Hair

Ines
Good to know. I still have hair where it should be

Joh

Joh Good to know.

Did not you know that you are a man?

Ines but obviously the lack of tidininess with hair (body hair, eyebrows, head hair...) is obviously a good reason to punish a girl.

i don't think a girl should be punished for this, if a girl doesn't care it's really only to her own detriment

Angelina
And parents can not consent it.

By my mom...she uses gel cream veet.

Ines And parents can not consent it.

do you think it is up to the parents to take care of it? with small children yes, but with older girls the parents can at most be good role models

Ines Did not you know that you are a man?

I know I am an man. And I never doubt it.
I didn't know you like hairy men
I thought it is now common to have no hair beside on you head.

Ines

You would talk with her but not do it by yourself.

lucy By my mom..

This is sick. Your mother should supervise you not do it.

Ines

because you think it will harm your sister or because you think it will harm your family in general and therefore also you?

that's probably what makes the difference between your opinion and mine.

Ines However since I read here, sugaring is a wonderful way of be clean.

I agree!

Ines the lack of tidininess with hair

What do you consider as "lack of tidiness"?

Ines a good reason to punish a girl.

My parents would agree with you...

Ines

Ines I will not stop until she behave rightly.

Do you think you would be able to make her change her way to act about her hair?

Vanessa

Vanessa What do you consider as "lack of tidiness"?

For example if a girl has her hair tousled, or if she is not rightly shaved, (specially if we go to beach, pool, playing sports...) . Long neglected nails...

Vanessa Do you think you would be able to make her change her way to act about her hair?

I hope, however, fortunately, this situation does not happen in my home we are coquette, however my younger sister is not so "girly" as me or mi elder sister.

Angelina because you think it will harm your sister or because you think it will harm your family in general and therefore also you?

In first place negligence in aspect harms directly to the girl, there is not second chances for first impression. To be trim has good effect in our mood. I think that women have to care about her aspect, I like my friendd, my sisters look nice, and I do not like to be with untidy people. To worry about be pretty does not make us dumb.

Joh she does it since the first day...does not want me to touch myself in any way

lucy Did you tell her how suspicion it is if sho does it? It is near by sexual harassment

Joh told her if i can not do it under her control but she threw that idea away.

Ines For example if a girl has her hair tousled, or if she is not rightly shaved, (specially if we go to beach, pool, playing sports...) . Long neglected nails...

interesting, especially because my hair is usually the most tousled after my visits to the beach.

Ines In first place negligence in aspect harms directly to the girl,

and that's why i think it's not the parents/family's job. don't get me wrong i agree with you that we should take care of our appearance, but if for example my daughter didn't do it, i would think "it's your own fault, you have to bear the consequences".

lucy told her if i can not do it under her control but she threw that idea away.

how is it in the meantime with the shower, any changes?

Angelina no changes in that either

Ines If I would see ,for example, my sister going bad shaved armpit or groin I would make a nuisance of me, and I will not stop until she behave rightly.

Wish I had a sister but oh you'd be so annoying. I'll make myself nice sometimes but most the time meh