punishment for arousal

Joh

kat_anders I dont know everthing about sex yet but i can wait until im married.

What's in it for you apart from your parents being happy?

kat_anders

Joh
if they are happy then so am i. I am willing to wear the belt because it pleases them and it keeps me on the right path.

Kaja

kat_anders OMG!

Avery

kat_anders if they are happy then so am i. I am willing to wear the belt because it pleases them and it keeps me on the right path.

Sounds good. Ignore the critics if you're OK with the situation.

Angelina

Renita I don't see any changes yet.

really? didn't you say yourself that it would be more difficult now if you wanted to stop wearing the belt? i see this as a big change

kat_anders I dont know everthing about sex yet but i can wait until im married.

the belt is not only about sex but also about masturbation, besides it will be more difficult if you are in a relationship at some point.

kat_anders if they are happy then so am i. I am willing to wear the belt because it pleases them and it keeps me on the right path.

there is a simple way to find out how voluntary the whole thing is. what would happen if you refuse to continue wearing the belt?

Laura

kat_anders I dont know everthing about sex

Everything or anything? 😂

kat_anders

Laura

i know some, not too much

kat_anders

Avery

thankyou

Joh

Avery Ignore the critics if

Are you referring to my questions?
My questions should not be understood as criticism. I only want to use my questions to make her aware of the situation she is in. Only when she knows all the advantages and disadvantages, what the consequences are in the long term and what advantages she sees in it, only then is it an informed decision.

I have no problem with your, @Amira or the other their decision as long as I have the feeling that it is well-founded.

Vanessa

Renita No, she thinks the current belt is enough as long as it does what it's supposed to and I can't take it off.

Even if you want another style(like hip style one if you have a waist style one)?

Renita Sign of a weakness.

Not a big problem.

Renita I don't think it can be broken.

Every chastity belt can be broken.

HHelen Yes.

Are you sure she doesn't cheat during it?

Sara2001

Which ones would be cancelled?

Angelina but i can also lose my hymen without a penis 😉

Right.

Even when doing sports.

Avery

She seems more a convince wearers than a willing wearer,however.

Angelina what would happen if you refuse to continue wearing the belt?

Good question.

Renita

That it is not your choice anymore.

Joh

Angelina not only about sex but also about masturbation

I include masturbation in the generic term sex.

Angelina what would happen if you refuse to continue wearing the belt?

Good question. @kat_anders let us know what will they say, please.

Renita

Angelina didn't you say yourself that it would be more difficult now if you wanted to stop wearing the belt?

What do you mean? I wanted to quit and got refused, but what was the change?

kat_anders

Angelina

i think the point is to prevent sex and masturbation. What happens later i dont know yet.

kat_anders

Joh

I dont know what they will say, its not somethng i want to find out.

Angelina

Joh I include masturbation in the generic term sex.

ok, but that's two completely different things

Renita What do you mean? I wanted to quit and got refused, but what was the change?

that it was easier for you to stop before

Vanessa Even when doing sports.

rather unlikely when jogging and/or walking 😉

kat_anders I dont know what they will say, its not somethng i want to find out.

i don't think that's right, at least they should tell you what would happen. so i would rather call you an involuntary wearer.

Renita Actually it was never my choice.

but you thought it was your choice?

Laura

Renita but what was the change?

You are required to wear your belt all the time now.

Sara2001

Vanessa Which ones would be cancelled?

I will get out of the belt from time to time for playing and I will more often be able to be without the chain of my tightbands when we want to walk for a while for example.

Renita

Vanessa Even if you want another style(like hip style one if you have a waist style one)?

It wouldn't be a problem, since I pay.

Vanessa Every chastity belt can be broken.

Without tools?

Vanessa That it is not your choice anymore.

Actually it was never my choice.

HHelen

Vanessa Are you sure she doesn't cheat during it?

No, but it's acceptable risk.

Vanessa

Sara2001

Not much,but better.

Joh

Vanessa Not much,but better.

It is depended on the point of view. She was involved and agreed to the rules.

Sara2001

Vanessa Not much,but better

Yes, but we decided to make it as strinct as it is realistically possible. This means regular adjustments to find the realistic setup, but at the end it will be not much freedom.

Vanessa

Joh

Sure.

kat_anders

It would be better to know,however.

Renita It wouldn't be a problem, since I pay.

And you don't want another one,in a different style?

Renita Without tools?

Generally,no,with tools,but classical ones,I think.

Renita Actually it was never my choice.

I thought it was your idea at first.

In this case,it was at least your choice to suggest it.

Angelina rather unlikely when jogging and/or walking 😉

Right,only some sports.

HHelen

Good for her.

She can shower alone,at least.

Renita Because she suspects me.

Suspects of what?

Trying to cheat?

Sara2001

Good you would adjust it,however.

Renita Yes, she agreed only if it was serious.

No other possible keyholder?

Joh

kat_anders I dont know what they will say, its not somethng i want to find out.

You can also go through life with an ostrich tactic, but in my opinion it's not a good one.
Part of growing up is learning to face unpleasant situations. But in the end, it's your decision.

Renita

Laura You are required to wear your belt all the time now.

Because she suspects me.

Angelina that it was easier for you to stop before

I didn't try.

Angelina but you thought it was your choice?

Yes, I thought I could quit any time, but I was wrong.

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