punishment for arousal

Sara2001

Vanessa It is probably very frustrating!

I got used to it. It helps me to focus on other things. But yes, from time to time it can be very frustrating.

Vanessa

Sara2001 It helps me to focus on other things.

But not for a long time,I guess.

carg And being single has it advantages too 😉

Maybe,but only for a short duration,I think.

Avery Thank you. I miss the closeness of being with someone, the emotional bond.

Understandable.

It was always very important for me,when I was in love.

And it is the case now with Emilie!🙂

Avery to keep their body count down and that's good.

Yes,but,even if no risk of pregnancy and less risk of STD(I think),I think they can't be considered as virgins.

Avery ou can't get your hymen back even if you change your ways.

it was discussed here several time,we can call it "second virginity"!😉

Angelina she can send the belt to the manufacturer

But @Renita would not have one on during several weeks.

Angelina as long as there is no chastity belt for the mouth, i disagree. i am also a virgin even though i have already orally "pleasured" camryn. 😉

I think it would be difficult to agree on this point...

youdontknowme I think that is called a muzzle.

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HHelen receiving oral sex is a shame

Why?

Same opinion about giving oral?

And not for a man?

Kaja

I agree.

Avery

It could be nice too,however!🙂

Kaja Oral? Virgin.
Anal? Virgin.

I disagree.

Avery I found my first time a rather momentous event. Suspect a lot of girls feel that way.

Me too.

I've often heard we never forget our first time,and I tend to think it's true.

Angelina hmm... then by your definition i will probably be a virgin forever ? 😂

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carg

Vanessa I hope you would find someone soon,so!

Why? I think you are very happy in your relationship, so it is logical you wish that for everyone, but some people might not be looking for a relationship. And being single has it advantages too 😉
For Avery being in a relationship would probably make it harder to stick with her sacrifice to keep chaste. (And she doesn't need to get married to get rid of her belt 😮 ) So I just wish for Avery to have the relationship status she is most happy in.

Avery

carg For Avery being in a relationship would probably make it harder to stick with her sacrifice to keep chaste. (And she doesn't need to get married to get rid of her belt 😮 ) So I just wish for Avery to have the relationship status she is most happy in.

Thank you for that. If I had a guy I was serious about I would happily shag him. And I really miss getting eaten. I just want to be a lot more discriminating than I was in high school and I think I can make that work.

Avery

Vanessa I hope you would find someone soon,so!

Thank you. I miss the closeness of being with someone, the emotional bond.

Vanessa But I think still having a hymen or not is not what being virgin mean.

Having oral sex is still having sex,so not truly virgin,in my opinion.

I know how many feel about the oral but some girls use it to keep their body count down and that's good. The thing that troubles me about the hymen is what if you make a mistake when you're 15. You can't get your hymen back even if you change your ways. God forgives sins, why can't people. And I was not a virgin when I was raped but say I was, I lose my hymen but it would not have been what I wanted.

Angelina

Avery Excellent. Hope it happens sooner rather than later.

it will happen as soon as we are ready to take this step 😃

Renita The belt is always on me.

she can send the belt to the manufacturer

Vanessa Having oral sex is still having sex,so not truly virgin,in my opinion.

as long as there is no chastity belt for the mouth, i disagree. i am also a virgin even though i have already orally "pleasured" camryn. 😉

Renita

Vanessa It is already something you didn't want to be prevented to do.

And many other things.

Angelina she can send the belt to the manufacturer

And let me go without the belt? 😃

youdontknowme

Angelina as long as there is no chastity belt for the mouth, i disagree. i am also a virgin even though i have already orally "pleasured" camryn.

I think that is called a muzzle. But yeah, I would say that virginity, without any further qualifiers, refers to things that resemble activity that could result in pregnancy and stuff, i.e. things like genital-to-genital interaction. Not sure where penile-anal penetration comes in there, as it is probably the closest thing gay males have to conventional sex, but too much lawyering around the definition of virginity makes me think of The Loophole by Garfunkel and Oates.

Angelina

Renita And let me go without the belt? 😃

good point, but you can fix that with a spare belt 😉

Renita

Angelina but you can fix that with a spare belt

Especially since she has my measurements 😃

HHelen

Avery Bet they do a lot of oral rather than penis in vagina.

Even worse.

Angelina good point, but you can fix that with a spare belt

I think a spare belt is a good idea anyway.

Angelina

youdontknowme

the exact definition of virgin is of course difficult. i myself consider myself a virgin as long as i have not had an orgasm through my girlfriend.

Renita Especially since she has my measurements 😃

she has them, right?

HHelen I think a spare belt is a good idea anyway.

do you have one for you or your daughter?

Jen What about giving

do you mean when you give "it" to another person? then of course you yourself remain a virgin

Avery

HHelen Even worse.

Can you please say a little more about that. Your view is that doing oral is worse than intercourse? Is it a moral or a religious or cultural belief? Thank you.

HHelen

Avery Your view is that doing oral is worse than intercourse?

I think, receiving oral sex is a shame for a girl. Hence the secondary shield is a great invention.

Avery

HHelen I think, receiving oral sex is a shame for a girl. Hence the secondary shield is a great invention.

Thank you.

Kaja

HHelen Oral sex is womderful for both partners!

Jen

HHelen I think, receiving oral sex is a shame for a girl.

What about giving I know it's still kind of a cheat on virginity and hymen in gone from solo. But still never been f***ed and that's what virgin means to me.

Raziel

@Avery
Posting here, since it's out of topic from the "where to put my keys" forum.

For finding the right guys, you'd have to really test them to see if they have great attention spans, having a long lasting hobby is a good sign, as well as organization. If you find athletic guys, that sounds like a start for beginning a potential bond, but body types will never be enough to clue you in on how well they last or perform.

I have plenty of energy when it comes to personal time with women. To be honest, I prefer giving pleasure more than receiving it. The idea of hearing how the woman reacts is always nice and erotic. Hidden public adventures is one thing I'd do together that doesn't involve physical touch, but heightens their minds and awareness. I even know I am definitely a physical type language for love, where I enjoy hugs, cuddles, and kisses more than anything. That would be my ideal way to have fun if I met someone in person to take it to that level.

Avery

Raziel If you find athletic guys, that sounds like a start for beginning a potential bond, but body types will never be enough to clue you in on how well they last or perform.

Thank you for that. I highlighted the part about athletic guys because most of the guys I know are jocks. I would like to get to know different types of guys. This is why I sometimes say I know lots of guys and other times say I have no idea what I want. I have my father as a model, he is a high earner, treats my mother well, treats us well, doesn't drink or mess with women, was an athlete but kind of retired and at one time actually started smoking. I hope maybe in grad school and later out at work I will meet a broader sample of guys. We'll see what develops.

Avery

Kaja Oral sex is womderful for both partners!

It's a great thing to share. The thing I miss most since I haven't been with boys.

HHelen

Kaja Oral sex is womderful for both partners!

Not for people pretending to stay chaste.

Jen What about giving

Little better.

Angelina do you have one for you or your daughter?

I'm not as strict as @Renita 's mother.

Vanessa Why?

If she claims herself as a virgin.

Joh

Avery I prefer girls 😄

Avery

Joh I prefer girls

Well I swore off boys but I think substituting girls would be cheating.

Joh

Avery Well I swore off boys but I think substituting girls would be cheating.

This depends on the point of view.

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