your feeling first time(s) you worn a chastity belt

Kate2

Angelina Thank you Angelina. I had to put it on Friday afternoon and wear until Monday morning, so three nights. It was a little better, Susan stayed up with me to help me through it. I shaved before bed one night and that helped a little bit. That is the first time I have done that, it feels kind of weird. Susan does it every week. She says she likes it better.

Right now I have to wear it when I come home, every single night, and it comes off in the morning. Whenever I run, which is most days, i don't have to wear it. AJ agreed to that, and has stuck with it, but on days I don't it must be on.

Kaja

Kate2 You DONT have to. Stop it if you donnt like it. It is your freedom and NOBODY cant force you.
Stop it while you have time. Or do you want be traped away normal comfy and healthy life for years for no reason?

Kate2

Kaja Thank you Kaja, I always appreciate you looking out for the girls on here. I know I don't have to do this, and I will stop if it becomes too much. It is important to AJ that my and my sister wear these, and what she wants matters to me. It is hard now and 24/7 will he harder, but I think it will get easier over time. Susan doesn't like wearing hers either but she is used to it and now and rarely complains.

There are some advantages, one of my best friends had sex with her BF and feels very guilty about it and wishes she could go back. At least I know this will not happen to me.

Joh

Kate2 There are some advantages, one of my best friends had sex with her BF and feels very guilty about it and wishes she could go back.

You should know what you are doing and what the consequence is. Their is no way back by the first sex. The belt can help you if you can not stand to your point but do you need to wear it 24/7? No. Only in risky situation.

Angelina

Kate2 There are some advantages, one of my best friends had sex with her BF and feels very guilty about it and wishes she could go back. At least I know this will not happen to me.

well, the question is whether the belt is necessary for that? i think we should always think carefully about who we have sex with beforehand. i hope everything works out the way you imagined it, i admire how much commitment you show and hope @Jenna appreciates it.

Kate2

Joh I am inclined to agree with you Joh, but AJ thinks it is best I wear it full time, as Susan does. Last night I wore it for the first time out of the house. I went to a party with lots of other kids. It was kind of hard getting used to it and certainly keeping it concealed, it is something that makes things more difficult, but I think I can handle it. This kind of party is where my friend lost her virginity, so having the belt on made me feel more comfortable.

Kate2

Angelina AJ thinks it is necessary that I wear it full time. She is against masturbation and "unladylike touching" among a bunch of other reasons. I know she appreciates what Susan and I are doing, she tells us everyday. She tells us this is a commitment we make to each other.

Joh

Kate2 Last night I wore it for the first time out of the house. I went to a party with lots of other kids

For this situation the CB helps you not to do something recklessly that you will regret later.

Kate2 She is against masturbation and "unladylike touching" among a bunch of other reasons.

Do you see it in the same way or do you think it is outdated?

Kate2 I and I know Susan too, feel lucky to have someone who loves us and watches over us.

Yes, she really takes care of you both and it is good. You have the advantage to find your way without the big risk. But it is on you to find out what you want and need and claim it when the time is right. Your aunt can't take that away from you.

Kaja

Kate2

EDITED

Angelina

Kate2

yes, it is a really big commitment. i hope in the end you will also benefit from it yourself, that you can say in the end that it was the right decision, but only the future will tell.

toad

I follow along to see how things are going. Here is my conclusion; belt or no belt you and your sister are very fortunate to have someone care enough to try to lead you to a better life. Many young women and men don't have the caring and love that both you and your sister enjoy!

Kate2

toad We do love AJ and our fortunate to have her taking care of us. This chastity wearing is something truthfully we never imagined, and it is not easy, but Jenna feels it is important as she reminds us every day. A lot of my friends have parents that are only marginally involved in their lives. I and I know Susan too, feel lucky to have someone who loves us and watches over us.

Kate2

Joh Do you see it in the same way or do you think it is outdated?

I think it may be outdated, but she thinks it makes us "focus on the wrong things". I trust her judgement so I go along with it.

Joh But it is on you to find out what you want and need and claim it when the time is right. Your aunt can't take that away from you.

AJ knows Susan and I are different, she handles things more easily than I do. Wearing the the belt is hard, I won't deny that, but it is important to her that I do. If I can't handle it, I will request that it be removed. That is my right.

Kate2

Angelina Yes it is, we both know that, Susan too.

Angelina

Kate2

this may sound strange from my side, but i kind of really hope that you can do it. i think it is important that the wishes of all sides are taken into account, i think for your peace in the family it can be good if you can both wear the belt.

James

Kate2 "This is Kaja, Kate - we try to work out what she means, but she only is capable of talking in insults."

Kaja

Angelina Not.

Kate2

Angelina I am trying, but it is hard to get used to. AJ has had many long talks with me about why it is important, so all sides are being taken into account. She is happy that Susan is pretty much 24/7 and is encouraging me that way too. She has lived up to her promise that i don't have to wear it for my cross country practices or meets. Pretty much all other times she wants it on. There is definitely peace when Susan and I are both belted.

Angelina

Kate2

that sounds good, is there still training and when is approximately planned when 24/7 starts, or is that looked at individually, so depending on when you are ready?

Kate2

Angelina AJ wants me ready right away to be in it full time. But I push back where I can, I am not like my sister who seems to deal with it better. I will get there, but it takes time.

Elsa

Hello

First time when i tried on an chastity-belt it was strange. It was the belt from my mom. The belt does not really fit an I could slip them off. But it was a strange feeling.

First time I had my own belt on, I was shocked. It was only to adjust the belt and find out the right setup but the belt has shown directly his strength and power to me.

First time the belt was locked and i was left alone in my room, I was scared! Really scared! I was still shocked about the tightness and the power of pressure where comes from the belt. Knowing I could not get it out without the key.
I couldn't imagine wearing the belt for more than only few minutes.

Now I am not longer shocked. Knowing now that a training is very important! I could wear them also now some hours a day. Today was 8 hours in the belt without unlocking.

Joh

Elsa Sleeping in the belt will be the next challenge. They recommend a cushion between the legs to make it more comfortable.

Angelina

Elsa

i understand your feelings so well, the belt triggers a lot of fear in the first moment. it is like being locked up in a narrow room. in the beginning the belt is always physically present, but you will have to get used to the feeling.

Elsa Yes she wears also again. But not 24/7 too. Sure I always could ask her things and she would also give me support as much she can 🙂

i thought 24/7 was the goal, but as far as i understood it, masturbation is also to be prevented? how is that supposed to work if the belt is not worn 24/7?

Jonas

Elsa I was still shocked about the tightness and the power of pressure where comes from the belt. Knowing I could not get it out without the key.

Even after wearing for so long, I still get this feeling sometimes. I can have completely forgotten that I'm wearing my chastity belt, when suddenly the realisation that I am locked in steel underwear hits me like a freight train. I feel exactly as you describe all at once.

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