suggestion for a chastity belt for my daughter

Renita

Tobbe Without a second shield?

I worn my old belt this way.

Tobbe After a while she will discover that it works better with it on

And yes, you are right, it is better.

Angelina

Renita Yes it can worn without secondary shield.

i thought that the labia would be severely pinched, sounds painful 🙁

Tobbe

Angelina I think most belted girls and women agree!
Therefore better with the second shield, even if it involves some restrictions.

HHelen

Angelina so you're not gonna add the secondary shield?

Not now.

Renita It means she can't put it on and off without you.

Intentionally, it must be my choice only.

Angelina i thought that the labia would be severely pinched

Not really.

Tobbe Therefore better with the second shield, even if it involves some restrictions.

I would prefer it too, but not push it.

Vanessa Does it go well,or had she troubles with it?

No troubles anymore.

Vanessa But fought it more later,right?

A little when she found out what it actually means for her.

Vanessa But did she know she may have it on anyway?

No. I didn't mention it on initially.

Vanessa One of the reasons for making her wear a chastity belt?

It's just a right time. And, yes, she is still virgin.

Angelina but give the key for the secondary shield to the girl

Should never be allowed.

Angelina

Tobbe I think most belted girls and women agree!
Therefore better with the second shield, even if it involves some restrictions.

well the belt can still be worn as a abstinence belt, just add the secondary shield, but give the key for the secondary shield to the girl 😉

Vanessa Can you ask for more?

I can, but my father will say 100% no

exceptions are only made when it is very hot

Vanessa Not a bad way to act.She would know the pros and cons,and can choose what is the "less worst",in her opinion.

I've written above what a solution to this might look like

Vanessa

Tobbe

It seems there is no way to take the secondary shield of,yes...Unpleasant,even if it would not happen for me anyway,even if it was possible.

HHelen She was trying to take it off.

Totally logical reaction,even if she accepted it.

HHelen She was locked for the whole day today, but without the secondary shield.

Does it go well,or had she troubles with it?

HHelen The last will be a problem I suspect.

Sure,it would take away her only remaining possibility to get an orgasm,if you put the secondary shield on.

HHelen She doesn't fight when I put it on.

But fought it more later,right?

Sara2001 Same for me. Not wearing the secondary shield is completely out of range, but I always thought it was possible.

It seems most of us thought it is possible.

Angelina I guess I could ask my dad, but he'd probably answer that we won't test it

Good idea,he accepts more to discuss it with you without consequences.

Angelina i thought the same thing and now i am very surprised, sometimes it is good to have an expert in the forum with @Tobbe, then we even learn something about our belt although we have been wearing the belt for years 😉 😂

Yes!🙂

Even if it was not a good news...

Angelina I still don't think she accepts it

I think so,too.

HHelen We agreed about it from the beginning.

But did she know she may have it on anyway?Or only if she want/accept it?

HHelen I suspect she has a boyfriend, but no visitors now.

One of the reasons for making her wear a chastity belt?I wonder how he would react....

Angelina i have a supervised shower once a week

Can you ask for more?

HHelen I will stick to the original plan. Abstinence belt only, but 24/7.

She may accept it better,even if it would be harder if she has a boyfriend(and even more if she's in love).

Tobbe

Maybe,but the counterparts are,in my opinion,too big to ask for it.

Tobbe

Vanessa Maybe,but the counterparts are,in my opinion,too big to ask for it.

I understand you. She will probably never ask for it, but after some time call attention to a problem that happens when there is no second shield. Then @HHelen will come up with something to solve these problems. 😊

Vanessa

Tobbe

Not a bad way to act.She would know the pros and cons,and can choose what is the "less worst",in her opinion.

Tobbe

Angelina well the belt can still be worn as a abstinence belt, just add the secondary shield, but give the key for the secondary shield to the girl 😉

It depends a little on trust. Maybe the key is available in the toilet and the second shield just opens and locks there.

Renita

Angelina well the belt can still be worn as a abstinence belt, just add the secondary shield, but give the key for the secondary shield to the girl

That's what @HHelen can't do.

Renita

Tobbe Neosteel has both models with one or two locks.

I know it. Mine is short for the reason mentioned by Angelina , but it's always locked now.

BikelockFugitive I mean there IS a chance that it grows back together...

Or restored 😃

Angelina

Tobbe It depends a little on trust. Maybe the key is available in the toilet and the second shield just opens and locks there.

if she does not have the confidence, then she should simply use the secondary shield permanently

because my secondary shield is always locked, i'm not quite sure, but i mean there are 2 different keys, so the key for the secondary shield could be given to the daughter. so she can masturbate, the belt is used as a abstinence belt and she can then lock the secondary shield again, so it's not uncomfortable to wear 😉

Tobbe

I could be annoyed right now, I wrote a long text for a solution and then read this post, sometimes I'm stupid, but leave the text anyway 😉

Tobbe

Renita add the secondary shield, but give the key for the secondary shield to the girl

It's just a problem. The belt is of the model with only one lock, for both belt and second shield!

Renita

Tobbe The belt is of the model with only one lock, for both belt and second shield

I know what it is since I'm Neosteel wearer.

Vanessa

Angelina well the belt can still be worn as a abstinence belt, just add the secondary shield, but give the key for the secondary shield to the girl 😉

Could be a good idea,too.

Maybe have to put the shield on but don't keep the keys when she met her boyfriend,if oral sex should be avoided,too.

Angelina I can, but my father will say 100% no

exceptions are only made when it is very hot

Too bad,it could be helpful...

Tobbe It's just a problem. The belt is of the model with only one lock, for both belt and second shield!

It seems @HHelen have told it was a mistake,and that's a Neosteel one she had bought.

Angelina because my secondary shield is always locked, i'm not quite sure, but i mean there are 2 different keys, so the key for the secondary shield could be given to the daughter. so she can masturbate, the belt is used as a abstinence belt and she can then lock the secondary shield again, so it's not uncomfortable to wear 😉

If it's a My-Steel,it seems it's not the case....

HHelen Not now.

Good for her!🙂

HHelen I would prefer it too, but not push it.

Do you think she may ask you to use it,somedays?

HHelen A little when she found out what it actually means for her.

Logical.She didn't think it would be so restrictive?

HHelen No. I didn't mention it on initially.

If it happens suddenly,she could react less well.And knowing what can happen to her if she is "fooling around" can help her to behave better.

Tobbe

Renita Neosteel has both models with one or two locks.
The Long Front Shield will be locked with the central locking system at the waistband.
The Short Front Shield will be locked with a separate locking system at the crotch shield.

Angelina

HHelen Should never be allowed.

if there are no problems using the belt even without the secondary shield, it is not a problem, but if she has pain, you should discuss a new solution

Laura

HHelen And, yes, she is still virgin

How do you know it? 😂

Angelina

Vanessa Maybe have to put the shield on but don't keep the keys when she met her boyfriend,if oral sex should be avoided,too.

this is what i meant, if it should be a abstinence belt, sex must be prevented of course and the key may only be used for masturbation

Vanessa If it's a My-Steel,it seems it's not the case....

i only see the keys very briefly and because i always wear the secondary shield i do not see if there is another key for it 😂

Vanessa If it happens suddenly,she could react less well.And knowing what can happen to her if she is "fooling around" can help her to behave better.

that's right, they should talk about it, it could improve the daughter's behaviour 😉

HHelen

Vanessa Do you think she may ask you to use it,somedays?

I hope she will not object, somedays.

Vanessa She didn't think it would be so restrictive?

She has found out, that sex is really impossible.

She wears the belt 24/7 now, but always at home.

Vanessa

Angelina this is what i meant, if it should be a abstinence belt, sex must be prevented of course and the key may only be used for masturbation

Ok,same idea,so.😉

Angelina that's right, they should talk about it, it could improve the daughter's behaviour 😉

I think so,too.A good deterrent to misbehave.

HHelen I hope she will not object, somedays.

If she knows the purpose of it,I doubt it!

HHelen She has found out, that sex is really impossible.

She wears the belt 24/7 now, but always at home.

Does she still manage it well,even knowing it is worse than she expected?

Tobbe

Yes,the training was short...

Angelina

I guess they're confined,or decided it is more safe to stay at home,even if not mandatory.

Laura

I wonder if the chastity belts' sales have increased recently,like it is for video games!😛

Tobbe

HHelen She wears the belt 24/7 now, but always at home.

It was a very fast "learning"! Hope she does not get abrasions and wounds.

Angelina

HHelen She wears the belt 24/7 now, but always at home.

I always thought 24/7 meant she wore her belt always outside too. 😂

Laura

Tobbe It was a very fast "learning"! Hope she does not get abrasions and wounds.

I think it's not too difficult if you don't go anywhere.

Renita

Tobbe It was a very fast "learning"!

For me it took couple weeks only. So it's not very fast.

Tobbe My experience is that the body needs much longer time to accept a steel chastity belt.

I thought you are a man 😃

HHelen

Tobbe It was a very fast "learning"

Not over yet. She still has plenty of time to get used to it.

Angelina I always thought 24/7 meant she wore her belt always outside too.

She doesn't go outsize because of the COVID-19.

Vanessa If she knows the purpose of it,I doubt it!

If would be hard to not guess the purpose.

Vanessa Does she still manage it well,even knowing it is worse than she expected?

The main frustration will be when she have to go to somewhere with the belt on.

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