Feelings about being a chastity belt girl.

Angelina

wow you really understand everything I write here, probably because our situations are very similar 😉

BikelockFugitive

Vanessa Yeah thats why I described it as "cutting him down"
You slowly take away the control. So he won't be shocked.
This works so often in psychology

Angelina

BikelockFugitive

Taking control of him is good for my sexuality.
but i am often glad that he is in control, so i don't have to take care of many things myself. i have problems making decisions in my life, so i am happy if he takes some of it off my hands. if he loses control over my sexuality (which is one of the first things he wants to control), he would also lose control over many other things which are bad for me.

in short. unfortunately i have to say self-critically i can't be independent, that's what i stand for

but I'm tired now and I'm going to sleep.
good night

BikelockFugitive

Angelina
You know there are two types of things in your life: Those that can destroy your life within seconds and those that prepare you to detect and deal with them.

Nearly everything you do right now, has low impact on your life. You could learn to take responsibility. But your father is basically denying you this experience, which might come and bite you later.

Angelina

BikelockFugitive

that's not quite true. my father doesn't refuse me to become independent, I don't really want it 😉

i am happy when some things are settled in my life, but i have to sacrifice some freedoms like my sexuality 🙁

i always say i live in a golden cage

Laura

Vanessa In France we often say "the men come from Mars,the women come from Venus"("les hommes viennent de Mars,les femmes de Vénus").

Finally I see French here, in addition to German and Spanish. We are all set 😂

reactionary69

Laura @Vanessa The same in German.

Though I prefer to say
"The opposite sex is like horses.
They never do what you expect them to do."

strictfather

in italy we say "women come from another planet" or "le donne vengono da un altro pianeta"

Ines

And men, too...

Vanessa

reactionary69 "The opposite sex is like horses.
They never do what you expect them to do."

Not bad!

Angelina i am happy when some things are settled in my life, but i have to sacrifice some freedoms like my sexuality

Do you think it is worth it?

Angelina

Vanessa

I don't know, but it wouldn't change my chastity situation, so I enjoy being pampered 😉

Vanessa

Angelina I don't know, but it wouldn't change my chastity situation, so I enjoy being pampered

What would you decide if you had the choice?

Angelina

Vanessa

i think i would opt for chastity, but this situation doesn't come about. my father closes me off no matter how independent i am (or not), thinking about it is irrelevant

Sara2001

Vanessa What would you decide if you had the choice?

I think I would decide to not have to wear the tightbands and to give the key to my chastity belt to Daniel and if I am not in a relationship I would decide that I don't have to wear the belt but I'm not sure this would be better for me.

Vanessa

Angelina

I think I would choose to not be belted.

However,I agree,irrelevant and can be a bit frustrating....

Angelina

Vanessa

i would like to differentiate my answer a little, i would choose the belt, but without the bra and the tighbands

Vanessa

Angelina i would like to differentiate my answer a little, i would choose the belt, but without the bra and the tighbands

I can understand it,these extre gear makes it harder than "only" the chastity belt...

Vanessa

Sara2001 I'm not sure this would be better for me.

Why?

Sara2001

Vanessa Why?

Not sure if I would focus to much on masturbation 😂

Renita

Sara2001 Not sure if I would focus to much on masturbation

Then there should be no doubt about the belt

Vanessa

Sara2001 Not sure if I would focus to much on masturbation

At first,probably,especially after being prevented to do it so long.And even more as you know how good it can feel.But if it means you never have to be locked again,I guess it would calm down and you do it less often.

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