The big change

Amira

Hello I have something new to report and this is something that makes me feel proud and my parents as well.

Last Sunday was a day where my release for "pleasure" was intended.

When my Mom wanted to unlock me I refused because of Ramadan which is the time of the year intended for fasting. I told her that I want to not be out of the belt till Ramadan is over which is May 12th.

In the evening my urge grew stronger though and some of you remember that I have a history of trying to cheat the belt which even caused a minor injury. So I asked about the thigh bands to be in place when I am at home.

So you can welcome me now as a voluntarily and not coerced or reluctant wearer anymore 🙂

Laura

Amira So I asked about the thigh bands to be in place when I am at home.

And got it?

Vanessa

Amira So you can welcome me now as a voluntarily and not coerced or reluctant wearer anymore 🙂

But would you accept if they want you to wear it permanently?

Angelina

Amira

good to hear from you again, last i heard you tried to wear the thigh bands more often in winter, what is the state of this topi on that?

i'm glad you can call yourself a voluntary wearer 🙂

Vanessa But would you accept if they want you to wear it permanently?

good question, without the breaks it is of course much harder

Renita

Amira When my Mom wanted to unlock me I refused

Good girl. @Laura should start doing the same.

Amira

Laura

yes, I did get them and it feels completely different than before 🙂

Laura

Amira But you might get stuck in them if you need to go outside and your mom is not home

Amira

Yes, that could happen, but it usually can be avoided by planning ahead I think. And it won't be for an overly long period of time anyway.

Amira

Vanessa But would you accept if they want you to wear it permanently?

No, I don't think I would accept the thigh bands to become a permanent part, but at home I wouldn't fight it 🙂 In case the question was about not having any breaks at all anymore I'd say that I think that this wouldn't be the right thing for me.

Renita Good girl. @Laura should start doing the same.

Thank you. 🙂 Hmmm. no, I think Laura should do what is best for her heart and soul.

Angelina good to hear from you again, last i heard you tried to wear the thigh bands more often in winter, what is the state of this topi on that?

That was because of my stunt with trying to get something narrow enough under it and it was completely different from my current experience as I have now a completely different inner view on it than before.

Angelina

Amira as I have now a completely different inner view on it than before.

a much more positive view as it reads 🙂

how often do you currently wear the thigh bands?

Renita

Amira I think Laura should do what is best for her heart and soul.

She tries to convince other girls to wear belts but prefers to enjoy self-pleasure.

Vanessa

Amira In case the question was about not having any breaks at all anymore

It was!😉

Amira that this wouldn't be the right thing for me.

Understandable.

Amira I have now a completely different inner view on it than before.

Any reason for this change?

Amira

It is a common length,there is often shorter one!😉

Renita

It is her parents' decision.

Angelina correct, but impossible for me (have tested it)

I think all of us who had to wear ones have tested it!😉

Megan

Amira I have now a completely different inner view on it than before.

That is really great you should be proud

Amira

Angelina a much more positive view as it reads 🙂

how often do you currently wear the thigh bands?

oh yes, much more positive! I will wear them every night and at daytime when I am at home till Ramadan is over so till 12th of May. The only complaint would be that they still would be safe when the chain would have the double length 🙂

Laura

Amira The only complaint would be that they still would be safe when the chain would have the double length

What is the current length?

Amira

the chain is about 10 cm, plus there's some more space for the rings the chain is attached to.

Angelina

Amira the chain is about 10 cm, plus there's some more space for the rings the chain is attached to.

10 cm is not much but still more than I have (6cm) 😉

Foxies

I often see on the forum where the length of connecting chain between thigh bands is either questioned or described. But how much the chain effects the wearer is not only dependent on the length of the chain (and rings on the thigh bands), but also on where the thigh bands reside. If the thigh bands are low and near the knees, a 6cm chain might be incredibly restrictive where as if they reside at the top of the thighs, it might be almost useless.

Perhaps rather that mentioning connecting chain length, a more useful description would be how far the wearer can separate their knees, as measured from the centre of the kneecap when sitting. For example, my connecting chain is about 6 cm long and I can separate my kneecaps by about 20 cm. It shortens my stride a little but not too much. I am only 1.6 m tall.

Just a thought 😂

Ines

Foxies
Yes, you are totally right. That was discussed some time ago after I had some brushes on thighs while I was studying.
We even though in purchase longer chains for them, but the 6 cm of chain in my case would be very short.
No, I do not use padlock in the chain between my bands.

Foxies

Angelina 10 cm is not much but still more than I have (6cm)

Smiles - see my post above. Hopefully your thigh bands sit up high! 😂

Sara2001

Angelina 10 cm is not much but still more than I have (6cm)

I have 6cm, too, The bands are placed more or less in the middle of my tights. So I have round about 18-20 cm of distance between my knees as a maximum.

Angelina

Foxies Smiles - see my post above. Hopefully your thigh bands sit up high! 😂

for me about in the middle of the thighs (never measured it exactly), of course that also plays a big role

Sara2001 I have 6cm, too, The bands are placed more or less in the middle of my tights. So I have round about 18-20 cm of distance between my knees as a maximum.

about just like me approximately, it seems that our fathers have colluded 😂

Tobbe

correct, but impossible for me (have tested it)

Tobbe

You can not have the tights bands to low if it shall be escape proof!
It will be easy to lay down at your back and get your legs up to your chest, and slide the bands over the knees and you are "free". Same way to get them on again, without any keys.