Feelings about being a chastity belt girl.

Angelina

i got my belt when i was 15 and the rest on my 16th birthday. to be honest, it was already too late, i think if you start slowly at 14 (by the hour, at home, later at night) it's better.

with 15 after one year of training you can wear your belt permanently so you had enough time to get used to it.

the reason is my own experience, i started mastubating when i was 14, it's easier to prevent this early than if you've been around longer.

also few girls with 13/14 already had sex

Ines

Angelina
With 13 years, If a girl maintains sexuality activity is not for lack of a belt, it is for lack of education.
Even my sister Sara, that is a fiercy cat has clear that a girl in early teens is not prepared to give herself to a boy.

Angelina

Ines

i don't want to set fixed age limits either. it depends on the girl. some are only interested in sex at 18, others at 12/13. i think it's completely different when a girl needs a belt. it also depends on how tolerant the parents are.

what i have written consists only of my own experiences.

Ines

The age of starting will depend on girl maturation, but as you say, first step, for me, is always acceptance, and a child of 12/13 can not understand fully the implications of belting.

Laura

Ines If the girl is prepared I agree with both you, 15(me) /16 can be a good option.

Parents started looking after me when I was around 16

Ines

Angelina
Of course, I agree 100%. Every girl is different, and her circumstances too, as you saw I marked as most important things acceptance and maturation. But frankly I do not think that a girl with 12/13 can handle all.
I with 13 years almost was just leaving dolls!

Angelina

Ines

maybe also a question of origin. in germany it might be different than in spain

Ines

But, they purpose belting to you before you were 19 years old?
To present the belt option to a girl with 19 or 20 is not a little late? I mean, I grow up with the idea of being a teen and star wearing one, maybe if you grow up with the belting as matter out of your sight, when the belt appears can be a big shock, right?
Specially with 19 or 20 that a girl has become in a young lady.

Laura

Ines But, they purpose belting to you before you were 19 years old?

Yes, I knew about my mom's belt and I was supposed to get my own later on. But before I was not allowed to date, have a curfew and got inspected if my hymen was still intact.

amber

Angelina i know all this is not great for you but you still have the possibility to mastubate if very rarely.

Yes, I think it's possible, but I have never masturbated before (I knew about masturbation since I was 12, i just never did it because, idk, it's scary? lol). Now I kinda want to try it, but the belt says no

Angelina i hope you talked to your mother now, if i remember correctly you were a little afraid of it. if so what came out ?

Here's how the conversation went (not exactly):
"Can you explain again why do I have to wear this?"
"Because without it you can touch your private parts and do other things (she means masturbate probably) whenever you want, without permission"
"But I don't do that anyway even without the belt"
"Well, what's the problem then?"
"..."
It's a typical parent-style bullshit argument, but I don't know how to argue with that.

Angelina

amber

just the last sentence now what is the problem, is totally strange. now it is clear in any case that mastubation or other sexual activities should be prevented. nevertheless, the conversation should not have ended. you might have asked until when you should wear the belt, because if it is only about your age you can negotiate well.
you have never masturbated before and now you want to. is already a certain irony

amber

Ines Well, Amber,
first of all you have to internalize what is the belt, why you are wearing, and what is the deeper significance of wear a chastity belt

What do you mean by "deeper significance"? It's just to prevent me from having sex and masturbating (not like I would have sex any time soon, I'm just XX)

Angelina

amber

you are only 13 but if you have a boyfriend (and yes that can happen in old age) you are sure that you don't want to have sex with him ?

Ines

amber
Deeper significance is to be aware about what the belt means, about trust ties, to be caressed and pampered. Sex is totally secondary for me in relation to be belted, Amber.

amber

Angelina I don't have one, and even if i did, I know that 15 is the earliest age girls should have sex, so not until i'm at least XX

Angelina

amber

have or have you already had a relationship if so I congratulate that you are waiting you are 15 (but has completely settled with the cb)

if not, you can't say that right now.

amber

Angelina I've never had a relationship, i'm saying that even if I do, i'm not going to have sex until i'm XXX.

Angelina (but has completely settled with the cb)

if not, you can't say that right now.

Sorry, i don't understand what you mean

BikelockFugitive

Ines I already told her that she could go on a Warpath and who to talk you.
Won't annoy people with it or force my ways onto them tho.

Renita

Laura and got inspected if my hymen was still intact.

Now it’s clear where you get obsessed on this topic.

Angelina

amber
So I meant that even at 15, sex has no chance for now, because of the belt.

besides i wanted to say, you can't say if you want to have sex at the age. if you should have a boyfriend now you would probably want to have sex with him too, that's normal also with 13

amber

Angelina I only have to wear it at home, so it would be possible. I'll still say "no" until i'm XX though.

Angelina

amber
I wouldn't say that too loudly, otherwise you get the belt permanently at 15. 😉

if you should have sex despite belt, is in my opinion waste of money . even if I grant it to you 😉

Laura

amber I only have to wear it at home, so it would be possible

You will start wearing outside later on.

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