Vanessa Ladies, I think I have been missunderstood. 😥
So I shall try again. 😍
1) This is a general point, it is not specific for dating:
If they notice your belt then you just tell them that it is an anti rape device. 🤗
If they should bully or ridicule you wearing it then just them that you had two near misses. That should get them quiet.
2) Tell them that you are no going to have any sexual intercourse before wedlock because it is your cherished family tradition.
This obviously easier to do in the red parts of the USA than in the rest of the western world.
2) Introduce him to your parents.
They have a longer and therefore better life experience than you.
And they are not influenced by your love hormons.
Listen to them carefully.
3) Once you trust your fiancée enough, tell him about your belt. Otherwise it is time to say goodbye.
4) This you better do sooner than later as hugging you will make him wondering what you are wearing underneath.
5) He will figure out that you mean business.
6) How to select and find a decent husband is quite a different matter.
However, this is the first thing to consider.
The belt issue is comparatively no quite as important.
I plan to read Suzanne Venker's "Women Who Win at Love: How to Build a Relationship That Lasts".
I might do a thread about it and ad my two rappen.
If anybody is interested, that is.
