Should I become a key holder ?
Vanessa Do you think she would be able to wear it a full week before the start of the 2 to 3 weeks try?
she will be with me for 3 weeks in the summer, maybe she can close herself 2 to 3 days before, but i think in the long run it is better if i accompany her. 
Sara2001 What are her feelings about the 2-3 weeks? Is she looking forward to it? I have heard that it takes 6 weeks for us to get used to a new routine.
she is curious, she has never worn the belt for such a long time, unfortunately we don't have the 6 weeks at the moment, half of the summer holidays, that was the deal with my father and that's 3 weeks. of course she can lock herself before and after but without a key holder success is very unlikely.
Joh Hmm....
Does your answer mean you take her gift as a nice thing but it counts not much?
ah ok now i understand what you mean. it's not about her wanting to give me a gift, it's just about equality. of course i find it very sweet of her as a gesture, but that's not the main reason.
it's more about her not feeling guilty and that we don't get into an unequal situation where one is still a virgin and the other is not.
Angelina an unequal situation where one is still a virgin and the other is not.
Hi Angelina may I ask you why do you consider that being a virgin is important ?
I know that it is very important in some religions and I understand why. But from what I understood you are not very much into religion (or even not at all) ? So I would be interested to know the reason behind this 
MaximeJourennes Hi Angelina
I know that it is very important in some religions and I understand why. But from what I understood you are not very much into religion (or even not at all) ? So I would be interested to know the reason behind this
ok, i think there is a misunderstanding here. it is not important to me, but since i have to wear the belt until my wedding, i will automatically remain a virgin until the wedding.
the important point is that camryn and i want to lose our virginity at the same time. if i didn't wear a belt, we probably wouldn't both be virgins anymore.
Angelina Oh ok I get it now. Thanks for the clarification 
Angelina she will be with me for 3 weeks in the summer, maybe she can close herself 2 to 3 days before, but i think in the long run it is better if i accompany her.
I meant trying a full week some weeks/days before the 3 weeks try.
Joh If my girlfriend were to offer this to me, I would feel very honoured. Also her trust in me would greatly increase my affection and attachment. That would make me very happy.
Understandable!
I don't remember,does she wear a chastity belt,sometimes?
Angelina if i didn't wear a belt, we probably wouldn't both be virgins anymore.
You should not tell it to your father;otherwise he would be totally sure he took the right decision!
Angelina the important point is that camryn and i want to lose our virginity at the same time. if i didn't wear a belt, we probably wouldn't both be virgins anymore.
I don't mean to pry, but have you thought of the logistics of this? I mean you don't even like the idea of vibrators... how do you plan on achieving this? Do you plan on visiting one of "those" shops? (Germany has some epic ones if you want some suggestions, you guys sure are freaky!). 
What interests do you have when it comes to intimacy? What toys are first on the list?
I get that this is personal so you don't have to answer if you don't want to, but I'm genuinely curious.
I'm imagining some poor little virgin school girl from Bavaria walking into Blackstyle in Berlin, and her brain just exploding into a gooey mess on the floor. :-D
Sin I don't mean to pry, but have you thought of the logistics of this?
I think @Angelina has an emotion based relationship where they are not allowed to spend time alone together...
I was engaged for quite awhile but my fiance spent a lot of effort not to leave me uncomfortable during that period.
It was more like what we did while engaged was for me and he was a distant second so kind of the opposite of a male led relationship during the engagement...
@Angelina to answer your question on the title...
In my opinion you should not be a keyholder because while I think it is good that you are aware of yourself and you write contracts and all that... We will always owe something to our better half...
What would things look like if you got divorced or camryn decided she didn't want to marry you???
Even if she is submissive to what you say and want to do you should appreciate her gifts but not try to push her to hard.
I am straight but it sounds like you two are very happy together and it's nice to hear about how you are growing together. Do you think you will get engaged soon???
Megan I think Angelina has an emotion based relationship where they are not allowed to spend time alone together...
Currently, yes. But sooner or later they want to consumate the relationship, and from my (limited) experience with other girls, that usually involves a whole arsenal of toys. I'm just curious about whether or not they had thought about such things. I imagine losing your virginity in a lesbian relationship would be somewhat difficult if you found the idea of vibes confronting. Unless "losing virginity" in this case just means any amount of intimacy, in which case, carry on! I think that's really cute.
Vanessa I meant trying a full week some weeks/days before the 3 weeks try.
a few days are certainly possible, i will talk to camryn about it
Vanessa You should not tell it to your father;otherwise he would be totally sure he took the right decision!
frankly yes , but he must never know that
Sin I get that this is personal so you don't have to answer if you don't want to, but I'm genuinely curious.
no problem i would like to answer you but unfortunately i am not sure what your question is
Megan What would things look like if you got divorced or camryn decided she didn't want to marry you???
Even if she is submissive to what you say and want to do you should appreciate her gifts but not try to push her to hard.
well she is not submissive, it's not about that either. if she doesn't want to marry me, then i will let her go. but it's about the current situation, of course we don't know what will be in 2 years, but currently we are thinking about it. if the relationship should fail, she will of course be released from the belt immediately and the belt would only be worn if it doesn't have a negative influence.
Megan Do you think you will get engaged soon???
hopefully very soon, but we are still very young. i think maybe in a year
Angelina no problem i would like to answer you but unfortunately i am not sure what your question is
You mentioned you would like to lose your virginity at the same time, but you also mentioned you don't like toys, vibes etc. So ummmm... have you thought about how you will achieve this? I get that sex doesn't have to be penetrative, but isn't that what you are all saving your virginity for? To put it bluntly... is scissoring enough or will you be going shopping? Who wears the pants? 