Chastity checks

Angelina

Vanessa Sure,but you can keep it in mind,to use in the future.

i will keep it in mind to think about it in the future if it is possible 😉

Vanessa

Angelina

Good too.

HHelen No

So,still using it.

HHelen It helps her to avoid some mistakes.

If she agrees about staying virgin,she may have avoided it,even if free.But yes,less sure;however it would prove you trust her.

Angelina

Right.

HHelen

Angelina is she going to move out when she starts her studies?

Vanessa But,for you,another reason to keep your decision about her chastity belt,I guess.

It helps her to avoid some mistakes.

Angelina

HHelen No

this at least saves the discussion about what happens to the belt

Angelina

Vanessa If she agrees about staying virgin,she may have avoided it,even if free.But yes,less sure;however it would prove you trust her.

if she also fundamentally shares the goal of remaining a virgin, this could even be possible without a belt, or for the daughter to put the belt on herself if she sees fit.

HHelen

Vanessa If she agrees about staying virgin,she may have avoided it,even if free

She might change her mind instantly.

Vanessa

Angelina

I think so.

HHelen

I can't say you're wrong about it..

Angelina you want to prevent that she might regret this change of mind

Especially if her boyfriend have lied to her and break-up with her after getting what he wanted...

Angelina

HHelen She might change her mind instantly.

and you want to prevent that, right? you want to prevent that she might regret this change of mind

HHelen

Angelina you want to prevent that she might regret this change of mind

Basically for her protection.

Vanessa Especially if her boyfriend have lied to her and break-up with her after getting what he wanted...

And especially it happens too often.

Angelina

Vanessa Especially if her boyfriend have lied to her and break-up with her after getting what he wanted...

yes, i can understand that. i don't think the theoretical goal is completely wrong either, but the implementation seems to be developing very much to the disadvantage of the daughter.

Vanessa

Angelina the implementation seems to be developing very much to the disadvantage of the daughter.

Way more than at the start.

HHelen And especially it happens too often.

However,if he stays with her long enough,knowing she can't take it off,he may have proven trustworthy...

Angelina

Preventing her to masturbate is not part of the initial/main purpose,so I guess there is other purposes than being sure her daughter stays virgin...

Angelina

HHelen Basically for her protection.

you think this is necessary even if she fundamentally shares your goal ?

HHelen

Angelina you think this is necessary even if she fundamentally shares your goal ?

I do.

Vanessa However,if he stays with her long enough,knowing she can't take it off,he may have proven trustworthy...

Then he should marry her.

Vanessa Preventing her to masturbate is not part of the initial/main purpose

And I don't prevent it, just limit.

Angelina

Vanessa I guess there is other purposes than being sure her daughter stays virgin...

for example ? of course conditions could change, but i can't think of a real alternative that "works" as well as the belt.

Vanessa

Angelina for example ?

Preventing her to feel pleasure,for example.

HHelen Then he should marry her.

It is a big step,that can need some time.Especially if they fall in love during their studies,but want to get a work/flat before marrying,...

HHelen And I don't prevent it, just limit.

A lot.And I think she probably feel she is often prevented to do it.

Angelina

Right.

Angelina

HHelen And I don't prevent it, just limit.

this was also not the original purpose 😉

HHelen

Vanessa Especially if they fall in love during their studies,but want to get a work/flat before marrying,...

Then they can wait.

Angelina

Vanessa Preventing her to feel pleasure,for example.

sorry i thought you meant alternatives to the belt ???? since i'm in exam stress, i'm often confused here 😂

HHelen Then they can wait.

to the wedding yes, to the liberation from the belt maybe not

Jen

HHelen Would it be enough for them to promise to be together for life in front of friends & family?
When I say wait until married I mean something like this. Not involved the law or religion.

Vanessa

HHelen

It could be very long...Some studies can last 5 years or more...

Jen Would it be enough for them to promise to be together for life in front of friends & family?

It can be a good idea,yes.

Laura

She can wear it for such ceremony!😉

Angelina sorry i thought you meant alternatives to the belt ???? since i'm in exam stress, i'm often confused here 😂

No problem!😉

HHelen I insist on no sex before wedding. That's what a belt is for.

Not necessarily.Depends on each person.For some,it is only during studies,for others,a part of her studies,etc...

Laura

Jen https://unwedchastity.org/d/27-chastity-belt-under-wedding-dress

HHelen

Jen Would it be enough for them to promise to be together for life in front of friends & family?

Ask your parents.

Angelina to the wedding yes, to the liberation from the belt maybe not

I insist on no sex before wedding. That's what a belt is for.

Megan

Angelina since i'm in exam stress, i'm often confused here

Are you winning Kid??? 😀

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