your feeling first time(s) you worn a chastity belt

James

Kate2 "This is Kaja, Kate - we try to work out what she means, but she only is capable of talking in insults."

Angelina

this may sound strange from my side, but i kind of really hope that you can do it. i think it is important that the wishes of all sides are taken into account, i think for your peace in the family it can be good if you can both wear the belt.

Kaja

Angelina Not.

Kate2

Angelina I am trying, but it is hard to get used to. AJ has had many long talks with me about why it is important, so all sides are being taken into account. She is happy that Susan is pretty much 24/7 and is encouraging me that way too. She has lived up to her promise that i don't have to wear it for my cross country practices or meets. Pretty much all other times she wants it on. There is definitely peace when Susan and I are both belted.

Angelina

Kate2

that sounds good, is there still training and when is approximately planned when 24/7 starts, or is that looked at individually, so depending on when you are ready?

Kate2

Angelina AJ wants me ready right away to be in it full time. But I push back where I can, I am not like my sister who seems to deal with it better. I will get there, but it takes time.

Elsa

Hello

First time when i tried on an chastity-belt it was strange. It was the belt from my mom. The belt does not really fit an I could slip them off. But it was a strange feeling.

First time I had my own belt on, I was shocked. It was only to adjust the belt and find out the right setup but the belt has shown directly his strength and power to me.

First time the belt was locked and i was left alone in my room, I was scared! Really scared! I was still shocked about the tightness and the power of pressure where comes from the belt. Knowing I could not get it out without the key.
I couldn't imagine wearing the belt for more than only few minutes.

Now I am not longer shocked. Knowing now that a training is very important! I could wear them also now some hours a day. Today was 8 hours in the belt without unlocking.

Joh

Elsa Sleeping in the belt will be the next challenge. They recommend a cushion between the legs to make it more comfortable.

Angelina

Elsa

i understand your feelings so well, the belt triggers a lot of fear in the first moment. it is like being locked up in a narrow room. in the beginning the belt is always physically present, but you will have to get used to the feeling.

Elsa Yes she wears also again. But not 24/7 too. Sure I always could ask her things and she would also give me support as much she can 🙂

i thought 24/7 was the goal, but as far as i understood it, masturbation is also to be prevented? how is that supposed to work if the belt is not worn 24/7?

Jonas

Elsa I was still shocked about the tightness and the power of pressure where comes from the belt. Knowing I could not get it out without the key.

Even after wearing for so long, I still get this feeling sometimes. I can have completely forgotten that I'm wearing my chastity belt, when suddenly the realisation that I am locked in steel underwear hits me like a freight train. I feel exactly as you describe all at once.

Elsa

Joh Right this would be the next challenge. My mom also asked me today how about my feeling is, to try an overnight tonight.

Her opinion is, to wear the belt as soon as possible in the night permanently and having breaks only during the day.

Ines

Elsa

What is your belt brand? Do you will use accessories, or you will use only the belt?

Joh

Elsa Does your older sister still wears her CB? She can give you advices how to handle some issues.

Kate2

Elsa Hi Elsa, I am in the same position as you I think. I have a a My Steel belt too and I struggled to wear it overnight too but a pillow helps now. My aunt wants it on me every night. Last week I got a Neo Steel belt too, which I tried on but don't like as much.

Elsa

Ines It's from one of the big brands, My-Steel. Accessories are tighbands, not more. However, they are not intended for 24/7 use like the belt. Only for disciplining or punishment. But no bra or other things.

I also wore the tightbands for a few minutes to test them. Then it was like my sister told me before, I won't like them that much and I'll make sure that they don't used.

Ines

Elsa My-Steel.

Well known, yes, I did not have it, but is praised for other girls that use it, very safe.

Elsa However, they are not intended for 24/7 use like the belt.

Yes, it is logical.

Elsa Only for disciplining or punishment.

It is better avoid punishment linked with belts, just my opinion.

Elsa But no bra or other things.

Nice. After 6 years I have mine very recently, but I just used it for customization, and I am not in a hurry to test it.

Do you study? Do you have boyfriend?

Elsa

Ines I did not have it, but is praised for other girls that use it, very safe.

Its save, with my little experience I could agree to them at moment.

Ines It is better avoid punishment linked with belts, just my opinion.

Do you mean no punishments for general things? I know punishments only from my sister when she has cheated belt rules. Like try to cheat the belt, not be back in belt at time, for example.

Since yesterday, there have also been fewer rules in general 🙂 At moment only going outside from the house with the belt on.

Ines Nice. After 6 years I have mine very recently, but I just used it for customization, and I am not in a hurry to test it.

A bra is currently not an issue, for me.

Ines Do you study? Do you have boyfriend?

I start to study end of summer. There is no Boyfriend at moment.

Joh Does your older sister still wears her CB? She can give you advices how to handle some issues.

Yes she wears also again. But not 24/7 too. Sure I always could ask her things and she would also give me support as much she can 🙂

Tonight i will try the first overnight 😉

youdontknowme

Elsa Do you mean no punishments for general things? I know punishments only from my sister when she has cheated belt rules. Like try to cheat the belt, not be back in belt at time, for example.

I think she is talking about using the belt itself as a punishment. which may both sour your relationship with the control the belt provides and cause you to desire the things the belt is supposed to prevent as a reward.

Joh

Elsa Yes she wears also again. But not 24/7 too.

In which situation is she wearing her belt?

Kate2

Elsa Yes she wears also again. But not 24/7 too. Sure I always could ask her things and she would also give me support as much she can 🙂

I have an older sister too @Susan, she is on the forum too and has been very helpful to me. It helps having her wearing a belt too so we can deal with it together. She has been wearing her belt 24/7 since pretty much last summer.

Elsa

youdontknowme I think she is talking about using the belt itself as a punishment.

OK, the belt itself is not used as an punishment.

Joh In which situation is she wearing her belt?

Don’t know exactly! She wears outside from home, at home she is often without belt. But I could not tell you her exact rules of wearing the belt.
She is married and lives with her husband, so the rules in their house are sure different now.

I have now an break for some hours, later I will have the first try for an overnight.

Elsa

Angelina i thought 24/7 was the goal, but as far as i understood it, masturbation is also to be prevented? how is that supposed to work if the belt is not worn 24/7?

It’s possible that you now mix two persons? I talked with Joh also about my sister 😉

My sister has done also 24/7 but now she is no more in the belt for 24/7 because she is now married 😉

For me it would be 24/7 when the training time is over.

Angelina in the beginning the belt is always physically present, but you will have to get used to the feeling.

Your words are right. I just had some moments, the belt was no more present in my feeling or in my head. It wasn't for long, but there have been moments like this.

The moment I'm a bit afraid of is the moment later when it goes back into the belt for the overnight.

Laura

Elsa but now she is no more in the belt for 24/7 because she is now married

Why does it make a difference?

Angelina

Elsa It’s possible that you now mix two persons? I talked with Joh also about my sister 😉

no, i didn't mix anything up. just forgot that your sister is already married and of course no longer in the belt 24/7. 😂

Kate2 AJ wants me ready right away to be in it full time. But I push back where I can, I am not like my sister who seems to deal with it better. I will get there, but it takes time.

i hope your aunt gives you the time you need, this is a big step that should not be taken too hastily, especially because it has extremely big consequences. once you are at 24/7, there is no fast going back, you should be aware of that.

Elsa Your Neosteel, is this the belt who also is called here as abstinent-belt?

no, an abstinence belt here on the forum means anything that is not 24/7, so breaks to masturbate allowed, just no sex

Elsa

Laura Why does it make a difference?

Maybe it’s a personal definition? In my mind, wearing 24/7 includes also nor sexual activities.
An married woman has normally sexual activities. If a woman has sex with her husband, she is sure unlocked for pleasure. The married womans who wearing an belt, have also some time at home without belt.
The sexual pressure of an woman who is married and sexual active is sure less the a woman who is locked in the belt all the time. So, if a married woman is not locked in the belt, she sure not use this moment directly to get some pleasure.

But maybe there are some different views on it.

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