possible.

Christine

Yes,but it is harder.

HHelen Yes.

Which brand and which model?

HHelen If I'm home.

She could be allowed to have the secondary shield,or even the chastity belt,off only when you're at home too.

HHelen

James That the only goal at this point?

Yes, I want to save her for marriage.

James

HHelen

Well, if that's the only goal, then you can limit her need for it to when she's likely to be with a partner (which will mean really only dates). So many days she won't have it on at all.

HHelen

Laura Have you ordered one already?

Yes.

Angelina then she must wear the belt but not at home, when she gets a visit, you can ask her to wear the belt

If I'm home.

Ines And it prevents accidents when we seat.

What kind of accidents?

Christine

Vanessa but I didn't guess it is pretty common that the secondary shield is added after some time.

It's pretty logical to start without it, coz it's easier to get used to.

Angelina

Christine

not if it should be a chastity belt from the start

Ines

Angelina
Correct. And it prevents accidents when we seat.

Angelina

Ines

I have no experience with it, but I believe you because I have read it several times by several people 😉

James

HHelen What kind of accidents?

Things...getting caught between the metal and other places...

Ines

Smashing problems.
Sometimes I have problems of some pinches between secondary shield and belt, but for sure not such big problem as smashing the lips against a chair.
For sure not nice.

Angelina

Ines

i also have this problem sometimes, especially when i don't make sure that the belt fits properly

but I rarely have severe pain, it just hurts a little

Renita

Ines but for sure not such big problem as smashing the lips against a chair.

I always worn pants so didn't have such problem.

Angelina

Vanessa Both would be awful for her,but I think it is harder to be allowed to at first even when wearing her chastity belt,and,suddenly,be prevented to do it anymore,even if she didn't do anything bad.

i also think it would give the daughter a very bad feeling about the belt and also the relationship between mother and daughter can become very difficult 🙁

Renita

Vanessa But it would allow her to have oral sex.

Vanessa So,an abstinence belt is enough.

I'm confused, what your actual suggestion is

HHelen

Vanessa So,if she get a good reason,you'll tend to allow it?

Unless she wants it for sex, yes.

Vanessa and,suddenly,be prevented to do it anymore,even if she didn't do anything bad.

Having a boyfriend is enough to make this change.

Vanessa Then you would put it back before they meet.

They might meet when I'm not home.

Vanessa Which brand and which model?

My-steel waist.

Vanessa She could be allowed to have the secondary shield,or even the chastity belt,off only when you're at home too.

I think to use it as an abstinence belt when she is home and as a chastity belt if away.

Christine

Vanessa Has uit any effect on it?

She is happy with the results.

HHelen I think to use it as an abstinence belt when she is home and as a chastity belt if away.

I would like the same.

Vanessa

Renita

Secondary shield taken off when she's at home.

HHelen Unless she wants it for sex, yes.

Logical.

HHelen Having a boyfriend is enough to make this change.

Why having a boyfriend would mean she should not get orgasm by masturbating anymore?

HHelen They might meet when I'm not home.

Easy to solve;if you're not at home,she should have the secondary shield on.

HHelen My-steel waist.

Not a too bad one,even if it prevents her to use some clothes(hip style one allow more freedom to choose tops).Cable rear?

HHelen I think to use it as an abstinence belt when she is home and as a chastity belt if away.

A better way,I think,yes.

Laura

@HHelen should take care of it.

Renita @HHelen 's daughter will be good girl, not like you 😃

🤣

Angelina

Same for me.It would be awfully humiliating,but I would ask.

HHelen And will not get it off next time and the lesson will be learnt.

Logical consequence.And related to what she did.

Christine She is happy with the results.

Do you agree it had some?

Renita

If it is the only chance to get an orgasm,it is worth the shame.

Angelina even though you only want a abstinence belt ?

I wonder too...I've trouble to understand what she decided.She said she want to use it as an abstinence belt,but,on other answers,she want to prevent her daughter to masturbate...

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