Belt and social circle.

Ines

Renita
I think I do not understand.

Laura

Ines I think she means everybody knew about her belt, but only guys cared.

Ines

Ah...
Well, no, people that turn away from her were girls. Until where I know, she did not talk the topic with boys.
With one of them she was talking about rent an apartament. 🙁
Only good think is that I like she stay at home, but she was happy about rent a house near the campus, and did not end well.

Renita

You attach too much importance to this, in fact, only your boyfriend and parents should be concerned

Ines

What do you think I attach so much importance exactly?

Renita

Ines What do you think I attach so much importance exactly?

Not only you, but what others think about your belt

Ines

Renita Not only you, but what others think about your belt

With current social enviroment it is advisable to be discrete.

Megan

Renita Not only you, but what others think

Don't stress about things but it is up to you what to say. When someone finds it just explain it is a tradition you practice sometimes.

Renita

Megan When someone finds it just explain it is a tradition you practice sometimes.

Do not doubt that is what I did

Vanessa

In my case,my parents know it,and my twin,of course.

Emilie too,obviously,and several of my ex-boyfriends or ex-girlfriends.

I wonder if my extended family knows it,but I guess so.And I wonder too if my cousines have felt a chastity belt locked on them too.

My best friend knows it too,but I hide it from everyone else.

Laura

Vanessa and several of my ex-boyfriends or ex-girlfriends.

Why are they supposed to know? I thought you got belted after.

Vanessa

Laura

If I was punsihed this way during the relationship,I sometimes tell them to explain why I stopped to have sex with them during a few days or weeks.

I only dated Emilie since I was belted permanently.

Laura

Vanessa If I was punsihed this way during the relationship,I sometimes tell them to explain why I stopped to have sex with them during a few days or weeks.

For how long did you have to wear you belt as punishment if you had to explain explicitly?

Vanessa

Laura For how long did you have to wear you belt as punishment if you had to explain explicitly?

It depends on the offense,and if it was a repeated one;never less than one week,and the most common was two weeks to a month.

But,even if it may seems short,if I used to have sex with a boyfriend/girlfriend secretly several times a week and suddenly stop,he/she will wonder why...

Renita

Vanessa if I used to have sex with a boyfriend/girlfriend secretly several times a week

With different people?

Vanessa

Renita With different people?

It happened a few times,but,most of the time,I was faithful and not change partners that quickly.

Ines

At end in home...
As I told before, this afternoon I have to role as elder sister. :😕
All started with a typical discussion in my home last weeks, my sister want my parents buy her a corset, stupid TV shows 😡, and my parents refuse.
My sister is yet too young and a corset can damage her, and as my sister is a bit lazy, corset still will do things worse. In that I agree with my parents.
She argues that we wear a belt that is more or less the same (could she be more wrong?).
Until this point, nothing new, all old known in my home folklore, but she add a thing that break my heart.
She said that even she is not Miss Allright, my "nickname", she has too feelings, and that we do not see her as a girl just because she does not use a chastity belt. That she feels herself isolated of us .
Bad afternoon today. I need go running a bit.

Renita

Ines She argues that we wear a belt that is more or less the same (could she be more wrong?).

Corset does not lock

Angelina

Ines

she decided not to wear a cb. if she wants to change her situation, she should wear one.

sorry but she has the choice herself

Laura

Ines and that we do not see her as a girl just because she does not use a chastity belt.

Tell her, you don't see her as an adult girl, because of this

Vanessa

Ines

I understand you felt bad.

But,if it is a sort or family trzdition,maybe you,or your parents,should explain her it is partly due to the fact she refuses to wear a chastity belt too,and if she accept it willingly,it would be better.

I remember Ivana had a similar situation,with one of her daughter,and,as she knew her mother and her two sisters,all belted,have a lot of fun and laughs during cleaning time,she felt a but jealous to not be allowed to participate in it,and it was one of the reasons that made her finally accept to wear a chastity belt too(probably having more freedom and privileges have played a role,too).

Ines

But I do not like se sees herself as isolated. We are different, but belt is not the cause. My sister and me we are more similar... but she is our sister too.

Angelina

Ines

then you have to have conversations. I always say talking a lot is important in families always

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