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English used to have it, "ye" as both plural and formal (like French vous), "thou" as the informal/familiar singular (tu).
Interesting,I've never read it;is it often used?
Vanessa Not anymore. Now it is "you" for everyone, but back in Shakespeare's time, thou wouldst have used different pronouns for casual or formal addresses.
Ok,I thought it is used presently.
youdontknowme but back in Shakespeare's time,
OMG sorry but I know texts from that time, I don't even understand german there
Angelina Sometimes it feels like those texts are as close to German as they are to modern English. Especially when thou hast got sentence parts like "thou hast".
that's right yes
Max9 I was mostly hairless when they first put it on me, since I started to grow hair I trim it with my dad's body hair trimmer, it's a Braun. Otherwise if the hair catches in the cage it gets really uncomfortable.
lucy I just read a bit about your situation, and first I want to say I don't agree with your needing to wear a chastity belt, and neither that you need to let yourself be washed etc. by your mother. That she keeps saying she doesn't trust you seems unfair, since that was based on something you did perhaps 2 years ago - doesn't she get that people change a lot at your age, and it seems no more than normal to give you at least an occasional chance to prove yourself.
But since it doesn't look like you can change the situation, the only thing you can influence is the way you look at it. There have been a lot of posts here about how differently voluntary wearers experience their limitations, compared to involuntary wearers. Your thoughts and feelings about being your mother washing you (among other things) sound perfectly normal to me, but suppose you could try to look at it from another angle: like you are pampered by your mother - just like at the hairdressers, manicure, etc. - just 'sit back' and relax, and try not to think the negative thoughts, that might be perfectly valid, but don't help you.
lucy I can imagine that asking again is not very useful, and every time it is denied, it is another disappointment. But if you would want to see if they situation could be improved, the only thing I can think of is just ask her when you'll get an opportunity to prove yourself to her, or even if she will ever give you one (or that she won't ever trust you again).
lucy i have tried to talk to her about this many times but no success...so i am now doing as she says.
what a pity, what a pity indeed.
When you write here, it always seems as if your mother blocks everything 100% immediately. do you actually have a boyfriend in the meantime, so that there is at least a chance of getting out of the belt in the future?
lucy no luck in changing her mind.
I wasn't suggesting trying to change her mind, at least not directly, just to get her thinking about how long she should continue to distrust you, and keep up these measures. (I get visions of you don't finding a life partner, and your mother still showering and shaving you when you are 60, and she is around 90 )
If you ask her if she will keep distrusting you forever, without any re-evaluation or the chance to prove yourself, what does she say then? (I get the impression that she is not very reasonable, but I'd hope that even she should see that she shouldn't keep this up indefinitely.)