your feeling first time(s) you worn a chastity belt

Ines

I think totally different.

Check the locks is very logical and a way to show that keyholder is implied in the process.
I am not talking about psychopathic control, but it is nice to have notice about the much our keyholder cares us.

Jen

Damien I question the need for regular unannounced checks because I see them as unnecessary demonstration of power over the belted person

Ines Check the locks is very logical and a way to show that keyholder is implied in the process.

Didn't happen for me. When parents used to have the key they just unlocked as agreed nothing else.

Damien

Cares for you or for his lock? But OK, I understand that if parents and daughters share the understanding of the importance of chastity, this is perceived as care and common goal, and this is not something I wanted to critizize.

Andrew

Damien I understand that if parents and daughters share the understanding of the importance of chastity, this is perceived as care

It seems to me that whether we're talking about "serious" or "fetish" use, a lot of people who wear belts actually expect these checks as a sign of interest and attention from the keyholder.

Ines

Damien Cares for you or for his lock?

For me. I wrote plenty of times here that the important is my safety, the belt is only a tool. Without that tool it would be impossible that most of girls remain pure.
The belt and locks are merely steel tools.

Renita

curious Yes, I'm in complete chastity since I wear my belt. Mom takes it seriously.

curious

Renita
The table on that Forum Girls Thread says you are a willing wearer and get breaks.
So that is no longer the case?
What are your rules now and when did they change (and why)?

Laura

Elsa My sister tried that once

Without success?

Elsa

Laura Without success?

I don't think so, or she was a very, very good actress.

But if she did, she would never say it!

Renita

curious The table on that Forum Girls Thread says you are a willing wearer and get breaks.

That's definitely a mistake. @Laura, could you fix it?

curious

Renita
What are your rules and what is your status as wearer then?
If I get this right, you are far older than the other belted girls here who are locked by their parents.

Laura

Elsa Didn't the parents try to find out?

Elsa

Laura I'm absolutely sure they tried that! But they didn't always tell me everything why my sister was punished. I've only noticed often that it was like that.

Ines

Elsa

We are several girls wearing a chastity belt in my environment. I only have notice about one that tried to cheat the lock, and consequences were serious.

Angelina

Elsa Only one thing was new for me today, my mom checked the padlock. She checked whether it was still properly closed and whether there were any signs of manipulation. She also said that this can happen at any time now.

I know that myself and many others here too. in general i would say that it shows that the keyholder takes responsibility seriously and really wants to enforce chastity

Damien But why check on your locked belts?

key holders are often suspicious people and want to prevent the wearer from manipulating the padlock

Damien I see them as unnecessary demonstration of power over the belted person, or as a way to satisfy the keyholder's unhealthy urge of control.

that's true, but in a way it's exactly what the key holder wants and sometimes the person in the belt too

Elsa But they didn't always tell me everything why my sister was punished. I've only noticed often that it was like that.

you probably noticed when your sister wore thigh bands, as far as i remember wearing the bands was her punishment for cheating right?

Renita

curious What are your rules and what is your status as wearer then?

Do you want my story again? Here is the short version.

I'm a voluntary wearer
Voluntarily doesn't mean I'm allowed to take the belt off whenever I wish
I wear my belt 24/7 with few exceptions, like doctor/court visit. Dating is not in this list. Despite my age I'm still attractive to men.

Kaja

Damien True. Good point bro

Damien

Andrew I agree. This concentration on the object "belt", by the way, is the definition of fetish. The parent who concentrates on the belt instead of his daughter is a fetishist. Fetishists are not evil people, and I do not want to insult anybody's parents here. But we should take a step back and be more open about the artificial division between "serious" and "fetish".

Ines

Damien

It is not about the object, Damien, it is about the process.
We do not have systematic checks, but the very less that I can expect of a keyholder is interest. It is not about lock and forget.
You will have to check that everything is going OK, that if I try to cheat has importance for you...

I see that totally opposite to you.

Damien

Ines If the process is beneficial to you, I am all for it Ines.

Ines

Jen

I obviously respect every other approach if no one is forced.
But Demien and your way are very different of mine

Damien

Dear Jen, do you care to share stories about your going out belted? Do you avoid embracing your friends so your (hip style?) my-steel cannot be felt? Do you feel more relaxed and safe being belted, or do you sometimes feel like you should have left it at home? Was there an instance you changed your behaviour in a conversation or flirt because you were belted?

Jen

Ines yeah I get it and actually what you've got - like it's a bit what I'm missing and I know yeah - I want to be independent but also help with it so yeah. I think it would be easier growing up with it being normal.

Damien First bowling! I'd checked myself every angle in the mirror but still standing there and the eyes on my butt 😳 - was crazy.

Was too worried though - didn't wear it out much. Don't care now - people find out - just don't want pics on Insta - but the hip is easy to hide.

Now it depends on what - concerts and nightclubs I love it I love the music in me and it's not right without my belt. Camping (with showers!!!) well it was ok but out on the lake on the sup it was annoying me and it was just silly.

Friends don't know I'm strict with it - I say it's a game & keep the boys away. It's harder with people who don't know, like them not knowing makes it seem like a bigger difference between us like a bit of a submissive feeling cause I've got this secret restriction and they don't. It's mostly my extended family - they don't know and I don't want them to.

Yeah I avoided embracing, but didn't need to - even friends that know, they can't always tell. I push my tummy out and as long as hands aren't too low there's nothing to feel. Yikes enough

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