Chastity checks

Dominik89

Angelina Ok, I see, this forum is primarily focused on chastity and chastity belts

Angelina

Dominik89 Ok, I see, this forum is primarily focused on chastity and chastity belts

right, i ask you to pay attention to this, besides, this thread is not the right one for discussions about punishments.

Sara2001 I think it depends. I wear my belt during marriage 24/7, as well as my mother and mother in law.

orgasms aside, has your feeling about the belt changed now that your husband is the keyholder? and if so (which i think it has) how would you describe it now?

Sara2001

Dalila My father has not asked my mother to wear a belt. I think it would be unusual to wear a belt when you are married.

I think it depends. I wear my belt during marriage 24/7, as well as my mother and mother in law.

Sara2001

Angelina orgasms aside, has your feeling about the belt changed now that your husband is the keyholder? and if so (which i think it has) how would you describe it now?

I feel it's something I can be proud of because I do it for him. It's something that feels right because I know that I am fulfilling his dream by wearing the belt for him. That doesn't mean that I now don't care about all the negative aspects of the belt and tightbands, but now I have additional good feelings to the bad feelings in these situations.

Kaja

Sara2001 And did you have one (orgasm)? Or he is enaugh skilful that he only tease you?

Angelina

Sara2001 but now I have additional good feelings to the bad feelings in these situations.

i understand that, you are wearing the belt now for a completely different reason than before and the key holder (your husband) has different goals than your father, goals that you can agree with more. And you have the possibility to end it if you don't want to anymore, you didn't have that before.

Sara2001

Kaja I was allowed to orgasm but he is skillful to ensure that I don't have one if he doesn't want it and he becomes better and better in this area.

Ines

@Daniel ,

I moved your last post, not only because it was in an incorrect thread but in my opinion I had a series of questions too personal to be asked without authorization.
@Sara2001 is an adult and married woman and she has the right to enjoy the forum as she has been doing for years, entering the forum and finding these questions can make any girl feel uncomfortable or maybe, even, her husband does not like either.
Ask her first, and if she authorizes you can ask her those questions, always in the appropriate thread.

Kaja

Ines OMG and WTF. You can ask anytime, It is only on person if will answer or not...

Daniel

Ines Ah right, now I understand - I entirely agree that it should be entirely at the discretion of Sara and I and I can absolutely see how just having these questions out in the public might be uncomfortable for her. I hope that wasn‘t the case already and if she felt harassed by it,I do apologize. I really didn‘t intend it that way. Having the post pending right now until @Sara2001 decides is indeed a much better solution that I prefer as well…as a mere mortal user here private stuff is just difficult to communicate.
So thanks @Ines, very much appreciated ☺️

Ines

Kaja

They were sensitive enough questions that a woman did not like having to read them without having given them cause.
There was already a user here, much less educated than @Daniel, who did the same thing and proceeded in the same way.
I know that @Daniel did it without bad intentions but, reading those things without a previous interaction, it really is something close to harassment.
I would also appreciate it if you make complaints or considerations about moderation in the thread that exists, at least for now.
I do not know of another forum where every decision of a moderator is discussed and an opinion is given.
Moderating is already enough work to spend time justifying actions that, moreover, I always explain.

Daniel

Sara2001 Was fairly adult, yeah - just asked it here because the topic of your first orgasm came up and I had some questions how the body with muscles, nerves etc. reacts after such a long time (you can probably guess that scientific studies with long chastity times are not that common 😅).

But yeah, the other thread might be more appropiate - if Ines still has access to the post and would be so kind to copy it there it‘ll be very much appreciated - and after that I‘ll hopefully stop being a hassle 🙈

Sara2001

So what was the question? Has it anything to do with chastity checks? I have not seen it so far. If it is about adult things you can maybe ask it in the "becoming a good woman" topic and if my husband is happy with the questions I can answer them.

Angelina

Sara2001 So what was the question?

https://unwedchastity.org/d/29-become-a-good-woman/1177
You can read about it here. Personally, I wouldn't know how to answer that.

a request to all: we are not geniuses, please use simple language

Ines

Daniel still has access to the post and would be so kind to copy it there it‘ll be very much appreciated - and after that I‘ll hopefully stop being a hassle

Of course.

Daniel

Ines Gracias 🙂

Angelina

Angelina Personally, I wouldn't know how to answer that.

I am aware it‘s a hard feeling to put into words and very subjective by nature - but you know the saying „Fragen kostet nichts“…whether or not someone wants to answer is another question.

Angelina a request to all: we are not geniuses, please use simple language

Was I talking too much again? I‘m sorry, bad habit 🙈 aber falls ich was besser umschreiben kann frag gerne nach, die meisten sind ja eh schon deutsch hier 😂

Angelina

Daniel Personally, I wouldn't know how to answer that.

I am aware it‘s a hard feeling to put into words and very subjective by nature - but you know the saying „Fragen kostet nichts“…whether or not someone wants to answer is another question.

the questions themselves are of course very subjective, if you want to have that for a study, i think medical tests would have to be done more. 🙂

Daniel aber falls ich was besser umschreiben kann frag gerne nach, die meisten sind ja eh schon deutsch hier 😂

i am also german. these questions would have reached the point where i would offer my mail to clarify this in german. but it is rather due to my bad english, should not be a reproach. 🙂

Roland

Has it ever happened that something was found during an inspection? For example, that a D-ring has become loose. What would happen if a defect was found in the belt and the belt had to be removed? Do you always have a spare belt? Can a belt or accessory have any signs of wear over the years?

Natalia

Roland Has it ever happened that something was found during an inspection? For example,

it hasn't been that long for me that I have these checks.
My mum controls the padlock. only if it is properly closed and also after traces of manipulation.

and the seat of the belt is checked from time to time.

Renita

Roland Has it ever happened that something was found during an inspection?

Secondary shield was not locked properly.

Roland What would happen if a defect was found in the belt and the belt had to be removed?

Freedom 😃

Angelina

Roland

my father checks the belt once or even twice a day. if something is defective i would have to tell him immediately so that it is not considered an attempt at fraud. i have my old neosteel belt in case i cannot wear the mysteel for a longer period of time, but so far everything has been safe and stable.

Alena-CB

Natalia Silillar by us, If belts are tight, locks,...

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